Angelina We met yesterday at a coffee shop near where Alexis has her shop. Alexis sat with me until this lady (I will call her Monica) showed up, and then she politely excused herself so just the two of us could talk.
Monica, is a single woman, divorced, who has 2 children, a 23 year old son who is no longer at home and an 18 year old daughter, who she was here to talk about. The daughter who I will call "Jane" is 18 and will be going to be going to a new high school for her senior year. Apparently Jane behaved like the class slut and slept with over a dozen boys at the school, that Monica knows about, and apparently one of their father's too.
Jane was the source of constant ridicule and Monica too for being unable to control her daughter. Both agreed that a fresh start at a new school was the best thing but Monica does not want a repeat there. She looked into a chastity belt for her daughter, among other things apparently, and though that this was an avenue worth pursuing, so Alexis put the two of us together.
I told her that I am not a psychologist and the only advice I could offer her was my experiences with the girls and their belts. I asked her if she had talked to Jane about this and if so what were her thoughts? She said she was not crazy about the idea but would "consider it". I told Monica that consent is an absolute must, if she does not buy in to belting, it will be very difficult to make this successful. She has to want to do it for the right reasons, she has to admit that she has a problem and be willing to help stop that problem. Even if she does consent to wearing it you have to match her commitment to making it a success.
I wen through the whole ordeal that I had with Susan and then with Kate. The value of wearing them, the slow ramp up to be comfortable with them, the multiple belts I bought and then 24/7 wearing. Granted I am in a much better position than her, my girls bought into my vision as to the value of chastity and they never behaved in such an appalling manner as Jane.
I told Monica that I do think it will be much more difficult for Jane as she has essentially enjoyed unchecked sexual escapades and look at where it has gotten her, shame and a label that will be hard to shake. In any case we talked about what Monica would have to deal with, the financial costs, which did not seem to be an issue, and the change in lifestyle for both mother and daughter. I told her all of the duties (cleaning, new wardrobes, logistical issues) that I now have to handle, which I didn't have before, The most important being the emotional costs of perhaps dealing with a girl who may want the belt off, for the wrong reasons, but you must constantly remind her why it is best she wears it. If she truly thinks this is best for Jane than she needs to match her commitment so these sexual shenanigans can be halted.
I think it was a good meeting, I did tell her that I would be willing to meet with her one more time with one of my girls, Susan said she would, if she wanted to bring Jane. I can only give my thoughts as a keyholder. Susan would have to share her experiences from the viewpoint of a wearer.
