Getting out from the belt

Milord

Avery Milady is not only willing, but enthusiastic. And we are both adults, no pressure on my side at all. I’m terrified at the idea she’s less than super happy. Thanks very much for pointing out.

Damien

Avery please don't ever be afraid to tease your boyfriend 🙂

Sasha

Milord without a family encouraging it no young girl will ever ask to be put in chastity.

As with many if not most things in the adult world there’s always an exception, myself being an example. Yes my mother half heartedly suggested it, but I decided I wanted/needed it.
Nothing is ever black and white in reality

Milord

Sasha still your parents suggested a little bit. Will you ever get in touch with a chastity belt unless your parents pointed ad it?
What will happens if you asked them out?

Sasha

Milord If I want it off because I feel I’ve matured to a point I can control myself, that’s it. Nothing more to it.
And considering the circumstances that got me there I’d have been surprised if she hadn’t suggested it even as a joke

pestulens

Sasha Something that just occurred to me, how did she know about them? Or did she not know they where real?

Joh

Sasha If I want it off because I feel I’ve matured to a point I can control myself, that’s it. Nothing more to it.

Do you believe the belt is the only way to solve your Problem or would better support from your parents by controlling yourself also be successful?

Sasha

pestulens She apparently came across this idea doing some rather frantic google searches before I was released. Which given that she learned about everything I’d been hiding for years in one sudden shot, can’t say I blame her.
But even then, the suggestion was half hearted, almost like an off hand comment is how it came across to me.

Christine

pestulens how did she know about them?

My mom read about them in some book.

For the topic, I freed myself from the belt by simply moving out. Piece of cake if you can afford it.

Milord

Christine
I'm not comfortable with the idea that you have to move out to get rid of something that you don't want on yourself for starting
May I ask how is life unbelted? What changed, it has been a barely noticeable or a great revolution? Of course only if you feel so.

WriterAlexis

Milord

I'm not comfortable with the idea that you have to move out to get rid of something

You seem to advocate positions that are both "call social services and throw the parents in jail" but also "don't move away from your family."

Christine

Milord I'm not comfortable with the idea that you have to move out to get rid of something

I moved out for my own reasons, not to get rid of the belt.

Milord May I ask how is life unbelted?

The whole life has changed.

Milord What changed, it has been a barely noticeable or a great revolution?

Nothing, but the situation has reversed.

Milord If no one wears a belt in your family, what do they think about it?

Mostly curious

Sasha

Joh Since my perspective on that is limited to only the belt I can’t say. It’s possible that I could have achieved it other ways, but this plus her support has worked so well I never felt a need to look further

youdontknowme

WriterAlexis "Threaten to throw them in jail to get fair treatment" and "move in with nicer aunts/uncles/grandparents after you threw them in jail" seem to be the main options then. The former is probably not creating a harmonious atmosphere at home and the latter requires a nicer extended family.

Milord

WriterAlexis we are talking about willingly wearing it. If she has to move out to get rid of it, we can rightfully say that she's wearing it willingly? That is the point.
Here we are talking about consequences on refusing to wear, or totally wanting out.

My personal opinion has been expressed various times, no need to repeat again.

Joh

Sasha It’s possible that I could have achieved it other ways, but this plus her support has worked so well I never felt a need to look further

This make sense.
But could you now handle it without the belt if you would try it?

Sasha

Joh I feel like that’s a maybe. Definitely a much better person than I was but not where I want to be just yet

Joh

Sasha But if you try and your are successful than you have done a big step in your development. Your parents will help you. I am sure.

Sasha

Joh Mom has been a great help in this and continues to be a great support.
I’m at a stage where I’ve taken ownership of what I’d done in the past, accepted the lasting consequences of it and I’m happy not being around the parties and all that.
But the sexual addiction isn’t quite resolved yet, so my chastity belt continues to be an invaluable resource in that, and the accessories I’ll be adding soon enough.
I know I haven’t spoken about the entire back story before but it’s a complicated series of bad decisions, and overall stupidity.
It is improving and I’m slowly developing and maturing the way I should have from the beginning

Milord

Sasha I don't know your story, but i like your positive attitude toward life. For me it makes perfectly sense.

Joh

Sasha is improving and I’m slowly developing and maturing the way I should have from the beginning

Does it mean you have a positive View on yourself that you will live later without the Help of your chastitity belt?

Sasha

Joh I’d describe my view of myself as still critical but improving, in that I am still highly critical of what got me here but this outlook is changing slowly as I do.
As for my chastity equipment, I have grown to like the concept of waiting till marriage so it will remain at least that long. What will change and evolve over time is my access to the keys. At the moment I’m allowed a break at the end of each semester, grades permitting. As I’m able to handle more I may agree to having freer access

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