Esteban And I did not expect at all that a girl 17 years could recognize herself in a film with a military connotation.
Really thriller film, but with military background, it is the same that Enemy at the gates, really a western, or The night of the generals, one of my favourite films ever, that is a police film.
Esteban absolute faith in his superior)
Really is not faith in his superior, it is faith in his friend. Conviction and support the man, not to the soldier. In fact, they go very farther of military discipline: they defect of Soviet Union.
Esteban a couple must not operate on a military discipline.
Esteban This means that I will never impose on him one of my wishes that could harm him.
This is the leadership that a man must effect. Use his responsibility in order to make better the relationship and make happier the girl.
Esteban if there were to be a conflict of interest, I would rather sacrifice my share of the profit so as to avoid my choice being able to harm him.
Here, I would like to nuance a bit your opinion. I agree completely, and me, as more submissive partner I think the same. But you are talking about conflict of interests between the man and the woman. But I, await of my man, the honesty and firmness to impose the interest of couple about mine, even if I can not see it in a first moment.
Esteban This means that if I find a partner who is much wiser and more visionary than I am, I will be able to accept the role of Borodin. Although I must admit that it is unlikely because I feel more like a guide than a person to be guide
It is in my opinion the absolutely natural for a man. I think the ideal state of art of the Nature. In my nature I think I could not like a man who I do not think is better than me. I love my role of Borodin, but for that, I have to find a Raimius 🙂
Esteban It is now necessary for women to also play leadership roles in our society.
Well, Esteban, I think, and I want to study and become in a good professional, that your statement is not an Universal True. It is necessary that women have granted the possibility of play such roles, I agree with that. But there are a lot of girls that we are more comfortable playing another roles. I believe deeply in the individual freedom, freedom to choose my way to happiness, for that I hate so deeply feminists, more of times women with less culture that repeat mantras and insult every other women model that they do not like. I do not consider myself very stupid, sometimes a bit donkey 🐴, and I want freedom to choose be happy. And, of course I prefer be considered a "traitor" to my gender, that be a traitor to myself.
Esteban Unlike you, I consider that it is not the sex of the person who must determine his role of guide or person who is guided.
I do not consider it absolutely, and obviously there are a lot of women wishing become in leaders and I hope them the best of lucks, because they can be the leaders of my country too, but I, obviously, am not one of them.
I just want respect to my way of happiness. A submissive girl is not a stupid, just is a submissive or a bit lazy girl.