Introductions

Erik

Angelina BTW: here it is getting too religious for me

Probably not as religions simply have certain mistakes.

Angelina David278 porn consumption defintely should be prevented, especially for boys...

of course, pornos are absolutely unrealistic

But because of what reason? Wouldn't this be backwards?

DANGER! DANGER!
EROTISM SUFFERS FROM HUNDREDS AND THOUSANDS OF YEARS OF ERRORS. DO NOT TRUST! ANYTHING COULD HAPPEN

Angelina

Erik Probably not as religions simply have certain mistakes.

the religions themselves are the mistake 😂

Erik But because of what reason?

because pornography gives a distorted picture of reality

Erik

Angelina the religions themselves are the mistake

In many cases, the deeds and how it functions, this would have to be affirmative.

Even recently, how ISIS suffered a complete humiliating defaet, while this was going to be their most holy war. On the other hand, it gives space for wiser believers to take over. The thing is: will they? I don't see the masses of Islam (beginning from Western based countries, if it must) develop this. Christianity is of a similar culture. Though also different.

On one hand it can be proven that God exists and that it is an intelligent being. On the other, praying does not lead to some type of based communication. Or unless some rare or remarkable cases you would have to personally study to draw any conclusion about how this could be of interest to self. If the thing is communication.

Angelina because pornography gives a distorted picture of reality

What do you mean? This doesn't amount to a real reason that porno would be a bad thing. Discussing it further and anything else can only lead to that conclusion.

BikelockFugitive

Erik ISIS has been defeated by 4Chan... They managed to detect one of their trainingcamps and launched an airstrike against it. Weaponized Autism of it's finest.

On one hand it can be proven that God exists and that it is an intelligent being

No you cannot prove it. Which is the problem of this entire discussion. Atheists are supposed to find evidence against something there is no evidence for. A debate so dumb I refuse to have it.

Angelina

Erik

I will only answer very briefly because this discussion is too stupid for me.

on the one hand i am not against certain religions but against all religions. most of the wars that exist and have existed in the world were fought for religious reasons. besides that i only believe in what i can prove myself

porn is an escape from reality

Vanessa

David278

Yes,but I don't think masturbation must be prevented,no matter of the gender!😉

For porn,I'm not sure.If the actors and actress are doing it totally willingly(not because they desperately need money and do it only because they've no other choice),are respected,take care of their health,why not...I think major brands are ok about it.

Angelina that's right, i also have a system, especially for the days you answer. i know by now on which days you answer, so i plan more time 😉

😉

Angelina then i read from bottom to top, because upstairs are mostly the topics with a lot of new posts, so it feels at least a bit "tidier".

I do the same!🙂

Angelina of course, pornos are absolutely unrealistic

I agree.It can be fun to watch,especially in couple,and can give some ideas,but we should not expect to do the same than actors/actress(and it is even made to make viewers think it lasts way longer than it has(same scenes in different angles,or done in several parts,etc...)).

Angelina porn is an escape from reality

However you have looked at it to get some ideas to use with Camryn when married,not so long ago!😉

Angelina

Vanessa we should not expect to do the same than actors/actress

I think I'd break a few bones trying to copy that. 😂

Vanessa However you have looked at it to get some ideas to use with Camryn when married,not so long ago!😉

and for that I was punished and I honestly regret it now 😉

Andyhhh (who's locked doesn't matter to me, it's all right)

welcome again 🙂

how would it be if you both are locked up and change the keys ?

Andyhhh The longest time I've been locked for 20 days without orgasm (a hard time).

this is not a long time 😉

Andyhhh Now I'm single, holding the key by myself, and looking for a partner who would like to have try in chastity.

good idea without a keyholder the concept does not work 😉

Andyhhh

I'm Andy, a 21 years old boy from China Beijing. I have been crazy about chastity belt from very young age (about 12 or 13, I can't remember). At the begining, I regard the chastity belt as a toy about BDSM, but now I think it is a kind of life style. I'm interested in the control of sex (both control myself or someone else). So dream to have a 'chastity-relationship' with my future gf where one of us locked in chastity belt and the other hold the key (who's locked doesn't matter to me, it's all right)

I'm here to meet some friends who love chastity or had an experience in chastity belt. I wanna share my feelings about being locked in a chastity belt here and hear yours. Also I think I can get some knowledge about female chastity belt here that may be useful in the future. By the way, at the age of 18, I first tried a chastity belt designed by Holland made in China--the HolyTrainer V2. I experienced two mistresses held my key. The longest time I've been locked for 20 days without orgasm (a hard time). Now I'm single, holding the key by myself, and looking for a partner who would like to have try in chastity. This time I think I'll be the one hold the key, instead : )

Erik

Erik It is, but they float in the Western culture boat, without understanding what it's about.

Andyhhh
Hi Andy, welcome.
What I posted above here, I had some reason for saying it. It does not have to be true or is not. Or is wrongly put.

Vanessa

Andyhhh

Welcome!

Some of us here consider chastity like a life style,too.

Never had a girlfriend holding the keys to your chastity cage?

