Introductions

Kris

Angelina Yes, I agree 🙂

Cb85

Hello I’m a married male in my thirty’s and I had worn a cheap Chinese steel cage for a year when I decided to order a device from rigid, which arrived recently almost exactly one year after its purchase.

My wife holds my key and I’m allowed out only when she has the desire for intimacy.

I’ve struggled with addiction to porn and masturbation ever since my mother introduced me to soft pornographic movies “to teach me about sex” as she put it.

Owl

Cb85

Welcome!

Thomas

Cb85 Welcome and sorry to hear that your mother did that to you. There are some good christian ministries out there who deal exclusively with getting people free from porn addiction. Chastity can really help and it also gives your wife confidence that you aren't masturbating, but working on the addiction and it's affect on the mind can be very freeing for you and bring you some more confidence and peace. Have you found wearing chastity to change the temptation to look at things you shouldn't?

Kris

Cb85 Well then, welcome to the forum 🙂

Angelina

Cb85

welcome to the forum 🙂

i hope you can overcome your addiction and chastity helps you a bit. your mother had a very strange education method.

Megan When I hold him like a chastity would (Yeah he is bigger than the trans men but I know the shape shower curtain ring around the balls and penis in tube duh 😅 )

Kris On the other hand, you can get a custom made one like for you girls 🙂

yes, that's how it makes sense. sometimes when i look at male chastity cages i also think, that must hurt, too tight and everything looks squeezed. but i think if you order a reasonable belt made to measure, then male chastity can also work well

Cb85

Thomas no point looking/running if you can’t finish the race 😉

Megan

Thomas The Bible doesn't support domination by husbands over their wives or wives over their husbands. Submission is a voluntary choice and not something which is forced on a woman in the New Testament, and chastity use for Christians should be voluntary with a keyholder supporting the original morally pure desires of both the wearer and the key holder. This can work for both men and women in Chastity, as a help not a prison.

You have a really super good attitude and this is how it has been for me!

Thomas Why are you not a fan of male chastity?

So I have thought about this a bit since you posted it and I guess there isn't anything wrong with male chastity.
The problem is there are several men who speak as though they have been seriously injured by male chastity.
I don't know very much about medicine but I am worried that they had the blood circulation or the tiny blood vessels inside their balls torn slowly over time from wearing a bad device. The only man I have ever seen naked is my husband and what surprised me about him is how much his penis and balls move even when he isn't hard or rather how complicated everything is. And I am not talking about when he is excited like even when he is asleep everything moves around.

When I hold him like a chastity would (Yeah he is bigger than the trans men but I know the shape shower curtain ring around the balls and penis in tube duh 😅 ) I just think there is NO way I could secure him for myself like this. The thing would either have to crush him or the penis would walk right out.

(This is probably to long for intro sorry)

Thomas

Megan You have a really super good attitude and this is how it has been for me!

Good to hear that you have a positive attitude about it too.

Megan The thing would either have to crush him or the penis would walk right out.

This is true for some of the ball trap devices out there. But not all are made equal and some are safe for most men to use without damage. I personally prefer a full belt device which protects all the bits and allows expansion room with safety. The first full belt I had was made from 304 stainless and the reaction was bad but it was better than some ball trap devices. It helped me to work out what works for me and what doesn't. My next full belt will be really safe and also with no danger of causing any damage.

I think the risk of damage comes from having poorly made devices from China and also from some BDSM kinds of usage where pain is not always avoided and the keyholder isn't always considering the health and benefit of the wearer. That is a recipe for having some damage.

Kris

Megan wearing a bad device

I agree with that 😃 Many male devices are not made for long term use and can damage the wearer. On the other hand, you can get a custom made one like for you girls 🙂

Cb85

Angelina
Yes she was very odd. I could fill books....
it has helped and having a wife that agrees and is compassionate has made a big difference.

Angelina

Cb85 it has helped and having a wife that agrees and is compassionate has made a big difference.

I believe you and I'm glad you found someone 🙂

Lckd

Hi, all im married male, locked 24/7 for 8 years now by my wife.

Kris

Lckd Hi and welcome 🙂

Angelina

Lckd

welcome to the forum 🙂

Ines

Lckd

Welcome, feel yourself comfortable and please read the rules.

Cb85

Lckd
Married 8 years too.
Locked for 2 years.

Lckd

Angelina thanks

Ines

Cb85

Aspire02

HoosierPotato

Welcome.
Feel free of posting and feel comfortable.
Please read the rules and be careful, specially with explicit sexual posts.

Lckd

Cb85 Did your wife locked you for some reason or you came with idea?

Mine was a bit jealous because of my history with previous girlfriends and good, lasting relationships (non sexual) with almost all of them (we live in a small town). Second, all her male family members had always have problems with fidelity in marriage. Despite I never cheated on her, for peace in her soul and heart, she came with idea of locking me. She was pregnant in this time with our first child and i was willing to do everything to make her happy, so i accepted and it somehow became permanent, but its different story. Now its part of our life and we have harmonic relationship full of love, respect, happiness and children🙂. Looking back i was best thing ever happen to us.
Sorry for my english...

Aspire02

Hi from Norway my name is Christoffer am locked in a cage 29 years old and a Virgin. i have the keys myself. i am interessted in both male and female chastity. I want a full belt one day as i think it looks much betther and more secure. T think chastity is good thing to controll masturbation and sex. love to read female chasity stories i want a chastity gf/wife on day

Angelina

Aspire02

welcome to the forum 🙂

HoosierPotato

welcome to the forum 🙂
I think it's wrong to call real chastity a sex game

Kris

Aspire02
Riley
HoosierPotato
ColdDamascus

Hi and welcome here 😃

HoosierPotato

Hello!

My name is Donardo (Donnie, Don, ect.), from Indiana. I am a Male, of Hungarian[?] descent, freshly turned 19, and am currently a virgin. I'm new to chastity, and am wearing a little plastic cage on-and-off for the time being. I currently still live in with my parents, of whom are strongly against chastity devices ('Sex toys', as they've been called), but anticipate on diving right down this rabbit hole in the future.

Saintprudence

HoosierPotato welcome! Your username reminds me of a question none of my Indiana-born friends have been able to adequately answer: what, exactly, IS … a “Hoosier”?

Max9

HoosierPotato Well, this community is also not a place for fetish related chastity usage.
But feel welcome here if you see chastity in a seriuos way.

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