Introductions

Laura

Angelina many parents want their children to wear a chastity belt at all costs, yours want to prevent it.

He is not a daugher 😂

Angelina

Laura He is not a daugher 😂

you know it makes no difference to me 😉

Jenny

Are there many website members that come from Asia?

Max9

Jenny In fact, my mother discovered my belt once already but she wouldn't hold the key for me. Also she would let me get rid of it so I gotta hide it from my parents.

Hey there and welcome to this forum. I know my mom would react the same if she knew about it. 🙂 Luckily she doesn't / hopefully

Saintprudence

Max9 You're insanely fortunate to have rational and sane parents. My parents were so absolutely opposed to masturbation that if I'd been caught experimenting with chastity belts when I was 19, I would have had my keys confiscated and stayed locked until marriage, if I was lucky.

Vanessa

Jenny On a free lonely day I did like 5-6 times that is gets really dry.

I think it is excessive,yes.

Angelina i would wait and save money and then buy a good belt

I think so,too.

Max9

Angelina you are 18, you must have parents, a relationship or good friends, right?

It's not that easy. Do you habe a friend who you would trust to hold the keys if you were single and if your parents wouldn't hold them?

You don't want to seem crazy to the close friend who you ask and loose him that way.

Angelina

Max9 It's not that easy. Do you habe a friend who you would trust to hold the keys if you were single and if your parents wouldn't hold them?

that's a difficult question, but i think if i wanted to wear a belt voluntarily and my father didn't want the keys and i was single (now i've blocked out my entire world 😂 ) .... yes i would ask my best friend, i've known her for over 10 years and i trust her 100%

Vanessa

Max9

In such situation,and if I want to wear one,I think I would ask my best friend(she already know I've to wear one).She would be surprised and maybe think I'm a bit crazy,but that would not break our friendship.

Angelina

But only a few of them write here.

However,like @Ines often write,we may discuss these subjects in another topic(or create new ones),instead of doing it in the introduction topic!😉

Max9

Angelina It's good that you have somebody like this. I don't. Everything I did ever care about was work and school.... now as I don't go to school anymore - for a long time already - I only got myself. And - as it seems - there are many more people like this

Kaushal

Hello,
my name is Kaushal, I live in eastern europe. I found this forum, while looking for a chastity belt for my fiance. I hope to get some tips and information on my purchase.

We talked about it already and even though she is not syced about it she agreed, since she knew this was in store for her before we got engaged. We will start with temporary wearing, but the goal is obviously full time.

She will probably join here in the future to get her own advice, but only after we recieved the belt.

Thanks so much for having me here.
BR Kaushal

Tobbe

Kaushal Welcome to the forum and of course, your fiance should be here to.

Jonas

Kaushal Hello and welcome. Can I ask; is the requirement to wear a belt a family tradition, or was it something that you personally wanted? Also, will the belt be used before or after the marriage?

Renita

Kaushal I found this forum, while looking for a chastity belt for my fiance

Welcome.
For how long you were doing it?

Angelina

Max9

it would definitely be a strange meeting, people would think we are a cult (sekte)

Kaushal

welcome to the forum 🙂

Vanessa

Kaushal

Welcome!

It would be good if she writes here,too,yes.

Tobbe

I agree.

Kaushal We talked and I told her that I would not stand for her to do that while we are married and I would put her in a belt to make sure if we ever got engaged.

If she hasn't agreed,you would not get engaged with her until she accepts,or break-up with her if you're sure she would never agree?Or you would have not liked it,but accepted her decision,and still get engaged?

Kaushal She wasn't happy at all, but when we got engaged a few weeks later she still agreed, knowing that this would be a condition.

So a semi-reluctant wearer?Not wanting it,but accepting it to get engaged with you?

Kaushal We can still put it on again afterwards.

So,she would have to wear it often after your marriage?

Jonas Since your fiancee is used to free access, she has given you a great gift of trust. In addition she has committed herself to managing and tolerating the daily demands of wearing a chastity belt. I hope you can both become happy and proud of your choice.

It would be hard for her,especially if it was allowed for her before...

Jonas Yes ....with time again to allow for re-adaption.

I think it is quicker to be able to wear it after we had already trained,even with a long break between two wearing.

Kaushal I have been with other women before, though not that many. I do believe there is a gender difference here though, if you are insinuating a little hypocracy on my part.

Don't you think it is a bit unfair that you have dated other women,but think she would have been wrong to have dated anyone else before?Is it the same for self-pleasure?

Kaushal sometimes women forget to see the longtime picture and emotionally live in the moment

Depend on each people.

