just for fun and interest, should i wear a belt after after the wedding?

youdontknowme

Sasha almost wondering what people would say about me after marriage lol.

You wear the belt for a specific reason that is not related to any specific views on the morality of masturbation. Unless your future spouse is planning to continue your remedial education (and I feel like you should only marry after you believe you can handle independence), the belt, if it were used, would fulfill a different purpose than it does now.

I always feel as if it is a waste for someone who already has the experience and training for long-term wear to turn their back on chastity completely, but you and your spouse would have to define any new use - and you should probably also spend some unbelted time between being belted for disciplinary/educational reasons and being belted for... ahem... marital reasons, just to put a clear dividing line between those uses.

Milord

youdontknowme I always feel as if it is a waste for someone who already has the experience and training for long-term wear to turn their back on chastity completely

As a totally personal opinion, for me it sounds like "after so many years of training to be in jail it's a waste to turn back to it. Even if free you can add some bars to your house..."
Personal idea NOT applied to @Sasha

youdontknowme

Milord I believe that chastity can be a wonderful thing (but one that requires a lot of practice before you can turn it into a lifestyle thing), and with regular releases it would be a very different experience from the one she has right now. To my naïve mind, it would be more like wearing orange or striped clothes after a jail sentence, rather than voluntary house arrest.

But ultimately it is something she has to decide for herself.

curious

Sasha
Well, that is up to you.
How do you want your future to be?
Do you want to continue being belted (if so, how strictly)? What do you expect from your husband, etc?

Angelina

Sasha Now that I'm in the full chastity gear set, almost wondering what people would say about me after marriage lol.
Hope its going well for you @Angelina

I'm fine thanks and I don't feel the need to wear the belt again yet. As for you, it would probably depend a lot on what you want after your wedding and how your husband would act as key holder 🙂
and don't take this too seriously, I created this thread because a few users asked and I still find it very funny that the majority are for yes 😂

MissBlossom

Angelina I'm fine thanks and I don't feel the need to wear the belt again yet.

Yet? lol

Laura

Angelina I don't feel the need to wear the belt again yet

Even for your wife? 😂

Angelina

MissBlossom Yet? lol

i think i've said a few times that i generally never rule anything out in life 😉

Laura Even for your wife? 😂

i don't understand the question, should my wife wear a belt or are you asking if she wants me to wear one?

pestulens

Laura
Given what @Angelina has told us about her, she would probably be strongly against it.

Laura

Angelina should my wife wear a belt or are you asking if she wants me to wear one?

If you want her to wear one

James

Angelina i think i've said a few times that i generally never rule anything out in life 😉

Heels for Christmas then, dah-ling? 😉

Angelina

Laura If you want her to wear one

no, there is no reason for that

Joh

Angelina Not even you yourself as a sign to your wife that you belong to her? 😉 🤣

Saintprudence

Joh People have been trying that one on Angelina for YEARS with no luck, lol.

Angelina

Joh Not even you yourself as a sign to your wife that you belong to her? 😉 🤣

for this we wear wedding rings 😉

Joh I took into account her statement that she describes herself as submissive in her relationship rather than dominant.

uhh? i have never described myself as submissive in the relationship, my wife and i have always been equals right

James Heels for Christmas then, dah-ling? 😉

only if the christmas punch was too strong 😂

Joh

Saintprudence
Yes but I couldn't help but ask her.
I took into account her statement that she describes herself as submissive in her relationship rather than dominant.

Joh

Angelina uhh? i have never described myself as submissive in the relationship, my wife and i have always been equals right

I I find the time I will search your comment.

Joh

Angelina uhh? i have never described myself as submissive in the relationship, my wife and i have always been equals right

James Heels for Christmas then, dah-ling? 😉

I found it but I remembered it wrong.

Angelina in the family relationship with my father i am rather submissive while in the relationship with my girlfriend i am rather the somewhat dominant part (but only a little 😉

I mixed it with your father.

Angelina

Joh I found it but I remembered it wrong.

respect for finding this, although i would change my position a bit from back then. i wouldn't say today that i am slightly dominant in marriage, but rather that we take on a dominant or submissive role in different situations. for example, i tend to make strategic decisions and my wife tends to make operational ones

Angelina

wow, I've only just noticed that over 90 people took part in the survey. 😂

ok, I'm thinking about removing the humor tag, I spoke to my wife last night about what I mentioned in "belting Milady"

so the belt still fits me (I tested it again yesterday) and my wife would be quite willing to hold the keys if I asked her

I think 99.9% of all users here know my story and my background. I certainly haven't had any positive experiences with the belt, but I read here how people have had positive experiences with it, especially in a marriage. So, honestly, what could a test project look like to show me whether wearing a belt in a marriage is a good or bad idea? I'm grateful for all ideas, but please don't "just do it", if so, I want to have a concept behind it

Milord

Angelina
You can try with the following. You can get out when you want. No question asked, no consequences.
Basically you need to be convinced to stay in. This is how it will work. Then, when you are comfortable, you can change the rules, but its always you. In the end, if you dont't want, no possibility to keep you in.

Sasha

Angelina It’s a rare opportunity to turn something that was previously a negative experience into a positive one with your wife. Look forward to see what you decide, if you’ll want the accessories and why, etc

JonesMacGyver

Angelina Wearing a belt with a married key-holder is very fun for us! Work into it gradually. It will be easier to get into it; however, it will take a little time to develop routines. Talk with your partner, and develop rules together. It will get interesting. I think the best thing for YOU is to stage "Emergency" keys that are available to you. Define what emergency means (pain, issues, doctor's appt and so on) and live life and have fun.

After you are back in, you could then suggest a belt for your partner. Mine declined with good reasons (and is what I expected.)

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