Introductions

Melissa

Ines ok, so no mentioning masterbation (this certainly is sexual?)... while there are threads about masterbation with 16year olds participating... this is confusing. Maybe someone else can explain. Or my englisch is too bad

Ines

Melissa
It is enough, I was not moderator here from beginning, so, probably there are non appropriate posts, but it is enough.
As I said, if some user has notice of improper post, please warning to moderation and we will act quickly.
It is impossible for us moderate all.
So, please, stop arguing here, there are threads about moderation.
And my English is not perfect either.
We are happy you are here, but we have to hold order here.

Melissa while there are threads about masterbation with 16year olds participating

Please, say me what thread and I close it right now.

Melissa

Ines Angelina said here https://unwedchastity.org/d/1-introductions/46 that she turned 16 in July 2019 and posted here https://unwedchastity.org/d/40-breaks-for-masturbation/5 and here https://unwedchastity.org/d/40-breaks-for-masturbation/8 a few days later.

Or Kaja, my age, this thread, asked me about masterbation. She can ask but I'm not allowed to answer?

Please, I don't want to make trouble, I'm happy that I found this place. I just want to know what is ok to post. I red hundrets of posts so I know what you can write but that doesn't seem to help?

Should I go and return end of March? Then I'll be 18...

If this would be better in a moderation thread please move it

Ines

Melissa
Thx, it will be moderated immediately.
All a year before I joined. I just can watch for the users do not break rules in the present.

Melissa Please, I don't want to make trouble,

You are not making troubles, the goal is make a better forum.

Laura

Melissa Should I go and return end of March? Then I'll be 18...

There are many other interesting topics to discuss

Melissa

Laura OK, so Kaja (17) is allowed to ask me about masterbation, but in my reply I (17) am not allowed to mention masterbation. It's both sexual content, or not?

Are there more topics I'm not allowed to talk about, which are ok for others? I have no idea how to know this, so I surely will step pn toes again. Maybe I should leave

Ines

Melissa
The post of @Kaja is edited since you warned me. Enough is enough.
We do not want you leave us, but enough with this theme.

Joh

Melissa
Welcome at our forum.
I see you dispute as two difference reasons.

The introduction should be the place to introduce your self. Further discussion should be moved to a matching topic or create a new one.
We have concerns about what topics can be discussed when minors are present. If we give free range to this, it can have legal consequences. Therefore, sexual topics should be reduced to a tolerable level. We are still in the process of finding that.

I recommend to move your discussion e.g. to topic
Maybe here further discussion with the moderator

James

Melissa Are there more topics I'm not allowed to talk about, which are ok for others? I have no idea how to know this, so I surely will step pn toes again. Maybe I should leave

No need to leave, you’re quite welcome. 🙂

As for @Ines, she can be quite strict with her tone to go along with her moderation, but it’s a welcoming place. So no worries. As noted, the standards have changed here recently, to try and make it a safe place. Either way, happy upcoming birthday!

Martin

Ines Ines, please don’t be so strict. This edited post losing sense. I’m sure Melissa was not too vulgar. 😉

Angelina

youdontknowme Your ability to still speak coherent sentences after months, if not years without relief is a testament to your strength.

Thank you very nicely, but consider that I wear a chastity belt and am not drunk 🙂 😂

Melissa

welcome to the forum 🙂
I understand your feelings very well, I still have a few questions, but I see that there are more than 25 new posts, maybe it will be clarified 😉

Melissa So I know it's good for me, but I still hate it. I don't know if that makes sense.

That makes a lot of sense, I can understand it very well

Ines I write here and I do not sexualize any post.

yes and no, you just use different words, but for the same facts

Ines No sexual content.

then we would have to delete the forum 😂

Ines

Angelina yes and no, you just use different words, but for the same facts

I usually talk about belts.

Angelina then we would have to delete the forum

No, and it is precisely what I try to avoid.

Angelina

Ines I usually talk about belts.

like all of us but the belts have functions and depending on how you describe the function of a belt it may or may not sound sexual but the facts are the same

Jas

Not all users have same vocabulary and it's hard for some to express their feelings in more... academic way. But practice makes perfection, and you learn from own mistakes. Or someone else's mistakes.

However it is, welcome.

Angelina

Jas and it's hard for some to express their feelings in more... academic way.

and frankly, i don't want that either. writing honestly about feelings gives a much better picture. 🙂

hungarianguy

i am a big fan of technical safes, don't you know anyone else who can take the keys?

Sara2001

Jas Not all users have same vocabulary and it's hard for some to express their feelings in more... academic way. But practice makes perfection, and you learn from own mistakes. Or someone else's mistakes.

Especially if English is not your first language. Talking about the consequences of the belt without touching sexual aspects is just impossible. I think for most of us these aspects are most important to talk about beside a few tips and tricks how to handle things. It's also the main reason why we wear it, otherwise we wouldn't wear a belt. It's like talking about theme parks without being allowed to mention roller coasters and only being allowed to talk about the nice flowers and the food that is sold there.

hungarianguy

Angelina
Yes of course. Sorry for the long silence (and for My bad english as well 😅)
My ex-gf and I swapped keys so we controlled the other's belt. Now because Im single one of My closest friend held My keys but unfortunately she will move to another country soon, so I'm thinking about buying a Time-locked safe. My goal is to stay Virgin until marrige and to not get that bad addiction again.

hungarianguy

Angelina Unfortunately not. A real keyholder would be much better then a time-locked safe but currently I'm single and I don't know anyone who can be trusted.

Angelina

Sara2001 It's like talking about theme parks without being allowed to mention roller coasters and only being allowed to talk about the nice flowers and the food that is sold there.

a very good comparison, that's why i'm against banning individual words. i would rather wish that we deal with the topic sensitively, especially with minors, but also in general, and remain polite and objective.

and in general we are on the right track, i don't know of any social network where the members talk more socially, i hope it stays that way. 🙂

Kaja

Angelina I have to agree wit you, Angelina.

Andrew

Hi, my name is Andrew, I'm 40 years old, from Poland. I'm writing a book about history of chastity belts and I'm looking for real stories (not fantasies) of people who involuntarily wear chastity belts/devices in modern times. I'm also involved in BDSM and chastity play with my wife.

Jen

Andrew looking for real stories (not fantasies) of people who involuntarily wear chastity belts/devices in modern times.

I don't think it exists here

Angelina

Andrew

welcome to the forum 🙂

what you write seems very interesting, but remember that we are not a data collection point. 😉

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