Angelina

Right!😉

Kaushal

Hello to both of you,

Jonas My family is very traditional when it comes to women, but I don't know anybody who is wearing a chastity belt. Most of my extended family wouldn't be able to afford a custom made belt. Nevertheless I don't think a girl would have very good chances of getting married, if she isn't a virgin so I am pretty sure my sisters still are. My fiance is from more liberal family, this is why I decided I wanted her to be locked up. We will definitely use the belt before the marriage, to help her adjust and transition to full time. After marriage there will be probably not so much time for her to wear it, since belts and pregnencies don't seem like a good combination.

Laura

Kaushal Nevertheless I don't think a girl would have very good chances of getting married, if she isn't a virgin so I am pretty sure my sisters still are.

Welcome to the forum. Good to hear about another family with the same values as mine.
And no, we have no ties with @Kaushal 's country

Kaushal My fiance is from more liberal family, this is why I decided I wanted her to be locked up.

Is she still a virgin?

Jonas

Kaushal My fiance is from more liberal family, this is why I decided I wanted her to be locked up.

Uh-huh. If it's not a tradition for her, how did you convince her?

Kaushal We will definitely use the belt before the marriage, to help her adjust and transition to full time. After marriage there will be probably not so much time for her to wear it, since belts and pregnencies don't seem like a good combination.

Will it be a long engagement then? Otherwise it sounds like as soon as she has adjusted to the belt, it will be time for it to be removed?! 😀

Kaushal

Laura Is she still a virgin?

She has never been with a man before if that is what you mean and I believe her. But she has admitted to doing other things down there.

Jonas Uh-huh. If it's not a tradition for her, how did you convince her?

We talked and I told her that I would not stand for her to do that while we are married and I would put her in a belt to make sure if we ever got engaged. She wasn't happy at all, but when we got engaged a few weeks later she still agreed, knowing that this would be a condition.

Jonas Will it be a long engagement then? Otherwise it sounds like as soon as she has adjusted to the belt, it will be time for it to be removed?! 😀

Probably not, but becaus of COVID you never know. But I am ok if it comes of soon after the wedding, if it means she is carrying our child. I will have to trust her to keep her fingers to herself, unless anybody knows a better way 😉. We can still put it on again afterwards.

Jonas

Kaushal She has never been with a man before if that is what you mean and I believe her. But she has admitted to doing other things down there.
Kaushal We talked and I told her that I would not stand for her to do that while we are married and I would put her in a belt to make sure if we ever got engaged.

So the belt will primarily be used to prevent masturbation?

She wasn't happy at all, but when we got engaged a few weeks later she still agreed,
knowing that this would be a condition.

Since your fiancee is used to free access, she has given you a great gift of trust. In addition she has committed herself to managing and tolerating the daily demands of wearing a chastity belt. I hope you can both become happy and proud of your choice.

I will have to trust her to keep her fingers to herself, unless anybody knows a better way 😉.

In such circumstances I can't think of any thing other than the honour system: a regular promise that masturbation has not occurred. However, without a belt to aid self-control, allowances do have to be made in the event of weakness.

We can still put it on again afterwards.

Yes ....with time again to allow for re-adaption.

Laura

Kaushal She has never been with a man before if that is what you mean and I believe her

How about you?

Kaushal

Renita For how long you were doing it?

Do you mean looking for a belt? We just got engagged a couple of weeks ago, so I started recently. I knew they were manufactured and I have heared chatter about some people using them on their wives, but I haven't seriously started to look into them for more than a week now.

Renita

Kaushal but I haven't seriously started to look into them for more than a week now.

When and how did this idea come to your mind initially?

Jonas

Angelina it would definitely be a strange meeting, people would think we are a cult (sekte)

Lol. There are too many differing opinions on belt use here for us to be any good as a cult!! 🤣

Instead, imagine this:

A masked ball: beautiful strangers, dressed in their finest clothes, meeting in a castle, for the first and perhaps the only time, linked only by secret ...that only they know. It's quite alluring and mysterious, no?

Better than McDonalds-Berlin, surely? 😂

Kaushal

Laura How about you?

I haven't been with a man before either and I also thinks she believes me in this regard 😉

I have been with other women before, though not that many. I do believe there is a gender difference here though, if you are insinuating a little hypocracy on my part.

Jonas So the belt will primarily be used to prevent masturbation?

I don't think she has any intentions of cheating on me, but sometimes women forget to see the longtime picture and emotionally live in the moment, so I don't mind helping her stay true to what I know she wants.

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