Introductions

Joh

Angelina welcome to the forum

Thank you for the warm welcome 😀

Verrouille

Joh Welcome Joh. Do you wear a belt yourself?

Joh

Verrouille Welcome Joh. Do you wear a belt yourself?

No. I like it when my partner would wear one. But I am in the unlucky situation to find one who would do it for me.

Laura

Joh Another "a girl for the chastity belt" 😂 I tend to think, it's popular in Germany

Angelina

Laura Another "a girl for the chastity belt" 😂

Holy shit

I thought @Joh was a man, or ????? 😂

@Joh , I still don't get it, are you a man or a woman ?

Renita

Laura I tend to think, it's popular in Germany

From German porn 😃

Laura

Angelina I thought @Joh was a man, or ?????

Of course, a man. I meant @Arno , who has two chastity belts and looking for girls for them 😂

Joh

Angelina I still don't get it, are you a man or a woman ?

If you read my introduction you find the answer by yourself. 🤣

Angelina

Laura

ok, I was a bit startled 😂

Arno

Laura I thought I wrote it already, it's (based on) a different aspect. Anyways...

Jonas

Renita Seems more Grimms' Fairy Tales to me! ~ Cinderella runs away from the ball leaving only her chastity belt. The hansom prince is then left to marry whomever the belt fits! 🤣

Vanessa

Renita

There is several major brands in Germany,it may be a sort of cultural thing...

Jonas

It would be more effective;several people can wear the same shoes,while a chastity belt rarely fit perfectly a lot of women!😉

Daniel

Welcome!

Thank you for your support!

Jonas You need a keyholder!

I agree.

Angelina

Jonas

🤣 🤣 🤣

Daniel

welcome to the forum 🙂 thanks for the long but nevertheless understandable introduction from you 🙂

Daniel I cant imagine how it must feel to be forced to life chaste for years on end.

Feel free to send me the keys and find out. 😉

Daniel

Hello everyone,

I´d like to introduce myself as well. I am Daniel (no, not Sarahs Boyfriend, dont worry 😀 ) from Germany (seriously no idea why there are so many of us here). I`m 25 years old and have been following this forum for quite some time and finally got the courage to interact with you nice people, because this (as others have pointed out) seems to be the only place where we can discuss chastity in a serious matter without fetishist or porn stuff - and you folks seem quite welcoming as well 🙂 Also a big shoutout to Laura for making this whole thing from a simple MrPoll Post!

About me: I can really identify with Jonas and a few other folks here, because I also feel like masturbation is really addicting to me and I wasted a lot of my youth on it when I could have been doing more produtive things. Therefore I recently bought myself a chastity cage and have been wearing it for a few days by now - I know, thats nothing compared to Vanessa/Angelina/Megan/Sarah/Laura/Ines/etc. time, but we all start small 😃 I hope to find support here (especially the males seem to know about common issues like chafing and painful erections) and to keep myself distracted enough so I dont unlock my cage unnecessarily (I dont have a keyholder yet, but still want to beat the addiction).
And although I, like many others here, cant really approve of the enforced chastity of the likes of Vanessa or Angelina, I want to support them through those tough times as best as I can and I unterstand their reasonings for not protesting their belts. Huge respect btw, I cant imagine how it must feel to be forced to life chaste for years on end.

Apart from that I look forward to some wholesome discussions (seriously, apart from some obvious trolls this seems like one of the nicest and most welcoming places on the internet 🙂) and support, so feel free to ask any questions.

What is there to know about me apart from that? I work as a financial advisor in the north-west of germany, have a serious weakness for good beer and cute cats, really like to cook and do sports (although we`ll see how good that works with a cage) and overall enjoy meeting new people.

So with best regards,
Daniel

Jonas

Daniel I`m 25 years old...

Daniel recently bought myself a chastity cage and have been wearing it for a few days by now

Hello Not-Daniel Daniel!

I'm really jealous. Even if you quit at 25 the amount of time and energy you can save yourself is huge!

And if you've found your way here, you must be serious.

Btw. You need a keyholder! Maybe one of the cats could do it? 😀

Looking forward to you starting your first wholesome discussion!

Megan

Angelina Feel free to send me the keys and find out. 😉

I didn't think @HHelen was that extreme? Did something change?

Daniel hope to find support here (especially the males seem to know about common issues like chafing and painful erections) and to keep myself distracted enough so I dont unlock my cage unnecessarily (I dont have a keyholder yet, but still want to beat the addiction).

