Introductions

Erik

Nick1
Whenever something is funny, whatever it is, and there is time and place, this is probably the best choice. But then still the topic is so denigrative that this rule is broken in some circumstances while it could alter someone's body. Or it could be confusing to some. E.g. chastity is associated with some things trap. Everything is fine, but in this post I would say if someone would get stuck because of alterations on the body (hormones) or become depressed and confused that is not the whole idea.

Or someone Christian intimidating others, or who are younger with it.

Nick1

Erik what do you mean by something funny.

BikelockFugitive

Nick1 Don't wear a cage if possible. Short answer.

Erik

Nick1
Anything. Also porn as the whole topic is denigrate. Porn or not? The whole thing is a matter of the natural movement. It doesn't sound as well to use porn to be able to avoid people with evil intentions, to harass them in some specific way. It is better to do a good deed and find other people (also because of what someone knows) to self and others as to not do this because it is not known that it is a good deed.

Also, it is not a good idea to get a bad name because of some interactions with people. Or maybe to you personally it would no longer be reasonable to visit a community because they are limiting and rigid. (I would have to say more about this really, this goes beyond a more common walk of matters in Christianity. And you don't have to part from what is "normal" in any case. You are not to be messed up in any way)

Kolosan 2
20 Since you died with Christ to the elemental spiritual forces of this world, why, as though you still belonged to the world, do you submit to its rules: 21 “Do not handle! Do not taste! Do not touch!”? 22 These rules, which have to do with things that are all destined to perish with use, are based on merely human commands and teachings. 23 Such regulations indeed have an appearance of wisdom, with their self-imposed worship, their false humility and their harsh treatment of the body, but they lack any value in restraining sensual indulgence.

but they lack any value in restraining sensual indulgence.

This is English. From the Dutch translation it becomes clear that:
Has no value, and only serves the purpose of own/personal satisfaction.

Vanessa

Nick1

Welcome!

Without a keyholder,it is not very useful,sure....

David278

It is easier to not do it with a chastity cage or belt,sure.But I'm not sure it is always necessary...

And masturbating,if not excessive,do no harm.It is even healthy!😉

Angelina it is very unpleasant 🙁

Even if wearing it less often,I agree.

Angelina that's right, maybe they said that it will (probably) not take very long

And that would help her manage it better,and feel better.

Angelina you have to read more than me because you are not here every day. and yes i am at the maximum too. today i even had to take a break in between, although i usually read everything at once. maybe we should stop writing in the topics where only the two of us write, so that it doesn't cost us too much time

The topics we talk together are not the ones that take me a lot of time.The ones that are long are the ones with a lot of new posts...If it become way too long,I would probably skip it,or only read the first and last posts to know what it's talking about,and supposing the questions in the firsts posts were already answered.

Renita

It's what I do,I don't read again old topics!😉

Selin_Weiss

So,a bit between liking and disliking it,but the "liking part" is a bit stronger,right?

I think it helps to manage it well.

David278

Vanessa well, but you girls are also belted to be prevented from masturbating. Agree that it can be healthy now and then, but porn consumption defintely should be prevented, especially for boys...

Angelina

Vanessa The topics we talk together are not the ones that take me a lot of time.The ones that are long are the ones with a lot of new posts...If it become way too long,I would probably skip it,or only read the first and last posts to know what it's talking about,and supposing the questions in the firsts posts were already answered.

that's right, i also have a system, especially for the days you answer. i know by now on which days you answer, so i plan more time 😉

then i read from bottom to top, because upstairs are mostly the topics with a lot of new posts, so it feels at least a bit "tidier".

but I agree with you that the topics where only the two of us write don't take that much time 😉

BTW: here it is getting too religious for me 😂

David278 porn consumption defintely should be prevented, especially for boys...

of course, pornos are absolutely unrealistic

Erik

David278

David278
porn consumption defintely should be prevented,

What is the reason for this? That it would be of use or relevant to do this?

Vanessa

David278

Yes,but I don't think masturbation must be prevented,no matter of the gender!😉

For porn,I'm not sure.If the actors and actress are doing it totally willingly(not because they desperately need money and do it only because they've no other choice),are respected,take care of their health,why not...I think major brands are ok about it.

Angelina that's right, i also have a system, especially for the days you answer. i know by now on which days you answer, so i plan more time 😉

😉

Angelina then i read from bottom to top, because upstairs are mostly the topics with a lot of new posts, so it feels at least a bit "tidier".

I do the same!🙂

Angelina of course, pornos are absolutely unrealistic

I agree.It can be fun to watch,especially in couple,and can give some ideas,but we should not expect to do the same than actors/actress(and it is even made to make viewers think it lasts way longer than it has(same scenes in different angles,or done in several parts,etc...)).

Angelina porn is an escape from reality

However you have looked at it to get some ideas to use with Camryn when married,not so long ago!😉

Erik

Angelina BTW: here it is getting too religious for me

Probably not as religions simply have certain mistakes.

Angelina David278 porn consumption defintely should be prevented, especially for boys...

of course, pornos are absolutely unrealistic

But because of what reason? Wouldn't this be backwards?

DANGER! DANGER!
EROTISM SUFFERS FROM HUNDREDS AND THOUSANDS OF YEARS OF ERRORS. DO NOT TRUST! ANYTHING COULD HAPPEN

Angelina

Erik Probably not as religions simply have certain mistakes.

the religions themselves are the mistake 😂

Erik But because of what reason?

because pornography gives a distorted picture of reality

Erik

Angelina the religions themselves are the mistake

In many cases, the deeds and how it functions, this would have to be affirmative.

Even recently, how ISIS suffered a complete humiliating defaet, while this was going to be their most holy war. On the other hand, it gives space for wiser believers to take over. The thing is: will they? I don't see the masses of Islam (beginning from Western based countries, if it must) develop this. Christianity is of a similar culture. Though also different.