Angelina I think I'd break a few bones trying to copy that. 😂

🤣

Angelina and for that I was punished and I honestly regret it now 😉

Would you feel the same if not punished?

Angelina how would it be if you both are locked up and change the keys ?

It could be a good idea!But it would need strong willpower from both partners.

Angelina this is not a long time 😉

Sure!😉

Angelina good idea without a keyholder the concept does not work 😉

It is not true chastity,at least,if we have our keys.

Andyhhh

However,many of us here haven't got an orgasm since months or years...🙁

That's a long time!😉

Andyhhh And the less sexual-active one may be more dominant (he/she can stay in chastity longer lol)

Yes,if not equal about it,someone would have an advantage.

Angelina I mean I could definitely do without for 20 days, even without the belt 😉

In my case,without the chastity belt,I would have troubles to stay 20 days without an orgasm...

Angelina you can't know that until you have a relationship

I agree.

Andyhhh

Angelina this is not a long time

I assure you that is a long time for the boys with masturbation habits, my lady! And I think most of the boys, except the ones has been wore chastity belt before the age of puberty, would have his "happy time" more than once a week😂 . But I my ex-gf claimed that she had never done that! So I think at least in my age, the sexual needs of boys and girls are quite different. Of course, individual differences should also be considered. I must admit that I am a sexually active person, 20 days is quite hard for me. At the end of these days, I spend a lot of time :everyday begging my mistress for a release.

Andyhhh

Angelina how would it be if you both are locked up and change the keys ?

I think that would be a scenario similar to nuclear deterrence. Neither of us can constrain the other's behavior. And the less sexual-active one may be more dominant (he/she can stay in chastity longer lol)

Angelina

Andyhhh So I think at least in my age, the sexual needs of boys and girls are quite different

definitely not, if I had the chance, I would do it right now 😂
I mean I could definitely do without for 20 days, even without the belt 😉

Andyhhh And the less sexual-active one may be more dominant (he/she can stay in chastity longer lol)

let me guess, you're afraid that this will make you the submissive part, despite the very same conditions?

Saintprudence

Andyhhh Some of us here have gone months or years without orgasm! I’m in trouble right now and my wife has made clear that I’m not going to get any release for at least a few months. For the
most part, 20 days has been my average time between releases during my three years in the belt.

Rick

Andyhhh The way I see this working well is to take turns. First, she teases, but probably with a guaranteed release after not more than once every two weeks; maybe for two or three months. Then it's his turn. The chaste one is expected to tease a bit too, but ensure the partner is satisfied and motivated to be a little generous with releases.

Andyhhh

Angelina you're afraid that this will make you the submissive part, despite the very same conditions?

Sure, that is bound to happen. I have one hundred methods to be dominant to somebody else. But with a belt on, I can do nothing

Angelina

Andyhhh But with a belt on, I can do nothing

you can't know that until you have a relationship

Andyhhh

Vanessa Never had a girlfriend holding the keys to your chastity cage?

Ever had a gf. After a year of dating I finally told her about my hobbies. But unfortunately, she was not interested about this at all, not a member of us...I even gave her the key directly. But after a few days, when I began to beg for the release, she agreed easily 😂 She just has no intention to control somebody

Vanessa However,many of us here haven't got an orgasm since months or years...

The chastity belt forbids me from orgnasming and erection at the same time. I'm afraid there would be some problems with my physical function after mouths or years with belt on (erectile dysfunction)

Andyhhh

Vanessa That's a long time!

Would you be able to have some masturbation break during your chaste period? Who's in charge of your keys? 😅 I have an impression that you mentioned in previous post, i can't remember.

Angelina

Vanessa Would you feel the same if not punished?

probably not, but in this case i have to admit that the punishment also had positive effects 😉

Vanessa In my case,without the chastity belt,I would have troubles to stay 20 days without an orgasm...

you have managed 3 years, so 20 days are quite possible, of course some willpower is necessary 😉

Andyhhh I'm afraid there would be some problems with my physical function after mouths or years with belt on (erectile dysfunction)

this is actually one of the biggest discussions here in the forum, when we discuss about male chastity, you probably won't get a unanimous opinion here

Vanessa

Andyhhh Ever had a gf. After a year of dating I finally told her about my hobbies. But unfortunately, she was not interested about this at all, not a member of us...I even gave her the key directly. But after a few days, when I began to beg for the release, she agreed easily 😂 She just has no intention to control somebody

Not surprising that,if she didn't like it at first,she didn't refuse to give you the key.

Andyhhh he chastity belt forbids me from orgnasming and erection at the same time. I'm afraid there would be some problems with my physical function after mouths or years with belt on (erectile dysfunction)

I think it is risked,yes.

Andyhhh

My parents hold the keys,and no,I haven't had an orgasm since 3 years now..🙁 Masturbation is forbidden,and now,totally impossible for me!🙁

Angelina probably not, but in this case i have to admit that the punishment also had positive effects 😉

Yes,if we think porn is always bad.

Angelina you have managed 3 years, so 20 days are quite possible, of course some willpower is necessary 😉

Without the chastity belt?No chance! 😉

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