Introductions

Renita

Angelina why does your father need your virginity?

Angelina

Renita

my father doesn't want me to have sex before marriage, and he's afraid I might get pregnant

Laura

Angelina he just watches me and controls that I don't do anything forbidden

That's what I prefer to avoid

Angelina but for that i have to find a boyfriend and who wants a locked girlfriend

Are you afraid nobody would want to date you because your are locked in the belt?

Angelina

Laura

Well, I have no choice but to let my father watch me than to keep sweating and feeling dirty.

what should a boy do with me I mean he can not even touch me at the breasts and will certainly not want to wait with sex until we are married

James

Angelina I understand that Angelina. There is just a difference between that and preventing you from living life.

Belting you when you're out of the house is enough to do that - thigh bands and breasts 24/7 is about him having full control. Why else say he would have been okay with just the belt if you had submit earlier?

I do not think your dad will allow you to touch yourself at all - but I do think he will agree to other things so that you aren't effectively grounded from everything.

Laura

Angelina I mean he can not even touch me at the breast

But you can hold hands 🙂

Angelina will certainly not want to wait with sex until we are married

You should not think about yourself this way, e.g. you must have sex because a guys doesn't want to wait. And that's regardless if you are belted or not.

Angelina

Laura

yes you're right we can still hold hands 😃

I think the right one would wait for me but how am I supposed to find him if I scare him away directly when he sees that I am so closed ?

Sara2001

Angelina I think the right one would wait for me but how am I supposed to find him if I scare him away directly when he sees that I am so closed ?

Hopefully that doesn't lead to an unwanted filter for you. I have mixed feelings about a boyfriend that fully accepts me being belted. More likely he will see you in belted after marriage, too. That's why I'm so reserved when some girls say that it a good thing if he accepts your belt.

The best that could happen is a boyfriend that hates your belt with his heart but loves you enough to wait until marriage without destroying the relationship to your family. At least when you want to live without a belt after marriage.

Do you think your father want's you to be belted by your husband after wedding? Was your mother belted by him?

Vanessa

Laura My dad also has my keys, but he is only allowed to unlock and lock the belt back, I wouldn't let him touch me.

My father supervise me during showers sometimes too,but he doesn't touch me(same when I do my sugaring),he just watch that my hands don't go somewhere they're should not more than necessary...More humiliating when it it is him instead of my mother,however.

James Sorry to hear that Angelina. As I said, it's up to you if you want to try and negotiate for something else dad will accept and you can live with.

Generally,if we've to wear a chastity belt,we haven't a true chance to negotiate,except if we want to live on our own and have bad relationship with our family...

Angelina yes i will probably have to live with it until i am married, but for that i have to find a boyfriend and who wants a locked girlfriend

At least,even if he doesn't want a locked girlfriend,he may accept to wait before making love with you.

Angelina I think the right one would wait for me but how am I supposed to find him if I scare him away directly when he sees that I am so closed ?

if you don't tell him right now,and he fall in love with you,he could accept it more easily,especially if it is the right one.I dated Emilie for some times before telling her about my chastity belt.In fact,I dated her and a man at the same time(I'm bisexual),and I don't tell anyone,nor kiss anyone,before I choose(so I don't cheat on her,and the man don't know I'm belted;better that way,he was angry at me that I choose Emilie,so better he don't knew about my chastity belt...).

Sara2001 I have mixed feelings about a boyfriend that fully accepts me being belted. More likely he will see you in belted after marriage, too. That's why I'm so reserved when some girls say that it a good thing if he accepts your belt.

It would be still different.For now,we can't masturbate,nor make love and it is difficult to start dating while wearing it.If married,we'll be with the right one,and wil be unbelted frequently enough to make love;even if he/she doesn't want us to masturbate,it will be more bearable.

Angelina through the air holes I don't sweat so much anymore so it's a bit better

At least a good news for you!

Angelina I found the belt already bad but so completely closed to be and the 24/7 makes me totally finished. I wake up every night and try to free myself but it brings nothing 🙁

Logical;take care your father doesn't notice it,he may not be lenient at all if ne notices you fight it.

