Introductions

Ines

Angelina yes and no, you just use different words, but for the same facts

I usually talk about belts.

Angelina then we would have to delete the forum

No, and it is precisely what I try to avoid.

Angelina

Ines I usually talk about belts.

like all of us but the belts have functions and depending on how you describe the function of a belt it may or may not sound sexual but the facts are the same

Jas

Not all users have same vocabulary and it's hard for some to express their feelings in more... academic way. But practice makes perfection, and you learn from own mistakes. Or someone else's mistakes.

However it is, welcome.

Angelina

Jas and it's hard for some to express their feelings in more... academic way.

and frankly, i don't want that either. writing honestly about feelings gives a much better picture. 🙂

hungarianguy

i am a big fan of technical safes, don't you know anyone else who can take the keys?

Sara2001

Jas Not all users have same vocabulary and it's hard for some to express their feelings in more... academic way. But practice makes perfection, and you learn from own mistakes. Or someone else's mistakes.

Especially if English is not your first language. Talking about the consequences of the belt without touching sexual aspects is just impossible. I think for most of us these aspects are most important to talk about beside a few tips and tricks how to handle things. It's also the main reason why we wear it, otherwise we wouldn't wear a belt. It's like talking about theme parks without being allowed to mention roller coasters and only being allowed to talk about the nice flowers and the food that is sold there.

hungarianguy

Angelina
Yes of course. Sorry for the long silence (and for My bad english as well 😅)
My ex-gf and I swapped keys so we controlled the other's belt. Now because Im single one of My closest friend held My keys but unfortunately she will move to another country soon, so I'm thinking about buying a Time-locked safe. My goal is to stay Virgin until marrige and to not get that bad addiction again.

hungarianguy

Angelina Unfortunately not. A real keyholder would be much better then a time-locked safe but currently I'm single and I don't know anyone who can be trusted.

Angelina

Sara2001 It's like talking about theme parks without being allowed to mention roller coasters and only being allowed to talk about the nice flowers and the food that is sold there.

a very good comparison, that's why i'm against banning individual words. i would rather wish that we deal with the topic sensitively, especially with minors, but also in general, and remain polite and objective.

and in general we are on the right track, i don't know of any social network where the members talk more socially, i hope it stays that way. 🙂

Kaja

Angelina I have to agree wit you, Angelina.

Andrew

Hi, my name is Andrew, I'm 40 years old, from Poland. I'm writing a book about history of chastity belts and I'm looking for real stories (not fantasies) of people who involuntarily wear chastity belts/devices in modern times. I'm also involved in BDSM and chastity play with my wife.

Jen

Andrew looking for real stories (not fantasies) of people who involuntarily wear chastity belts/devices in modern times.

I don't think it exists here

Angelina

Andrew

welcome to the forum 🙂

what you write seems very interesting, but remember that we are not a data collection point. 😉

Andrew

Jen I think that most stories here are typical fantasies, but some (maybe 10%) looks reliable. Despite this proportion, I plan to conduct a survey among forum users. Later I will filter the results and discard the unreliable.

Joh

Andrew
Welcome Andrew.
To continue what Ines tried to archive please read the rules and take further conversation to an appropriate topic. If you can't find one open a new one.

Dmitriy

Andrew What methods do you use to highlight true and fictional stories? Let's not talk about obvious fakes, but often some stories look plausible due to a lot of small details. However, one should not exclude a very rich fantasy of the author.
Then what will be a signal flag for you?
Have you been able to find at least one real person using chastity conditionally 24 by 7?

Angelina

hungarianguy and I don't know anyone who can be trusted.

Maybe family or close friends ?

hungarianguy

Angelina I've been thinking about this before, but I don't want to involve my family. And my friends don’t know about this special situation I’m in. This is why so hard to get a keyholder. I found some hungarian site where you can register a profile and seek for a special purpose, but unfortunately I haven't found a good one so far. The people on those sites are fetishists, but wearing a chastity cage is not necessarily a fetish for me. Rather a kind of tool that helps me to be a better person. This is why I'm wearing it after my break up, I like the effect on my personality. But I'm still looking for someone who would be my keyholder (maybe my next gf 😁). In my previous relationship it was a good thing that my gf wore chastity belt too. This is what I miss from my life, cause it was a special feeling to know my keyholder wears a belt too.

Angelina

hungarianguy

that sounds like a pretty difficult situation, maybe you should open up to your family after all. personally, i find it difficult to live chastely without a keyholder you trust.

Martin

Angelina Hi, I'm in Germany on the work trip. We can meet at coffee to talk face to face. Both belted, of course. I'm near by Ulm. Is it far or close to you? ;-) If you agree, you can write to martin.m21🦠seznam.cz

hungarianguy

Angelina Recently I started meeting a girl who is pretty cute and nice. Maybe she will be my next keyholder? 🙂
I hope so. We aren't "officially" dating, we haven't said it yet, but I would call these meetings as dates.
What is your openion how should I tell her about my chastity cage? And how could I convince her to wear one? Of course I'm planning to do this when we are officially a couple, I don't want to initiate into everything at once.
Anyway, do you mind if I ask you: Do you still have Camryn's belt? You mentioned you want to sell it if I not mistaken.

Megan

Martin sorry to intervein but I would say NO !
Nothing personal against @Martin but there is no reason to meet

Angelina

Martin

even though i find the invitation very sweet, i decline, i would prefer to remain at least somewhat anonymous, even though i like you here, you are actually still a stranger to me, so no

apart from the fact that ulm is at least 5 hours away from me by car 😂

but enjoy it, baden-wüttemberg is a very beautiful region 😃

Joh

Angelina but enjoy it, baden-wüttemberg is a very beautiful region

This is not certain. If he a little bit east he is in Bayern. 😉

Martin

Angelina Okay. Thank You. Just enjoying ;-)

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