On one hand it can be proven that God exists and that it is an intelligent being. On the other, praying does not lead to some type of based communication. Or unless some rare or remarkable cases you would have to personally study to draw any conclusion about how this could be of interest to self. If the thing is communication.

Angelina because pornography gives a distorted picture of reality

What do you mean? This doesn't amount to a real reason that porno would be a bad thing. Discussing it further and anything else can only lead to that conclusion.

BikelockFugitive

Erik ISIS has been defeated by 4Chan... They managed to detect one of their trainingcamps and launched an airstrike against it. Weaponized Autism of it's finest.

On one hand it can be proven that God exists and that it is an intelligent being

No you cannot prove it. Which is the problem of this entire discussion. Atheists are supposed to find evidence against something there is no evidence for. A debate so dumb I refuse to have it.

Angelina

Erik

I will only answer very briefly because this discussion is too stupid for me.

on the one hand i am not against certain religions but against all religions. most of the wars that exist and have existed in the world were fought for religious reasons. besides that i only believe in what i can prove myself

porn is an escape from reality

Angelina

Vanessa we should not expect to do the same than actors/actress

I think I'd break a few bones trying to copy that. 😂

Vanessa However you have looked at it to get some ideas to use with Camryn when married,not so long ago!😉

and for that I was punished and I honestly regret it now 😉

Andyhhh (who's locked doesn't matter to me, it's all right)

welcome again 🙂

how would it be if you both are locked up and change the keys ?

Andyhhh The longest time I've been locked for 20 days without orgasm (a hard time).

this is not a long time 😉

Andyhhh Now I'm single, holding the key by myself, and looking for a partner who would like to have try in chastity.

good idea without a keyholder the concept does not work 😉

Andyhhh

I'm Andy, a 21 years old boy from China Beijing. I have been crazy about chastity belt from very young age (about 12 or 13, I can't remember). At the begining, I regard the chastity belt as a toy about BDSM, but now I think it is a kind of life style. I'm interested in the control of sex (both control myself or someone else). So dream to have a 'chastity-relationship' with my future gf where one of us locked in chastity belt and the other hold the key (who's locked doesn't matter to me, it's all right)

I'm here to meet some friends who love chastity or had an experience in chastity belt. I wanna share my feelings about being locked in a chastity belt here and hear yours. Also I think I can get some knowledge about female chastity belt here that may be useful in the future. By the way, at the age of 18, I first tried a chastity belt designed by Holland made in China--the HolyTrainer V2. I experienced two mistresses held my key. The longest time I've been locked for 20 days without orgasm (a hard time). Now I'm single, holding the key by myself, and looking for a partner who would like to have try in chastity. This time I think I'll be the one hold the key, instead : )

Erik

Erik It is, but they float in the Western culture boat, without understanding what it's about.

Andyhhh
Hi Andy, welcome.
What I posted above here, I had some reason for saying it. It does not have to be true or is not. Or is wrongly put.

Vanessa

Andyhhh

Welcome!

Some of us here consider chastity like a life style,too.

Never had a girlfriend holding the keys to your chastity cage?

Angelina I think I'd break a few bones trying to copy that. 😂

🤣

Angelina and for that I was punished and I honestly regret it now 😉

Would you feel the same if not punished?

Angelina how would it be if you both are locked up and change the keys ?

It could be a good idea!But it would need strong willpower from both partners.

Angelina this is not a long time 😉

Sure!😉

Angelina good idea without a keyholder the concept does not work 😉

It is not true chastity,at least,if we have our keys.

Andyhhh

However,many of us here haven't got an orgasm since months or years...🙁

That's a long time!😉

Andyhhh And the less sexual-active one may be more dominant (he/she can stay in chastity longer lol)

Yes,if not equal about it,someone would have an advantage.

Angelina I mean I could definitely do without for 20 days, even without the belt 😉

In my case,without the chastity belt,I would have troubles to stay 20 days without an orgasm...

Angelina you can't know that until you have a relationship

I agree.

Andyhhh

Angelina this is not a long time

I assure you that is a long time for the boys with masturbation habits, my lady! And I think most of the boys, except the ones has been wore chastity belt before the age of puberty, would have his "happy time" more than once a week😂 . But I my ex-gf claimed that she had never done that! So I think at least in my age, the sexual needs of boys and girls are quite different. Of course, individual differences should also be considered. I must admit that I am a sexually active person, 20 days is quite hard for me. At the end of these days, I spend a lot of time :everyday begging my mistress for a release.

Andyhhh

Angelina how would it be if you both are locked up and change the keys ?

I think that would be a scenario similar to nuclear deterrence. Neither of us can constrain the other's behavior. And the less sexual-active one may be more dominant (he/she can stay in chastity longer lol)

Angelina

Andyhhh So I think at least in my age, the sexual needs of boys and girls are quite different

definitely not, if I had the chance, I would do it right now 😂
I mean I could definitely do without for 20 days, even without the belt 😉

Andyhhh And the less sexual-active one may be more dominant (he/she can stay in chastity longer lol)

let me guess, you're afraid that this will make you the submissive part, despite the very same conditions?

Saintprudence

Andyhhh Some of us here have gone months or years without orgasm! I’m in trouble right now and my wife has made clear that I’m not going to get any release for at least a few months. For the
most part, 20 days has been my average time between releases during my three years in the belt.

Rick

Andyhhh The way I see this working well is to take turns. First, she teases, but probably with a guaranteed release after not more than once every two weeks; maybe for two or three months. Then it's his turn. The chaste one is expected to tease a bit too, but ensure the partner is satisfied and motivated to be a little generous with releases.

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