Sara2001 I can tell you from my own experience that while it is a lot of work and very time consuming
Yeah, and I guess that's my point. The more other things you've got on your plate, the harder it is to maintain the routine, or to maintain the willingness to do so. Kudos to everyone here who manages!
Sara2001 What in detail do you have in mind when you say that it doesn't match to your real life?
We've got plenty of daily activities where wearing a belt or keeping it a secret would be too much of a challenge, from our experience. Examples are sports, raging and cuddling with children, other people in the house on regular occasions where repeatedly using a hair dryer after toilet - to stick to your example - would certainly raise some eyebrows, sunbathing in the backyard in plain view of the neighbors,... We've got a couple of more examples very specific to us individually, but I'd rather not share too much detail.
But again, that's one particular reason why I am intrigued by this forum, maybe we'll learn something new which changes matters.
Sara2001 What do you mean with mostly man-led-relationship?
It means I have the lead in our relationship. Probably no surprise here, but we're living in a very liberal and emancipated society nowadays so I don't take that for granted. Hope it's clearer now.
Sara2001 How often do you allow her to enjoy her body when she is out of the belt?
I think it's enough to say that we're both having fun!
