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Renita

alina plus I live in small city

Why does it matter?

Angelina

welcome to the forum 🙂

i don't understand exactly the point of the belt, why do your parents let you continue to work in this job but in your free time you have to live chaste?

alina Yes it was the only "condition" they imposed for me if I wanted to keep the job and the oversexualized atmosphere of it.

that's interesting, but what exactly do your parents expect to gain from the belt? you really are a special case.
how exactly does this work in practice? do your parents know your working hours and take off your belt beforehand and lock it again afterwards? do you also wear thighbands and/or chastity bra?

Tobbe

Angelina i don't understand exactly the point of the belt, why do your parents let you continue to work in this job but in your free time you have to live chaste?

I think that's a little misunderstanding. She talk about solo sex work = play with herself, I think she means.

Angelina

Tobbe I think that's a little misunderstanding. She talk about solo sex work = play with herself, I think she means.

no, i understood that. i still don't understand the reasons because there is a huge discrepancy between sexual activity (of any kind) in front of cameras and wearing a chastity belt.

carg

alina I need to wear it always when not doing sex work.

I actually wouldn't be surprised if you could earn more money wearing the belt during your sex work - of course it is more of a niche market, so it might be harder to find the right customers, but they will probably pay more too. But that is of course not for everybody, and you might even be glad to be out of the belt at those times.

Have you ever considered giving up the work because of the discomfort and limitations the belt gives you? (Not saying you should or shouldn't, just wondering)

Renita

alina also everyone knows everyone so if you are marginalized the effects are like, absolute in your everyday life

Do they also know about your new underwear?

Angelina

alina So they want to be sure to prevent me from such activities.

so your work is the only chance for you to have sexual activity at the moment?

alina I have reduced my personal contact with them and it's not good, but I will try to convince my parents to at least remove my belt when my friends come to our house to visit me.

the belt is not so big that you can't hide it. i hide all my equipment and only my best friend knows it. there is no reason not to meet your friends even if you wear the belt if you hide it well enough. 🙂

youdontknowme

Angelina so your work is the only chance for you to have sexual activity at the moment?

Never blur the lines between business and pleasure.

Angelina

youdontknowme Never blur the lines between business and pleasure.

that is why i wrote activity and not pleasure

alina I'm not in quiet adult social circle where everyone sits on table and just talk 😆

not me either, but you should find the courage. even if something is conspicuous about you, most people don't suspect that a chastity belt is the reason anyway. if you have concrete questions, i can try to help you, but don't give up your life because of the belt. 🙂

Renita

alina No not even my two closest female friends knows it.

Your parents might tell everybody.

Megan

alina If you are happy that is good.
It's good that your parents support you and you control the shows.

Jen

alina someone may accidentally touch on "something solid" under my dress and than it's over... I'm not in quiet adult social circle where everyone sits on table and just talk 😆

😆 Yeah not getting touched is weird. Easy to hide from sight not touch

Renita

alina they will be called bad parents

Because they want their daughter to wear a chastity belt?

Jen

alina how to dress for hot summer days? I can use a dress but it still can reveal marks of the belt under it

Just don't worry, most of my clothes hide it - like it's just your nerves

alina how about when people will hug or get closer for any other reason?

Also just don't worry😆 as long as there's no wandering hands

alina what can I say to excuse I won't be running or doing exercises or other things that I feel uncomfortable with the belt on?

You gotta get that belt off and run!
Period pain, complain about your cycle being all over the place, pill not working and making me sick. Good excuse for not wanting to be touched.

alina no beach or "pajama parties" anymore...

Yeah that's stuffed

Megan

Jen You gotta get that belt off and run!

You can run. If it slips and slide up and down you it will cut you to ribbons anyway and that shouldn't be tolerated.
There have been girls before who had such a bed fit I have to wonder how they wore shoes. Can you imagine running with shoes several sizes to big how your feet would be torn to ribbons? It is the same on your belt

Renita

alina Because people will know I made "mistakes in the past" and they couldn't prevent it.

They shouldn't tell it, but that they want to prevent such mistakes in advance.

Jen

Megan If it slips and slide up and down you it will cut you to ribbons anyway and that shouldn't be tolerated.

Can't even sit and stand safely!
Nah mine doesn't slide I got it tight but still running - like 30 seconds is fine but not a proper run - the butt cable 🥵

Angelina

alina

i can join @Jen in many

alina how to dress for hot summer days? I can use a dress but it still can reveal marks of the belt under it

wear a longer dress made of stiffer fabric then no one will see it

alina how about when people will hug or get closer for any other reason?

you are "only" wearing the belt? no one should hug you down there

alina what can I say to excuse I won't be running or doing exercises or other things that I feel uncomfortable with the belt on?

that you have back pain, leg pain etc. some sport exercises you can also do with the belt, but you should test this yourself.

alina no beach or "pajama parties" anymore...

i have a special swimming suit, but yes you are right, there are not many options sorry 🙁

youdontknowme

Angelina you are "only" wearing the belt? no one should hug you down there

I think this is less about grabbing the belt and more about possibly bumping into the waistband while the bodies are in close proximity. If you only do lean-in hugs with the lower bodies well-apart, the risk is not there of course, but people have different hugging habits.

Also like the scare quotes around "only". I guess if she only wore her belt, every attempt at secrecy would be out of the window. Though I am sure it would look stunning.

Angelina

youdontknowme

of course it depends on how you hug, but i think you can conceal that with matching clothes or jewellery etc. etc. you can also learn the technique and even if the person opposite feels something, what should he/she think, certainly not that i am wearing a chastity belt. besides, as a wearer of a full equipment, i have to write that in "".

Jen

i agree with @carg, the idea is very good 🙂

alina Yes it's bad. Now I use swimming suit during work only...

I am sorry 🙁

Jen

alina This is what I fear most

I worried a lot too but it seems OK I tested with mum - she couldn't feel it - hugging, standing sideways was fine. Sitting straight was fine but leaning on the couch she could feel an edge.

carg

Jen Good idea! Alina should try that with her parent(s) as well, to know better what is OK and what to avoid. (With a different body and a different belt, the results might not be the same as with Jen.)

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