Introductions

Ines

Angelina
It does not replace a Introduction topic.
But it is not necessary spoil the topic.

Angelina

great, I think that makes it a little easier 🙂

Ines It does not replace a Introduction topic.

i think it is even the better alternative, because this way we don't have to search through the topic, but can simply go to the profiles to get information about the person 🙂

Vanessa

Kris Nope. I do not have an orgawm since and no choice to take it off. Why they agree? I have no idea 😃

You never think you should not have asked for this?

Ines

Angelina
Yes but a deeper introduction is necessary. But there are so diverse topics in introduction topic that make it useless.

Michael

Hi,
I am Michael from Germany. Chastity has been a kink for me for many years and some ex-gfs have held the keys. However, it has always been kind of a game. I was locked for some weeks but then the belt wasn't put back on most of the times. I pretty much had some sort of control each time because I could decive how long the belt would be locked for example.
Things have changed during the last few years. My gf has agreed to keep the keys but only if she has full control. I have been locked up for longer periods of time but most of the time I have not worn the belt (like wearing it 2-3 months, then not wearing it for 3-4 months).
Recently she said that she doesn't like me to masturbate. I have to agree that I usually do it too often and that it makes me lose my focus on her. I have noticed that while I am wearing my belt that after a few weeks I become way more relaxed. When I am not belted I feel how much I miss that, just because it feels good somehow after some time and because I see the many positive facts for our relationship.
That's why I am now willing to ask her to belt me almost 24/7 tomorrow or when the time is right for a good talk.
Wish me good luck 🙂. I hope to find some help here how to live a life where the belt becomes a normal part of life.

Angelina

Michael I am Michael from Germany.

welcome to the forum, another one from germany 😉

Max9

Michael Servus Michi. Nice to meet you. (Greetings from Bavaria)
Just make sure you have some service inspections ... open the belt to clean it, have an erection and you're good to go for permanent 😉
I'm Max, by the way, have the same background like you, have been into chastity for 5 years now.

Vanessa

Michael

Welcome!

Does your girlfriend know well enough how to be a good keyholder for you?

Michael

What do you call a "ball trap"?A chastity cage?

Verrouille

Welcome Michael. Which belt do you wear?

Michael

Verrouille Which belt do you wear?

I have bought different devices over the years, some ball trap devices and belts from Fetish Felix, Neosteel and My Steel.
The belt from Fetish Felix wasn't safe for me. Probably I did not take the measurements correctly for my Neosteel belt which is why I cannot wear it for more than a few hours. I can wear a ball trap device 24/7 which is quite safe for me but I prefer a full belt for more security. That's why I bought a My Steel belt (got measured there) which fits well but I need to have them make a few adjustments - after that I can hopefully switch to the My Steel belt for longterm wear.

Angelina

Max9 Servus Michi. Nice to meet you. (Greetings from Bavaria)

short info for everyone, not every german comes from bavaria and not everyone says servus 😉

Michael

Max9 Just make sure you have some service inspections ... open the belt to clean it, have an erection and you're good to go for permanent

Cleaning and some erections to maintain health is obligatory. However, permanent is not yet my intention. Permanent means forever, whereas 24/7 means (that's how I see it) continously but with a possible end. However, I wrote "almost 24/7" because in my case it is not (yet) to not have sex anymore.
Are you in permanent chastity or 24/7 according to my definition?

Michael

Angelina not every german comes from bavaria

but when you are from Germany you understand Servus at least 🙂 and btw I am from the northern half of Germany, therefore far away from the "Weißwurschtäquator" 😂 (but I do like white sausages btw).

Max9

Michael I'm 24/7 im chastity according to your definition.
I also currently wear a cage right now, but have been thinking about getting a belt for some time now.

Michael

Vanessa Does your girlfriend know well enough how to be a good keyholder for you?

What do you mean exactly? What does define to be a good keyholder in general or what aspects do you mean that are relevant especially for me?

[deleted] I hope your gf accepts your proposal.

As I said I am waiting for a good oppotunity. So we haven't talked about it explicitly yet (at the moment I am doing it in smaller steps so to speak).

Angelina

Michael Can you give an example what supporting or working against the wearer would be?

if, for example, the keyholder refuses to open the belt/cage in psychic exceptional situations, then the wearer loses confidence in the keyholder and also the connection to the belt/cage, in this case the keyholder has damaged the special connection

Michael

Angelina if, for example, the keyholder refuses to open the belt/cage in psychic exceptional situations, then the wearer loses confidence in the keyholder and also the connection to the belt/cage

That would not happen for sure. The other way around, that a keyholder might open the belt too often because he/she is too easily talked into opening it, might be a problem.

Chris1

Hi. I'm Chris, 20, from Germany. I'd been reading in this forum for quite some time now. I'm interested in chastity and would like to try it but not right now.

Laura

Chris1 I'm interested in chastity

Yours or your girlfriend's?

Angelina

Chris1

welcome to the forum 🙂

@Laura the german inversion has started 😂

Vanessa

[deleted] Vanessa Yes, they are sometimes called ball trap devices as the balls being "trapped" between the cage and the base ring is what keeps it from being removed.

Thank you;it seems to be a chastity cage,yes.

Chris1

Welcome!

Why not trying it now?

Chris1 Both, right now I'm single but I'm interested about being chaste but also interested in having a girlfriend in chastity (only with consent)

To be both in chastity is probably pretty uncommon...

Max9

Cage is more discreet too.

Michael

I think it is wise to discuss it step by step,but you should start to discuss about chastity soon.If she wants you to masturbate less,it is a good start.

Timmuh

Welcome!

locked_chub

Welcome!

No keyholder anymore,so?

Timmuh

You should try to think about what you want to wear(cage or belt),who would be you keyholder,if you want some breaks,and such...

Chris1

Hi, Laura. Both, right now I'm single but I'm interested about being chaste but also interested in having a girlfriend in chastity (only with consent)
Btw. why does it say I'm deleted?

Laura

Chris1 why does it say I'm deleted?

Bug. Try to refresh the page

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