Introductions

Laura

Milord Don't take it seriously

dorothea

Milord And she says explicitly its a parental decision, not her decision.

Sorry but that's not correct! I said they talked to me and convinced me, not that they were forcing me to do it! I could have said no and I wouldn't have been kicked out of home as a consequence!

Laura They are going to start in January if I understood right

Even if I didn't say it directly, that's how it should be.

Joh From which company will be the belt?

Its from My-Steel.

Joh Does your mom and aunt wear one?

Yes, they both wear one too.

Joh

dorothea In which country do you live?

Milord

dorothea let's be honest. If you get ot not in chastity belt will not change my life. Or ours in this forum. Not even the slightest impact. I have not the minimum interest in convincing you.
The one that will stay without orgasming for years and years, that will have problems with a lot of activities, that will have to find the way to explain to friends, eventual boyfriends that things that for everyone are normal (for you too until now) will not longer be this way.
This forum is full of problems, issues, suffering from people in chastity belt that could have been avoided staying away. You want to jump in? Well, I feel the moral duty to tell you that it is an awful idea that will destroy your youth, the best years of your life, but if you want to do it... your choise. The one that will pay dearly is you. Here just a couple of links, please read them carefully. In your interest, not mine. You will find a lot of others.
And yes, there are people who are happy about it. Again. Your life, your choise, your consequences.

https://unwedchastity.org/d/982-possible-adverse-medical-issues

https://unwedchastity.org/d/555-reasons-a-chastity-belt-sucks

Susan

dorothea Hello Dorothea, welcome to the forum. This is a good place to be if you are just starting to wear a belt. My story is very similar to yours. I too was caught masturbating and my aunt did not approve so she ordered a belt for me. It was much more complicated than that, but I have been wearing a belt full time for over a year and a half.

I am sure you a nervous about it, I was for sure. It is not easy but you get used to it. I hope you post your questions. I will answer the best I can.

dorothea

From Germany.

Joh

dorothea My mom caught me masturbating a few weeks ago. In general she is a bit more conservative and against it. Girls shouldn't play as such.

I should also stop being so lazy and focus my energy on other things like school. She also means general behavior.

Did you try to change your behaviour?
I think if you not had the change to change yourself a belt ist over the top.

Ines

dorothea

Hello.
Almost 18 is not 18.
So we await you in 2 months. I will not delete the answers because they can useful to other girls.
See you on January!

Kaja

dorothea And do you agree? Do you think that masturbation is wrong? Do you really want to be locked without relieve?

Angelina

Anne

welcome to the forum 🙂

dorothea

welcome to the forum too
which belt will you be getting?

Milord And she says explicitly its a parental decision, not her decision.
Once in, she will never get out.

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Avery

Susan I hope you let her @dorothea post, perhaps in a new thread. Where she can ask questions. This is a good place where lots of people can provide advice.

@dorothea @Susan Susan I know you mean well. And @Angelina did an excellent job welcoming @dorothea but it's not always a good place to get advice.

We have the usual suspects who make multiple postings aimed at this 17-year-old trying to make debating points. It's not a good trend, in my opinion. I do hope she stays around, ignores the political stuff, and learns things that will help her.

Milord

Avery there is no politics here. Pointing that something in unhealthy and dangerous is not politics. You asked me to be left alone. I complied and stopped answering you. Can you do me the same favor? Or if you can’t refrain yourself, can you at least tell me where my arguments are wrong?

Avery

Milord Or if you can’t refrain yourself, can you at least tell me where my arguments are wrong?

I already explained to you where you are wrong. Don't shove this stuff down the throat of a confused and frightened minor until she's at least been greeted in a sympathetic fashion. And I am 3-4 years ahead of you here in trying to discourage people from putting on a belt by default.

Avery

youdontknowme Political stuff? We are talking about a kid who is expecting to give away control over her bodily autonomy. Keeping her aware of potential pitfalls is the least we can do.

Doesn't take three postings with multiple paragraphs with a drill-sergeant tone. She's not a military draftee. I've been as tough as I could on people like the aunt and her nieces but not on day one. And telling people what their rights are is kind of Quixotic given the person who wants to take away her rights is in control of her life. Consider that she might be confused and frightened.

WriterAlexis

Milord

I'm generally talking

Why are you speaking generally in the welcome thread? Isn't that off-topic?

Ines

What the hell is this!!!!! Stop, please.
This is introduction topic, and suddenly I see an argument of some users against other ones.

Avery

Ines Stop, please.

Sorry.

Jenna

Ines Sorry Ines. I will move back to my Belting for Nieces thread.

Milord

Jenna out of respect for @Ines and admins I will not answer your post, and stay away from your threads. Just to point out, if someone from admins or moderators think I'm a fake, or plainly tell me my presence is barely tolerated, they can just tell me and I will go away.
@ines apologize if what I write is inappropriate.

dorothea

Alo, I definitely didn't want people here to argue because of me 🙁

Avery

dorothea Alo, I definitely didn't want people here to argue because of me 🙁

Actually the arguments have nothing to do with YOU. They are about us.

Please feel welcome. There are people here who will be happy to help you.

Joh

dorothea
Don't worry. As @Avery already wrote. We do IT all the time because we have different View on the topic. 😉
Still you are Welcome and I Hope we didn't scare you.

Angelina

dorothea Alo, I definitely didn't want people here to argue because of me 🙁

it's not about you, I hope you feel welcome anyway. 🙂
unfortunately some people here have completely lost their compass

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