Ines Ines,
I love how you put it. Thank you for your welcome and I shall really try to follow the forum rules.
My belt engenders many feelings. Once powerful one, the first time it was locked on (I was fifty seven), was that powerful feeling of femininity, unlike anything I had ever felt before. It was quite a surprise. There was also a little fear and perhaps intimidation (I think others here have mentioned that the first view of a belt is intimidating), but I loved the feeling of safety and been cared for by my partner and the incredible connection it forged between us.