Introductions

Angelina

welcome to the forum 🙂
somehow you seem like the male version of @Sasha
may i ask how the belt helps?

PS: I don't think this camp has much to do with sexuality, I think it's more like an education camp or something, also called boot camp in the USA.

Sasha

Angelina I hope that’s the case and I’ve gotten it completely wrong. Unfortunately there are “camps” as I’ve eluded to here, not particularly pleasant things. But what would be worse is my question, camp, chastity, or what?
Honestly can’t say if he’s like I was though since he hasn’t elaborated on why he’s wearing. But it’s possible it’s a similar situation.

Kaja

youdontknowme In my country is nothing like correction camp

youdontknowme

Markus Me neither, and I doubt they would be legal either way, but sadly neither fact is conclusive proof they do not exist, nor does something need to actually exist to be used as a threat in coercion.

Tobi07

They do exist in Germany. And most common are these so called "Wohngemeinschaften für schwer erziehbare", where would likely be placed. But I better behave and stay at home,that's my plan, definitely.

Andrew

Tobi07 They do exist in Germany. And most common are these so called "Wohngemeinschaften für schwer erziehbare", where would likely be placed. But I better behave and stay at home,that's my plan, definitely.

I am neither an expert on the German youth care system nor an expert on the German language, so I may be wrong, but it seems to me that institutions of this type (Wohngemeinschaft) are more of a crisis-oriented rather than corrective nature. I wouldn't call them a "camp" either.

youdontknowme

Tobi07 They do exist in Germany. And most common are these so called "Wohngemeinschaften für schwer erziehbare", where would likely be placed. But I better behave and stay at home,that's my plan, definitely.

Those are not exactly places where parents can just send you if they are unhappy with you; unless there is an immediate threat to someone's life your family would have to have been in contact with government social workers or youth psychologists for quite a while to demonstrate that they are totally overwhelmed in their care for you.

I mean, the threat of the tyrannical social worker is frequently exaggerated to scare kids straight, like a modern-day Struwwelpeter, and I do not really mind that as a way to teach that actions have consequences. But when it comes to using those threats to extort a pretense of consent to let parts of one's body be physically restrained for extended periods, that is an entirely different matter.

Angelina

Tobi07 They do exist in Germany. And most common are these so called "Wohngemeinschaften für schwer erziehbare", where would likely be placed. But I better behave and stay at home,that's my plan, definitely.

as far as I know, this can only be ordered by the authorities, i.e. by a judge. your parents cannot simply take you there.
also, camp would be a bit of an exaggeration, as far as I know it's a sheltered accommodation for young people who have serious problems and yes there are hard rules, but not to be compared with a bootcamp in the usa or something like that.

Ines

Tobi07

No, and here your participation is very limited due age nature.
Not adults threads and absolutely not allowed any detail of sexual nature.

Sasha

youdontknowme Didn’t know this was a system outside the US, very interesting learning about things like this.
But I have to agree that using something that extreme as a means of extortion is crossing a line. Plus he mentioned send him there, chastity or worse. What exactly was the worse option?

George

Angelina And from personal experience, if the family looks somewhat okay, middle class (basically the flat is clean, the pets look not feral, there are no visible marks of violence on the kids), family social services will decline to help, even if the family and the kid's psychiatrist ask them to provide help in the form of a social worker.

Family social services also have only a limited budget and resources, and they usually try to limit "spending" it to the very obvious cases. Now a upper middle class family that by its own asks for help, gets the kid medical help, and is paying for immediate psychological treatment privately (because public health slots take a waiting time and are a bit hard to come by), that's a clear case of let's visit them for 30 minutes once, and they've literally been never seen again. Guess our family's file went to the cold files.

No matter who sent them requests for "family counseling support", … => black hole.

Angelina

George

It is of course not good if you need help and don't get it, but it is just as bad to get excessive help from people who hardly know the family.

EngineeringEmily

welcome to the forum 🙂
i join the 5 questions of @Kaja and add a sixth. do you still live at home, also during the semester? if no, how is 24/7 chastity possible with you?

EngineeringEmily

Hi,
I’m Emily and i’m new here. I just finished my first year of college. Engineering is hard and after getting poor grades my first semester my parents wanted to take away boys and sexual desire as a distraction. They said they would only keep paying for school if I agree to wear a chastity belt. At first I thought it was crazy. But, college in usa is a lot of money so I thought it would be worth it. I am super frustrated but I was able to focus more on school and my grades have gone up. I thought I could have it off during the summer but apparently that’s not the case. They don’t want me fooling around with boys and not being motivated for school at the end of summer. So basically I’m stuck locked in this horrible device with no boyfriend and no sex lol. My father said he already paid for next semester so I can’t change my mind now.

Kaja

EngineeringEmily This is pervert. Im sorry for you.

Might I ask a few questions?

1) What belt do you use?
2) Are you locked 24/7?
3) Do you have any breaks (supervised, non supervised)?
4) How long are you without orgasm?
5) Do you prefer not wear one?

Joh

EngineeringEmily Other say to have No Orgasmus all the time is distructing. It would be better to have the CB Off Ehen you slone in your room.
With this argument I would negotiate free time for you. To reinforce it, you can add that frustration would undermine your motivation to study.

Laura

EngineeringEmily They said they would only keep paying for school if I agree to wear a chastity belt. At first I thought it was crazy.

How did they know about such crazy thing?

EngineeringEmily

Laura I don’t know. Google? You are all in chastity. How did your parents learn about it?

EngineeringEmily

Neosteel belt

Yes 24/7

Supervised shower breaks

Time since last climax is a little personal but a little over a year now. I’m not sure if the breast stimulation ones really count. They certainly are not full climaxed, but sometimes take the edge off. More like mini not powerful climax.

I would definitely prefer to not be in a belt. But unless I quit school I have no other choice. I can’t afford college and I don’t want 80,000 in debt after school.

Yes I live at home and commute even during the school semester. I drive a Tesla x that my daddy bought me for graduation of high school.

Laura

EngineeringEmily I’m not sure if the breast stimulation ones really count

Don't tell your parents 😂

EngineeringEmily How did your parents learn about it?

My mother worn one

Ines

@EngineeringEmily , welcome to the forum. Read the rules and feel comfortable here.

Sasha You may try negotiating a release at the end of the semester based on grades. I maintain a B average or better and I can have some fun alone in my room.

It is true, but it will depend on beliefs of every family. In my family it will never happen.

EngineeringEmily Time since last climax is a little personal

It is very personal, it was a unfortunate question. I have not achieved to avoid that members have such questions, even with not known new members.

EngineeringEmily I’m not sure if the breast stimulation ones really count.

Hide it. If they do not like it, they can buy you new accessories.

Sasha

EngineeringEmily You may try negotiating a release at the end of the semester based on grades. I maintain a B average or better and I can have some fun alone in my room.
Were boys explicitly banned or can you still date? Obviously without sex, but some guys are ok with that

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