Introductions

Alex

Hi, I'm Alex, boy, I'm 15. I'm sorry for my english, I have to use a translator to write texts. I have been looking for discussions on the Internet for a long time where I could share my problem, because in my country there is very little information on this topic. I'm wearing a chastity belt too - that was a year ago or so. I would be interested to know if there is anyone from Russia here?

Angelina

Alex

welcome to the forum 🙂

i have read a few posts from you, but i still didn't understand who has the keys ?
why did you wear the belt one year ago and not anymore ?

Tim I would probably think the same way, but feeling respect and acting respectful are not the same thing.

now because i was brought up differently, it is the same with me, because in our family honesty still stands before respect 🙂

Vanessa

Angelina i do not have to be submissive to wear a belt, but that does not mean that i wear the belt voluntarily.

I agree.

Angelina i do not feel uncomfortable with it, this forum has helped me a lot to deal better with my situation and also to get to know different perspectives on the topic chastity 🙂

I think it is the case for many people here,and that's good that the board can help us.

Tim And I wouldn't in your situation.

Each people probably would react differently.

Alex

Welcome!

Angelina your father's statement is very unclear

I agree.It makes him able to decide how long @Alex would have to wear it without any explanation.

Tim

Angelina now as i have often written, the consequences are extremely hard and even if i hate the belt, it is not worth starting a "family war"

I would probably think the same way, but feeling respect and acting respectful are not the same thing.

If I was in your situation, I would act respectful, but I would not want to keep up the relationship after I became independent. That's the difference between us.

Sara2001

Tim And I wouldn't in your situation. I would either resent him or be like @Sara2001. That's just how my brain works.

Sorry, I ignored this conversation until now, but it looks like you have many questions to me. Please feel free to ask. But maybe not in the introduction thread 🙂

Tim

Angelina now because i was brought up differently, it is the same with me, because in our family honesty still stands before respect 🙂

Again, I could not live like that. If it didn't break me, I would have to sacrifice one or the other, and I would probably pretend to be honest and respectful until I was independent. (It would feel like emotional torture to me, and, when you are tortured, you will do anything to make the torture stop.)

Sara2001 Sorry, I ignored this conversation until now, but it looks like you have many questions to me. Please feel free to ask. But maybe not in the introduction thread 🙂

Thank you. I welcome anything you want to say for the questions I've already asked. The more people who answer, the better I can understand.

If it would help you to find them, I can reply to the posts where I asked the questions and ask @Sara2001 if you have anything to say.

Alex

Angelina Probably the Google translator translated it wrong, then in this form - I have been wearing the belt for 11 months (I counted) and I will wear it, as my father told me "as long as my upbringing lasts"

Angelina

Alex

ah ok, so you wear the belt for almost a year

hmm, your father's statement is very unclear, did he mention certain conditions?

Renita

Alex - I have been wearing the belt for 11 months (I counted) and I will wear it

Do you still go to school?

Alex

Angelina Well, I myself don't understand what exactly he wants. From what is more or less clear to me, this is that: I must not masturbate and have sex until the age of marriage (this is somewhere between 21-22), I must endure and train willpower, I must be humble and without objection obey all of my father's commands until I begin to live my life. Perhaps this includes something else, but so far it is not clear to me entirely.

Angelina

Alex

but at the latest when you get married you are free again ?

Tim (It would feel like emotional torture to me, and, when you are tortured, you will do anything to make the torture stop.)

i think you are going a little too far. it is certainly not easy to wear a belt, but emotional torture would go way too far

Alex

Renita Yes I am in school

Sara2001

Tim If it would help you to find them, I can reply to the posts where I asked the questions and ask @Sara2001 if you have anything to say.

Yes that would make it much easier for me 🙂

Renita

Alex Yes I am in school

What do your classmates say?

Tim

Sara2001 Yes that would make it much easier for me 🙂

OK. I will try to find time soon.

Angelina i think you are going a little too far. it is certainly not easy to wear a belt, but emotional torture would go way too far

I'm talking about myself. I know that's how it would feel for me. From what my parents say, I was not a normal child, so I don't have trouble believing you are different.

Alex

Angelina I can't say with certainty. I hope so, although knowing my father ... he may try to control me in marriage, as he climbs into the personal lives of my older brothers.

Vanessa

Alex

You should not accept it.

Alex

And I would like to express my deep gratitude to the people who created this site, that there is such a place on the Internet where teenagers and young people can share their problems in their upbringing. I do not know why I wrote this, but let it be 😁

Max9

Renita Maybe they don't know about it. I also did wear my cage in school, but nobody noticed

Alex

Renita My classmates don't know yet, except for my friend. But I think that it will not work to hide it all the time. especially since I study in a private school and in my group there are 8 people including me.

Ines

I believe you.

Alex

I remembered what I wanted to say, I'll probably write here, but if it's not on the topic, then maybe you just move this post to another topic.
I have a feeling that here, where I live, no one reacts in a special way to the fact that a teenager is wearing a chastity belt. Judging by the attitude of parents, brothers, a friend and some others, the chastity belt here refers to a simple harmless contraceptive that a teenager should wear. It's just that this "contraceptive" has a small side effect that a boy must get used to - wearing a belt means abstinence and chastity (if he doesn't get used to it and complains, he will be considered a "weakling" and a "girl") - and he will have to suffer a little. That is, "nothing special", "sheer trifle", etc.
I have fears that I am not the only one wearing in our cottage village. I am from the Caucasus (this is such a region in Russia) and here only men are involved in raising boys and everything is very religious and traditional. This is probably why people here have an absolutely normal attitude to such education, which in other countries would be considered extremely cruel.

Laura

Alex I am from the Caucasus (this is such a region in Russia)

Not from Saint Petersburg?

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