WriterAlexis It has always been more an issue of independence and dignity for me.
You are not very talkative about your situation. I mean, Alexis, I'm unable to understand why you wear. And it's ok, you don't need to share. You are very keen on understanding the world ("Wise" is the word I have in mind). For sure you opened my eyes to several things I never suspected existed.
I can understand that a very intelligent person as you is more mortified by the belt than someone who is not even able to imagine a different situation.
I will open a champagne bottle and toast to your freedom when you will be unbelted.