Introductions

Sara2001

Vanessa as long as I know,my mother don't wear a belt and she's not punished.

Oh, I didn't expect that. I expected that mostly the kids will be raised more or less in the way the parents live. Thanks for your answer.

Angelina

Sara2001

hi girls,

i really hope you're right, don't think about going out like this, how will i hide it there, my father has to see it that way ?

so at the moment i notice that i'm also physically not doing so well, i have severe pain on my thighs because whenever i accidentally make too big steps pull the tightbands on my thighs, i don't know what it looks like underneath but i think a lot of bruises.

the strong itching at the breasts is also bad for me. because the bra is completely too thick I sweat under it and it starts to itch and I can't even scratch at the breasts, the same applies underneath what is heavier by the tightbands also than before only with belt.

going to the toilet with my thighs tied together is also more difficult and cleaning them properly doesn't work at all.

it is so hard to accept that but thank you that you exist and I can talk with you

Vanessa

It is very hard to learn to live normally with thigh bands at first,but you’ll manage it a bit better after some time.

I think you should talk of these problems with your father but without asking him to take it off,and try to not fight it nor your belt(I know it isn’t easy...).Maybe if he notices you accept his decision,he’ll be a bit less strict.

Angelina

Vanessa

I actually have a few minutes ago my father said that with the sweat under the bra that is for me because just the worst . he then went with me to the bathroom, the bra unlocked and gave me a washcloth . then he locked me again 🙁

he said I could come with strong itching and sweat problems to him and I could then wash myself under supervision there. he also said that tomorrow when I have my free hour he wants to make another change to my bra and there a few small air holes clean want, so I do not sweat so.

is still bad but a bit more pleasant in any case

Laura

Angelina I actually have a few minutes ago my father said that with the sweat under the bra that is for me because just the worst . he then went with me to the bathroom, the bra unlocked and gave me a washcloth . then he locked me again 🙁

Don't you have a female relative like your gradma, who he could assign this task to? He is a man, and you are a mature girl already.

Vanessa

Well,it is not perfect,but at least,he heard one of your concern,I hope it’ll be a bit more bearable for you after these changes.

Angelina

Laura

unfortunately my grandmother doesn't live with us, i live alone with my father, it's the only possibility if i want to wash at the breast

Laura

Angelina Does anybody help you with female-specific problems?
My dad also has my keys, but he is only allowed to unlock and lock the belt back, I wouldn't let him touch me.

Angelina

Laura

no unfortunately i don't have any women in the family who live nearby 🙁

he doesn't really touch me he just watches me and controls that I don't do anything forbidden

Vanessa

Laura My dad also has my keys, but he is only allowed to unlock and lock the belt back, I wouldn't let him touch me.

My father supervise me during showers sometimes too,but he doesn't touch me(same when I do my sugaring),he just watch that my hands don't go somewhere they're should not more than necessary...More humiliating when it it is him instead of my mother,however.

James Sorry to hear that Angelina. As I said, it's up to you if you want to try and negotiate for something else dad will accept and you can live with.

Generally,if we've to wear a chastity belt,we haven't a true chance to negotiate,except if we want to live on our own and have bad relationship with our family...

Angelina yes i will probably have to live with it until i am married, but for that i have to find a boyfriend and who wants a locked girlfriend

At least,even if he doesn't want a locked girlfriend,he may accept to wait before making love with you.

Angelina I think the right one would wait for me but how am I supposed to find him if I scare him away directly when he sees that I am so closed ?

if you don't tell him right now,and he fall in love with you,he could accept it more easily,especially if it is the right one.I dated Emilie for some times before telling her about my chastity belt.In fact,I dated her and a man at the same time(I'm bisexual),and I don't tell anyone,nor kiss anyone,before I choose(so I don't cheat on her,and the man don't know I'm belted;better that way,he was angry at me that I choose Emilie,so better he don't knew about my chastity belt...).

