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Saintprudence

Katie It’s good to be belted, because it is a vital tool to enhance your willpower. Remaining safely locked in gives you little option to violate your chastity.

Vanessa

Abby82

Several reason for it,so.

Angelina

Right.

Katie

For many of us,it would not be allowed until free again,so several years...

Saintprudence

I agree.No choice...

Saintprudence

However,I think at least some breaks for masturbating are not a problem,and would help to manage it.Or an abstinence belt.

Angelina you have masturbated very often, which makes it harder to get used to the belt

I agree,it seems she did it often,and I think it makes being prevented to do it anymore(except rare breaks)very hard to manage.

Angelina

Katie

many make it over several years, but i understand why it is so difficult for you. you have to think about two things, on the one hand you are still in the early stages and on the other hand you have masturbated very often, which makes it harder to get used to the belt

Ines

Abby82 but its nonsense to make my normal living harder

The goal of bands is not make your life harder, but your belt more safe for you.
Would not you try to use elements to cheat your belt if you would not have to wear bands?
If you read other girls experiences, you are very lucky of have parents that use them in the right way, only when you need a safer belt.

Angelina

Ines

you always talk about moments when we need a more secure belt, how exactly do you define these moments?

Ines

Angelina
Basically it is when we stay alone and without occupation. In these moments we need to be more protected, because we can try strange things in our fights. So, we should be more protected.
But...
I think you knew it already! 😅

Angelina

Ines

at least i expected this answer. i'm still thinking about renegotiating the tighbands with my father and i think i'd have a good argument for renegotiating with your argumentation 😉

Vanessa

Ines it is when we stay alone and without occupation.

It is similar for me,except two points:they don't put these on me if I've to leave later during the day,and I don't have to wear it at night(except if I'm punished this way).

Abby82 i feel that the belt is secure without the bands too

Me too.

Angelina

It would be good if you achieve that.I can tell you that wearing these part-time only is still unpleasant,but better than wearing these permanently.Even if I guess you wouldn't manage to avoid to have these on during night.

Ines

Abby82 The best position to cheat is laying on back and spreading legs i think, even though i can barely reach my pussy lip. Maybe parents think that the small gap is enough to masturbate and thats why i have the bands.

No, it is not the better if you are flexible enough. And even the stimulation is, probably, very low, I think is better avoid it.

Angelina

Vanessa

i will probably not be able to avoid it completely, but i will try to further reduce the wearing time

Sara2001 Do you see a chance that your father may change his opinion, so you don't have to wear your tightbands 24/7 in the near future?

it depends on what you mean by near future. i don't think he will change his mind in the next days/weeks but i think there is a chance that he will change his mind before i get married 🙂

Sara2001

@Angelina I think I missed an important information. Do you see a chance that your father may change his opinion, so you don't have to wear your tightbands 24/7 in the near future? That would be awesome for you. I have to agree with Vanessa, I think it will be very difficult to convince him that wearing them at night is not necessary.

Sara2001

Angelina it depends on what you mean by near future. i don't think he will change his mind in the next days/weeks but i think there is a chance that he will change his mind before i get marri

I hope so for you. Daniel now seems very sure about my tightbands. I don't think I will ever get rid of them.

Vanessa

Angelina i will probably not be able to avoid it completely, but i will try to further reduce the wearing time

It would be hard,but maybe easier to convince him to reduce how often you have to wear these than convince him to not use these at all,yes.

Angelina there is a chance that he will change his mind before i get married 🙂

Let's hope you're right!

Sara2001

Yes,but at first,he doesn't wanted you to wear these after marriage,then changed his mind.Don't you think he can change his mind again about it,especially after your marriage?

Angelina

Sara2001

i will try everything and i think that your situation will only stay as long as you are happy with it 🙂

Valadar

Sara2001 I hope so for you. Daniel now seems very sure about my tightbands. I don't think I will ever get rid of them.

I understand somewhat how tpe works, the dynamic of giving your all to your boyfriend and fiancé to be but its also his job in that situation to make sure your also happy as an unhappy sub / future wife will not be at her best?

Thus if you do eventually grow weary of your thigh bands in particular you will need to bring it to his attention so that it doesn't impact your relationship...

bismarck

Sara2001 It is a busy month I think your choice has some good points. He knew you feel uncomfortable in the metal bra then drilled holes. He would think about your feeling. And usually people that can make the counterpart to do or wear this or that are the very attractive ones. But I don't find any meaning of people wearing chastity devices after marriage, divorce would give both side bad records. I don't know him living with your father is good or bad as your partner once think you should be rid of at least some parts but he changed mind, perhaps under your father's influence. And well he should know that if you go out to work then he will live a more comfortable life and if you continue to wear the bands in emergency you may have difficulties in saving his life, also your children may not treat him well if they know their father had made their mother felt bad!

Sara2001

Valadar Thus if you do eventually grow weary of your thigh bands in particular you will need to bring it to his attention so that it doesn't impact your relationship...

Yes, I think it is mandatory for a tpe relationship that I can trust him 100% because he earned the trust that he takes care of my needs and wishes.

Angelina

Sara2001

but there could be a problem, because he has to work hard to earn this trust due to the current situation (I hope you understand what I mean)

Sara2001

Angelina but there could be a problem, because he has to work hard to earn this trust due to the current situation (I hope you understand what I mean)

That's why I marry him in a few years and not tomorrow 😂

Angelina

Sara2001 That's why I marry him in a few years and not tomorrow 😂

haha, good answer 🤣

but i admit that you are very serious about the situation and i think it is good that you also demand that he has to earn this enormous trust 🙂

Ines

Vanessa It would be hard,but maybe easier to convince him to reduce how often you have to wear these than convince him to not use these at all,yes.

Agree. Since one of goals is avoid all stimulation, she need them, so probably she would have to wear them. However it is possible to wear them in a much more rational way.

Angelina

Vanessa It would be hard,but maybe easier to convince him to reduce how often you have to wear these than convince him to not use these at all,yes.

this is what i mean, my father won't accept it when i say that i don't want to wear the tighbands anymore, but he might accept it when i say that the tighbands don't always make sense and i try to reduce the wearing time 🙂

Vanessa

Ines

And it would be much better for her.

Angelina

Let us know if you manage it.😉

Tim Hi, I'm Tim. I'm 35 and from North America.

Welcome! 🙂

Ines . It is not rude any opinion, it is rude when you share it in an arrogant and impolite form.

I agree.

Tim To be honest, you and @Vanessa are the most alien to me so I hope talking instead of lurking will help to fix that.

We're not the only ones in this situation here,if you talk about reluctantly wearing a chastity belt.

Angelina

I agree with you.Our situation seems very awful,especially as we hate our chastity devices,but the other parts of our lives are pretty good!🙂

Angelina it is sometimes very hard

I agree too,with time,even if I think we can't get used to it,we can manage it better.

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