Introductions

Bob

Hi,
I’m a dad with a 12 year old daughter. My x wife got pregnant at a young age (my bad) and I’m worried my daughter will do the same. She hit puberty early so I’m looking for more options to keep her from masterbasion and sex with boys. Her focus on a sex and masterbation seems to be affecting her grades and I’d like to learn about options to stop that.

-bob

James

Bob Glad to talk with you but this is not the approach, especially not with a girl her age.

Bob, I am glad you stayed - many men do not. Want to keep her out of trouble? Do the hard work of being an awesome Dad. Respect her thoughts and opinions, ask her what she's passionate about and wants to learn and do, and be generous with your time. Don't spoil her, but teach her that the only man who is good for her respects her enough to care for her and treasure her but not to hurt her and her future.

TLDR: Kid's 12. Be a dad. Ask her what activities she'd like to do, and do it with her.

Angelina

Vanessa Me too,I think more(and fight!)about it when in my bed,as I often did it at this time,but I sometimes did it at other times,if my needs were high!

That's exactly how it is for me and it also depends on whether I have my girlfriend with me. 😉

Bob

i read your thread, i am sorry, but i would not force her, also because of her age. i don't think she is too young for a belt, but she is too young if it is not 100% voluntary.

Rina

welcome 🙂

Ines

Bob
If with 12 years you can not control your daughter, make it better.
12 years is not age to wear a belt.
Frankly I hope you are only a troll, however, I will say you a first and final answer.
Sexualizing a child is big crime. And here criminals are not welcomed.

Bob

James I do all that already James. We are very close. What does TLDR mean. Mom actually walked out pretty much as soon as she was born. I was older then her mother so it made sense for me to raise her. Little rocky in the beginning but we have a great relationship and friendship now. I’m truly surprised I’m getting 2 people saying not to use chastity on a. Chastity forum. What is the proper age. Does it matter that she hit puberty early? I mean she is certainly fully sexually active. First period was like 2 years ago. Corona is keeping her a little farther from her male friends even though we are close she doesn’t talk about boys with me or her sexuality. I’ve had sex talk with her and so has a female friend, but I know she seems to be quite active in the bedroom and it’s only a letter of time before she wants to try the real thing.

James

Bob Mom actually walked out pretty much as soon as she was born.

Sorry to hear that. Proper age if you want to put a point on it would be 18, but some girls here have it less and it gets murky. You're her dad and her mom and that's never easy.

What can you do? You can talk to her about boys, and you can make it real clear to her that a boy who would to do that with her is not someone that she should respect....which I also get is a tricky conversation since you did that, but it's the reality of the situation.

As a parent I suppose you can also say to her that it isn't something you want her doing within house rules - but honestly, the biggest problem here is clear. You have to talk about boys and her sexuality, which she's only discovering. And I do mean talk - discuss - not you telling her what to do or reacting with menace or she'll shut you out.

Rina

Hi, I’m Rina, I’m transgender (MTF) and not in chastity belt yet, but want to be in one as a tool that I can use for tucking to alleviate my bottom dysphoria and devote myself to be chaste until I become together with my cross border partner.

Vanessa

Lana People have misunderstood the word chastity.

We understand it,but not all of us agree with it.

Rina

Welcome!

Angelina it also depends on whether I have my girlfriend with me. 😉

Similar for me!😉

Foxies

mark12423

I think we all want to know, why is she belted, whose idea was it and is she a willing wearer? I suppose we also would like to know how each of you feels about it.

Laura

mark12423 who has been belted since we got married 18 years ago.

Welcome. I wouldn't be surprised if she is another Tollyboy wearer

Laura

mark12423 She wears it because it is a tradition in my family for the women to be belted

Do you happen to speak French? 😂

mark12423

Laura im not sure I understand the joke

Laura

mark12423 im not sure I understand the joke

Your family looks like mine, but we speak French

mark12423

Laura ah I understand now! My family is from the southern united states (South Carolina) and we don't have any french ancestry that I know of. Is your family male dominated as well?

Sara2001

mark12423 Laura ah I understand now! My family is from the southern united states (South Carolina) and we don't have any french ancestry that I know of. Is your family male dominated as well?

Hello Marc,

welcome to the forum 🙂

I am on my way to become a belted wife in a male led relationship, so I am very curious about her. Would you like to tell us something about her rules and things like that? How often is she opened? Do you like to tell us what other rules she has? It would be really nice.

Laura

mark12423 Is your family male dominated as well?

I don't like this word. Probably not. Just no sex before marriage for female members

Sara2001

mark12423 If you have any other questions feel free to ask me

Thank you for your answer. I have many questions 🙂 But I think it's something that should better be continued in the "belted wife" topic. I will write there. Thank you.

Rina

mark12423 they can't talk when a man is talking

mark12423 no leaving the house without permission

These rules does not seem to be something to do with chastity, but I guess that’s for male-led relationship, in your point of view?

mark12423

Rina yes, you could say that my family is male dominated. I do believe in traditional gender roles to an extent and it's one of the reasons why I support female chastity.

Angelina

mark12423 Hi, 39 year old husband here in a male led relationship with my wife, who has been belted since we got married 18 years ago.

welcome, as i read the topics from bottom to top i have already commented on some of your posts 🙂

Lana

it is a pity that you are leaving us 🙁 will you continue to at least read here ?

Vanessa

mark12423

It seems necessary to remind you that trolls and fantasy are not welcomed here.

Lana

Sorry you have to leave,even more for such reason...

I doubt you would read it,but maybe they could come talk with us,and they could understand it is ok,we don't want to know who you are?

Angelina i read the topics from bottom to top

I do the same! 😉

It allows to answer the olderly answered ones before the more recently ones.

MaximeJourennes

Bienvenue!😉

Are you that much in love with her?As,if she force you to wear it against your will,you maybe should leave her...

MaximeJourennes Your future husbands

Wife in my case!😉

MaximeJourennes I already tried some solutions like lock picking or cutting... but it's either impossible or too painful.

Go to the firemen or a locksmith.

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