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Epicurus

Vanessa Don't you think it is a bit risked,to ask for someone you don't know much?

Oh and by the way I kind of mentioned this in my comment but basically I would this through an app with a very large and active community of both lockees and keyholders. These keyholders have held keys for hundreds if not thousands of people and they have public chats where anyone can interact with them. They do this because they get off on this as well.
As well as that you're supposed to have a spare chastity key on yourself for emergencies when you're outside of your home, however the spare may be in a sealed envelope or something so the keyholder knows you've used it.
So no, I don't think it's any more risky than self-locking 😊.

Vanessa

Angelina the relationship with my father was actually always good, 2019 was rather the exception, but now it is much better again 🙂

Good it's good again,even if it was a bit more complicated for some time(understandable)!🙂

Epicurus

In the case of a voluntary wearer,like you are,because you can't decide yourself when you take it off,even if you want it a lot(except with a safeword),and you accept to not have any control of it anymore,and give this control to someone you trust instead.

Epicurus

I don't trust much the fact they apparently have been keyholders for a lot of people before,but the emergency system is good enough to not make it too risked.

Epicurus

Vanessa
You can't fall asleep either huh? 😂 Yeah I guess you define true chastity as giving up complete control over access to yourself and I get that. But personally I know people self- lock for all sorts of reasons and whilst I appreciate that chastity doesn't get much more hardcore than what some of you do here on the forum, it's not entirely fair to dismiss people who don't have a keyholder.

Epicurus

Vanessa I don't trust much the fact they apparently have been keyholders for a lot of people before,but the emergency system is good enough to not make it too risked

Oh and also don't forget that male chastity cages are rarely 100% secure except for a select few types. It's almost always possible to cheat them - although there's no point because then you'd only be lying to yourself.

Angelina

Epicurus You can't fall asleep either huh? 😂

@Vanessa always writes very late 😂

Vanessa

Epicurus You can't fall asleep either huh? 😂

I often answer late,here!😉

Epicurus it's not entirely fair to dismiss people who don't have a keyholder.

I don't dismiss you,only give you my opinion!😉

Angelina

Right.😉

Sarah

Welcome!🙂

Sarah

Maybe,if she's interested,you could suggest her to come here too and discuss with us?

Sarah

Is your decision to stay chaste,even without a chastity belt,related to the fact you got pregnant at 18?

Epicurus

Angelina
Hmm I wonder what's keeping her up 😁

Angelina

Epicurus

as far as i know, her parents are not supposed to know that she writes here, so she always waits until her parents are asleep 🙂

Sarah

Hi, Sarah, 50, I never got belted but mom kept very good control of my 'panties' and my personal habits, I got washed every night by her, she probably would have belted me but we live in NZ and 40 years ago belts were unlikely to be even considered here. She preferred pantie girdles and a leotard to keep me 'safe'.
I didn't leave home until I was 30.
Pleased to find this forum and look forward to meeting others, I may not be belted but am naturally celibate and proud of it.
Sarah

Laura

Sarah
Welcome. You are the first from NZ, even further than Australia 🤣

Ines

Sarah
Wellcome here. Are you interested in chastity belt topic?

Angelina

Sarah

welcome to the forum 🙂

Sarah I am chaste by choice, have been for many many years

Do you wear a belt for it?

Laura

Sarah Hi, Sarah, 50

You daughter is 29 now, so you have delivered her when you were 21.

Sarah I didn't leave home until I was 30.

Then how were you able to born your daughter staying home in chastity?

Sarah

Ines yes, interested in chastity in general and I have a daughter still at home who could benefit, I am chaste by choice, have been for many many years

Ines

Sarah
Are you searching a belt for her? What does she think about the topic?

Sarah

Chastity has always been a subject we discuss openly and she agrees with me that it is desirable, belts we have never really discussed, I had always assumed they were a fetish thing until I started reading on this forum

Sarah

No, when younger girdles and leotards, now girdles but.more to be manproof rather than chaste

Sarah

Laura

Laura I left home, went to university, got pregnant when I was 18, left University and moved home to deliver and never left home again. Sorry should have explained that, to.my shame I can never undo that, but I also have positive of a daughter

Laura

Sarah but I also have positive of a daughter

But I assume your daughter doesn't have kids from 18

Sarah

Vanessa yes, the fact I got pregnant and had to return home with the money she worked so hard for wasted had a lot to do with my chastity, there was a lot of guilt and shame on my part, that was my downfall so it was only fair I should agree to abstain and mom made sure I paid for my mistake too, there was a lot of guilt around my sexual decision making abilities after my daughter was born.

Renita

Sarah yes, the fact I got pregnant and had to return home

You didn't know about birth control? 😃

Vanessa

Sarah there was a lot of guilt and shame on my part

Do you think it still impact you?

Sarah no bf

For how long?She should be allowed to date...

If you fear she becomes pregnant while unmarried,you should discuss with her about a chastity belt,to avoid it.

Sarah happy for her to remain single

But is she happy to have to stay single due to a rule?

In my opinion,that is what matter.If she's happy,fine;if not,you may think about a way for her to be allowed to date,without getting pregnant before she's married.

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