Angelina that's a good and reasonable attitude, that's a big gesture from you đ
I think that even in liberal families there is unfortunately a lot of cowardice on the part of the parents on this delicate subject. Indeed if in almost all families masturbation is absolutely not repressed it is however completely ignored by parents.
And when a teenager often discovers by chance that certain stimulations of the genitals provoke very pleasant sensations, his instinct naturally encourages him to persevere in this stimulation to reach an orgasm. It is a very destabilizing discovery on the emotional level.
And from that moment will be born in his mind a feeling of guilt in relation to the act he has just completed. He does not really understand what has just happened to him. The fact that her parents never told her about this practice makes the teenager believe that doing so is not normal.
What is damaging is that the cowardice of parents will often lead to feelings of guilt in their children.
From my point of view, parents should find the courage to explain to their child that it is possible to feel very pleasant sensations in the genitals and that this is not unhealthy or degrading. They should be able to make their children understand that engaging in this practice will not make them sexually obsessed.
For my part I have a niece of 13 years and half and I guess she will soon be faced with the discovery of the pleasures of her body. (If it's not already done) Since I do not really feel able to talk about it with her, I planned to give her a book for Christmas.
This book addresses the subject of masturbation indirectly by explaining that it is an activity quite normal. And I hope that by reading this book she will be reassured and will not feel guilty by being confronted with this surprising discovery. (I consider the first orgasm a moment as important in a woman's life as the first kiss or the first sexual intercourse)
The book is called "The woman's logbook". It's a pity it exists only in French. "Le livre de bord de la femme"
It is subtitled: "The answers to all the questions that a woman asks herself at different periods of her life"
Here is the link :
https://www.abebooks.fr/rechercher-livre/titre/livre-de-bord-de-la-femme/