Sara2001 I have mixed feelings about a boyfriend that fully accepts me being belted. More likely he will see you in belted after marriage, too. That's why I'm so reserved when some girls say that it a good thing if he accepts your belt.

It would be still different.For now,we can't masturbate,nor make love and it is difficult to start dating while wearing it.If married,we'll be with the right one,and wil be unbelted frequently enough to make love;even if he/she doesn't want us to masturbate,it will be more bearable.

Angelina through the air holes I don't sweat so much anymore so it's a bit better

At least a good news for you!

Angelina I found the belt already bad but so completely closed to be and the 24/7 makes me totally finished. I wake up every night and try to free myself but it brings nothing 🙁

Logical;take care your father doesn't notice it,he may not be lenient at all if ne notices you fight it.

James

Angelina Sorry to hear that Angelina. As I said, it's up to you if you want to try and negotiate for something else dad will accept and you can live with.

Renita

Angelina why does your father need your virginity?

Laura

Angelina he just watches me and controls that I don't do anything forbidden

That's what I prefer to avoid

Angelina but for that i have to find a boyfriend and who wants a locked girlfriend

Are you afraid nobody would want to date you because your are locked in the belt?

Angelina

James

I say it like this, my father would not accept any other offer from me. it is not about him to punish me but to keep me as a virgin.

yes i will probably have to live with it until i am married, but for that i have to find a boyfriend and who wants a locked girlfriend

James

Angelina I understand that Angelina. There is just a difference between that and preventing you from living life.

Belting you when you're out of the house is enough to do that - thigh bands and breasts 24/7 is about him having full control. Why else say he would have been okay with just the belt if you had submit earlier?

I do not think your dad will allow you to touch yourself at all - but I do think he will agree to other things so that you aren't effectively grounded from everything.

Angelina

Renita

my father doesn't want me to have sex before marriage, and he's afraid I might get pregnant

Angelina

Laura

Well, I have no choice but to let my father watch me than to keep sweating and feeling dirty.

what should a boy do with me I mean he can not even touch me at the breasts and will certainly not want to wait with sex until we are married

Laura

Angelina I mean he can not even touch me at the breast

But you can hold hands 🙂

Angelina will certainly not want to wait with sex until we are married

You should not think about yourself this way, e.g. you must have sex because a guys doesn't want to wait. And that's regardless if you are belted or not.

Angelina

Laura

yes you're right we can still hold hands 😃

I think the right one would wait for me but how am I supposed to find him if I scare him away directly when he sees that I am so closed ?

Sara2001

Angelina I think the right one would wait for me but how am I supposed to find him if I scare him away directly when he sees that I am so closed ?

Hopefully that doesn't lead to an unwanted filter for you. I have mixed feelings about a boyfriend that fully accepts me being belted. More likely he will see you in belted after marriage, too. That's why I'm so reserved when some girls say that it a good thing if he accepts your belt.

The best that could happen is a boyfriend that hates your belt with his heart but loves you enough to wait until marriage without destroying the relationship to your family. At least when you want to live without a belt after marriage.

Do you think your father want's you to be belted by your husband after wedding? Was your mother belted by him?

Angelina

Sara2001

my parents separated shortly after the birth and I have no contact to my mother 🙁

yes, it was nice to find a friend who released me from chastity, but you're right, a man wants the woman to remain faithful to him and so he could keep me humble on the one hand and on the other hand make sure that I do not cheat on him.

so i was allowed to get out for about an hour but of course under supervision. i washed and shaved myself, then the belt and the tightbands were put on again.

i then went with my father to his workshop and he made a few small holes in the bra. i was not allowed to leave his side during this time (i could otherwise rub on my breasts). afterwards i was locked again.

through the air holes I don't sweat so much anymore so it's a bit better

Laura

Angelina through the air holes I don't sweat so much anymore so it's a bit better

Colander ! 🙂

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