Wrote a message in the keyholders thread but was asked if I could write something here as well. So let's copy and expand on what I wrote in that thread.
I'm a male in my early forties from one of the Scandinavian countries. I've been lurking on this forum for a while.
On the one hand I'm hoping most users here are trolls because otherwise I'm absolutely horrified about the number of people abusing younger family members by locking them into bondage devices. For me this is just so weird, and this is certainly not something that I will ever come to terms with. For me this seems just as weird as locking a collar or a pair of handcuffs on them. When stumbling upon such content I'm very grateful for people like @gwen and @Sin who seems to be keeping the forum sane...
On the other hand I also find many good and thoughtful discussions on both practical issues concerning chastity belt wearing and, most notably, the emotional aspects. I'm especially interested in reading about the emotional effects it can have on relationships and very much enjoy reading the thoughts of for example @Foxies and her partner, two people who just seems to do things very right. Reading about the emotional sides of chastity belt wearing is something I haven't really found at other places.
I'm also totally in awe of the partner of @Zoe after reading how she managed to maneuver @Zoe into a chastity belt. For myself I can only hope to eventually accomplish the same with my partner.
So that's where my interests lie, consensual wearing within an adult relationship, for D/s purposes. Female chastity is something that has been a kink of mine since I first heard about it in my early teens (somewhere back in the mid nineties) and I've dreamt about keeping my partner locked up in a belt pretty much ever since. And for various reasons I hope that it may finally be time to actually try to make it into reality. Although it does seem as in real life this is something that requires a lot of dedication to get started in, and life has a habit of getting in the way. So we'll have to see what happens.
(As a matter of fact though, she is actually wearing one right now as I'm writing this introduction. Been wearing it for a couple of hours which may be the longest so far. Still a very long way left to go though...)
