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Vanessa

I agree about Linux part.It is way more complex to use than Windows and need a lot of studying to manage it well.

Sara2001

Vanessa I agree about Linux part.It is way more complex to use than Windows and need a lot of studying to manage it well.

I know you're right about her, but installing/using Linux (especially Ubuntu Linux) is so easy, my grandmother could manage the installation 🙂

Laura

Sara2001 but installing/using Linux (especially Ubuntu Linux) is so easy, my grandmother could manage the installation

Indeed. But the question is what for.

amber

Laura how did you know I was using linux? Linux was installed on my new laptop instead of windows, i don't know how to use it, I only used it for the internet. Also, i'm a girl, not a boy.

James

amber Yeah, she made that mistake. I think she knows as she is an admin. So, why did your mom decided a girl at your age needed these measures?

Angelina

amber

Hi amber, nice of you to write again.

maybe you like to write a little bit more about your belt and how you feel about it, whether you can cope physically and psychologically with it. to be stuck in such a belt with only 13 is definitely extremely hard. what are the reasons that you get the belt ?

Laura

amber Also, i'm a girl, not a boy.

I apologize for confusion. And the same question, why does you mom think you need a chastity belt at 13? Because you have got your first period already and considered as an adult now?

amber

Angelina I think I have to wear the belt so that I can't masturbate (My mom said it's so that I don't do something I'm too young to know about and she'll tell me when I'm a bit older... lol mom i'm xx i know what masturbation is). I don't wear the belt to school, only at home (a couple of times I got home late when mom was asleep already and I didn't have to wear it at home overnight even). I had to wear it for almost 2 days straight during the weekend though, and it was the worst.
wearing it is weird, because I didn't think it would be actually impossible to take off, just very hard or uncomfortable or painful or something. Going to the toilet is very inconvenient, I have to sit upright or it'll be a mess. Masturbation is just impossible.

Laura i don't understand the question? i got my first period when I was 11, not 13 if that's what you're asking.

BikelockFugitive

amber

amber I didn't think it would be actually impossible to take off, just very hard or uncomfortable or painful or something.

Thats about 30 seconds of work, if you are not skilled maybe a minute or two. Depends on the type of lock, wheather or not there are booby traps, spool pins etc. Was more or less discussed here: https://unwedchastity.org/d/8-the-lock
Many here are just too afraid to do so.

Welcome to this Forum, Amber.

Laura

BikelockFugitive Many here are just too afraid to do so.

"Many here" just mind possible consequences 🙂

BikelockFugitive

Laura If you were as reckless as I am, this forum wouldn't exist. 🙂
But yeah as Laura said @amber if you actually care about your relationship with your mother you will have to comply. If not this could be over in minutes...

amber

BikelockFugitive If I refuse to wear it she'll start taking away my phone, laptop, saying "if you're so independent and do what you want then buy your own stuff" and other parent-style bullshit like that.

Angelina

amber

hi amber first of all thanks for your answer

I have a few questions, okay?

which country are you from (sorry if you already wrote that )

2.what will your wearing times look like in the future . should you wear your belt sometime 24/7 or only at home ?

should you wear the belt until your wedding ?

and one more thing. if they really only take away your mobile phone and laptop i would let the belt break open. that would be worth it to me. my father would disown me if i would do that but because of the material little things i would not wear a chastity belt

amber

Angelina

i don't want to post too much personal details, sorry. I'll only say that I'm from Europe.
dunno, i don't want to ask mom because i don't want her to change her mind and make me wear it more. I would like to not have to wear it at all in the future though.
again, i don't know. my mom won't even tell me why i have to wear it (i know it's so that I can't masturbate or have sex, but she told me only that i'm not old enough to be allowed access "there" because there's something i can do "there" that i'm not old enough to do, and she won't tell me what it is because, again, i'm not old enough. i'm pretty sure she means masturbation.)

Renita

amber I'll only say that I'm from Europe

But not Germany?

Angelina

amber

amber i understand you don't want to give too much away, but please do something good for yourself and talk to your mother otherwise you will be badly surprised. i speak there from own experience

amber

Renita maybe yes, maybe no. It's secret. Is germany special somehow?
Angelina what can I say to her?

Renita

amber Is germany special somehow?

You write differently than the Germans

Angelina

amber

here are many from germany also me😉

I do not know what you should tell her I do not know her.

but speak in a calm and objective tone about what questions and anxieties you have. important !!! : do not scream, do not be cheeky, and no blame then she hears you too

Laura

amber maybe yes, maybe no. It's secret.

Let's keep your secret 🙂
What kind of belt do you have to wear?

amber

Laura What kind of belt do you have to wear?

Sorry, I don't understand, What do you mean by "what kind"? If you mean the model, there are no logos on the belt, so I dont know what model it is. if you mean what type of belt, then im not sure because I don't know what different belt types are there (I only know about hip and waist belts, i have a hip belt). Where can I look to know the type?

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