I am kind of amazed Men will wear the cages at all... I have never seen a male cage in person so I don't know but I do know from a distant family members that your balls can get twisted and the small blood vessels will get cut off and your balls would have to be amputated. I just don't like the way the things look, if you can't move at full speed without maybe hurting your balls it's worse than the 'pants-sagging' phase we had in the USA for years...

If I ever got on some sort of equality kick and wanted to lock my husband up I just don't think I could do anything but the piercings or a full belt which would double as body armor I guess. He seems to like to swing around while he is walking so unless he thought he would get kinked in the balls I think he would like one of those piercings.

Daniel

Thank you everyone for the nice welcome 🙂

Jonas Hello Not-Daniel Daniel!

I'm really jealous. Even if you quit at 25 the amount of time and energy you can save yourself is huge!

And if you've found your way here, you must be serious.

Btw. You need a keyholder! Maybe one of the cats could do it? 😀

Looking forward to you starting your first wholesome discussion!

Thanks a lot for the encouragement. I already notice that the time I spent masturbating (which, especially since the lockdown, got quite excessive) is now time I am forced to spend somewhere else, which is already improving my work and sport schedule 😄 And yes, I`d like to say I am quite serious about it - I have tried quitting in the past (anyone heard of the movement "NoFap"? especially popular on reddit and with a similar mindset to a lot of folks here), but at some point I just seem to lack the willpower - so yeah, you are right that I probably need a keyholder, since the keys are looking more tempting by the day. Sadly my cat is only strict with me when it comes to his food and petting 😂

Angelina welcome to the forum 🙂 thanks for the long but nevertheless understandable introduction from you 🙂

Thank you very much and greetings from germany to germany 🙂

Angelina Feel free to send me the keys and find out. 😉

Was that a genuine offer? Though I am not sure I want to find out, I would actually appreciate the support 😃

But @Jonas and @Saintprudence need to make up their minds then 😂 But if @HHelen is as strict as they say I may prefer Angelina 😉 I tried to read a lot of discussions here over the past months, but so far it seems HHelen is pretty reasonable (at least compared to a few other parents here, as she allows masturbation at least), so I dont quite understand it yet.

Jonas The scary thing is though, Helen's way with authority is exactly the way I've come to treat myself and it does get results!!

What do you mean by that "authority"? And how do you manage to enforce it on yourself? I mean results are what I`m looking for, but it seems really tough without someone enforcing them.

Vanessa I agree.

Well, since everyone agrees I need a keyholder I guess I am open to trustworthy canditates and suggestions.

Jonas

Angelina Feel free to send me the keys and find out.

🤣 😂 🤣 No, no! Angelina is too lenient, send them to @HHelen. 🤣

Saintprudence

Jonas I wouldn't wish HHelen's keyholding diligence on anyone!

Angelina

Jonas No, no! Angelina is too lenient, send them to @HHelen. 🤣

there are at least 20 users i would rather send the keys to 😂

Daniel Was that a genuine offer? Though I am not sure I want to find out, I would actually appreciate the support 😃

of course it was not a serious offer, 😂 only someone you know personally and trust should have the keys.

Daniel Well, I already read about @Ines spanish and furious temperament,

🤣 🤣 🤣

Jonas "T O T U M - R E V O L U T U M ! ! !"

Is that Latin , never heard of it ?

Jonas

Saintprudence Lol. The scary thing is though, Helen's way with authority is exactly the way I've come to treat myself and it does get results!!

Saintprudence

Jonas I suppose it depends on if you want your sentence measured in weeks, months, or years. HHelen doesn’t believe in freebies, as far as I can tell, and since she ensures the belt herself, she is not inclined towards gentility!

Jonas

Daniel I'd love to reply, but @Ines may tell me off for talking too much in the "introductions" thread!! 😀 Maybe use your message to start off a new discussion?

Vanessa

Daniel Well, since everyone agrees I need a keyholder I guess I am open to trustworthy canditates and suggestions.

The most important thing is you can trust him/her.

Jonas Maybe use your message to start off a new discussion?

It's a good idea,yes.

Jonas

🤣

Angelina only someone you know personally and trust should have the keys.

I agree.

Angelina Is that Latin , never heard of it ?

Same for me.And google don't know how to translate it well from latin to french.

Jonas

🤣

Megan I didn't think @HHelen was that extreme? Did something change?

It seems the rules are going to be stricter for her daughter.

Angelina these cages sometimes look like torture devices

I think it is important to be careful.

Fatherof3

Presently my twin think it is!

Daniel

Jonas

Well, I already read about @Ines spanish and furious temperament, so I cant blame you for that 😂 maybe she can chim in whether talking for a bit here is okay, becauso I honestly am not sure if I am worthy of another discussion thread since there are already so many.

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