Angelina

Sara2001

my parents separated shortly after the birth and I have no contact to my mother 🙁

yes, it was nice to find a friend who released me from chastity, but you're right, a man wants the woman to remain faithful to him and so he could keep me humble on the one hand and on the other hand make sure that I do not cheat on him.

so i was allowed to get out for about an hour but of course under supervision. i washed and shaved myself, then the belt and the tightbands were put on again.

i then went with my father to his workshop and he made a few small holes in the bra. i was not allowed to leave his side during this time (i could otherwise rub on my breasts). afterwards i was locked again.

through the air holes I don't sweat so much anymore so it's a bit better

Laura

Angelina through the air holes I don't sweat so much anymore so it's a bit better

Colander ! 🙂

Angelina

Laura

yes it's of course better than before but knowing that I won't see my breasts for a week makes me really messed up 🙁

I found the belt already bad but so completely closed to be and the 24/7 makes me totally finished. I wake up every night and try to free myself but it brings nothing 🙁

Sara2001

Vanessa If married,we'll be with the right one,and wil be unbelted frequently enough to make love;even if he/she doesn't want us to masturbate,it will be more bearable.

Of cause that's true and from our current perspective this looks like a big improvement, but it's still far away from doing whatever you want. That's what I mean.

If you look for a husband that will not keep you belted it is more difficult with the belt, at least that's what I think.

Angelina

Vanessa

yes so you're right, I would also like a young one who loves me for myself and not just my body.

i don't want to sound conceited now but i know that i'm pretty and my father knows that, too, and i've been approached by guys a couple of times.

it's really bad for me to know that a boy appeals to me and my only thought is that he shouldn't see me locked up. i'm just afraid how he reacts. besides, i'd have to keep that secret until i'm 18 anyway 🙁

my father does not wash me, he looks exactly as with you Vanessa only if I do anything with my hands. today, however, I may shower anyway only in chastity 🙁

today i have a bad day so far, today i am extremely finished . i can not imagine the next years to live so enclosed 🙁

James

Vanessa I know what you mean - but a girl can still negotiate. Touching is out, and you might still have to wear it most of the time, but you can make allowances. It's all a trade.

For example, one of the belted girls I know rides horses, and she doesn't wear thigh bands during that or a chastity bra etc, as she would not be able to ride and do that.

Megan

Angelina i don't want to sound conceited now but i know that i'm pretty

Yes same here, i am very fit but still feminine with curves. That seems to be another common theme.

Angelina i can not imagine the next years to live so enclosed

This sounds abusive. If this does not improve you may need legal help.
just like Female Genital Mutilation. A horror from the Islamic world.

Raziel

Angelina
This is really bad to ask, but would you be able to wear a diaper if you still need thigh bands? You wouldn't want to make a mess during that time of the month.

Megan is right, all these devices are enough proof to put your father in jail for abuse. You could contact police to be released, but your father would most likely be separated from you if Europe is similar to the USA.

Laura

James Exactly. If I need to have the belt off for something reasonable, I will have it off just for it.

James

Laura Exactly, which is the point I've been making. A girl should be able to have the belt off for something reasonable - if not that is abuse, honestly.

Sara2001

Laura Exactly. If I need to have the belt off for something reasonable, I will have it off just for it.

I think that's how it should be, but there are limits.

I would not get the belt of if I had the option to be on my own during this activity. It's also limited by my fathers ability to unlock and lock me. When he is not with me when I need to be unlocked, it can not happen.

Ines

James A girl should be able to have the belt off for something reasonable - if not that is abuse, honestly.

This is my household approach. To be protected is not be bullied.

Vanessa

Generally,I’m not allowed to have the belt taken off,with a few exceptions,like sports when it was mandatory,showering/sugaring(but supervised),going to the doctor...

I imagine if It was necessary for some activities(if I play tennis,or swim,or dance...),it may be allowed,but not sure and I should have a really good reason.And if it was for a sport/dance,it would be taken off right before going to it,and I would be expected to go right home to let my parents put in back on me as soon as possible.

James

Vanessa That would be fair Vanessa.

Sara2001

Vanessa ,it would be taken off right before going to it,and I would be expected to go right home to let my parents put in back on me as soon as possible.

I think I would not be allowed to do any spots or dance where a shower or things like that are needed afterwards. We have a small fitness room in our basement with a fitness bike and a walking band. I can use both with the belt on. So it would be hard to argue that it's only for my fitness. I think they would allow it if it is my passion to do something where I can go home immediately after it is over. Most probably my father would try to pick me up.

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