Introductions

audioguy58

Age 61. Male. Location: United States.

I’ve been a chastity belt fetishist and fancier since reading two letters in the Dear Abby advice column in the local newspaper in 1970 at age 12.

I support the concept of “serious use” of chastity belts as set forth by Robert Pinkerton in The Effects of Chastity Belt Use and Their Implications.

I hope to stay in the background here as much as possible, because this forum is not about me; it’s about the young ladies who are actually wearing belts.

Laura

audioguy58 I’ve been a chastity belt fetishist and fancier since reading two letters in the Dear Abby advice column in the local newspaper in 1970 at age 12.

Did you have a chance to put a chastity belt on a girl during these 49 years?

Ines

audioguy58
And do you talk about restraints? I think that in 49 years, you learn that wifes and daughters are normal audience.

Angelina

audioguy58

after this introduction i will assume that you are not a troll

but I was right about fetishist 😉

Renita

audioguy58 I support the concept of “serious use” of chastity belts as set forth by Robert Pinkerton in The Effects of Chastity Belt Use and Their Implications.

That concept is hard to understand, I think nobody manage to even read it.

audioguy58

Laura No, sadly I have not.

I often think of Lisa, the girl I used to run around with at university, age 18-19. I wish that I had had the courage to walk Lisa over time the university library and introduce her to my favorite book, Girdles Of Chastity by Eric John Dingwall. Maybe I could have belted Lisa had I played my cards right.

I often think of Peggy, my first love, and the one true love of my life. I often wonder how it would have affected the trajectory of our young love if one or both sets of parents had imposed chastity belts on us. I wonder whether it would have killed the relationship had I confessed to her my desire for her to wear my chastity belt. I raised this very topic to my psychiatrist several years ago.

The sad truth is that we simply did not have affordable, high-quality, adjustable chastity belts when I was younger. Nor did we have an internet.

Vanessa

audioguy58

Welcome!

Generally,it is not a forum for fetishists,but as you consider serious use of these,too,no problem.

Renita That concept is hard to understand, I think nobody manage to even read it.

I didn't even know about this book/article.

audioguy58

Not sure how they would have reacted if you talked about it.

But,you think it would have been better if you and/or your first love had to wear a chastity belt,due to your parents' decsion.It is my case and,even if I'm a woman,I can tell you it is not pleasant at all...

Lea

🙂

Laura

But probably harder to know,and get,without internet.

tomdom

Welcome!

Do she liked/agreed to it?

If yes,why didn't you resume using it later?

Rick

Welcome!

So,you try to act like if you have a chastity cage/belt without wearing one?

Was it easy to resist your urges?Or does it only concern your intimacy with your wife,but not masturbation?

Rick

Removing it could make some talks ununderstandable for new users,which is not good either.So,in most of cases,we don't delete or remove it(or we could remove the topics,maybe after a split).

But thank you for your concern.🙂

Laura

audioguy58 The sad truth is that we simply did not have affordable, high-quality, adjustable chastity belts

Tollyboy belts were available at that time, I guess, since my mom worn it.

Lea

Vanessa Thats fine i am not alone 🙂

Lea

Viola Hi! 🙂 Why your parents decided to give you chastity belt? What are you afraid of most? If you have any questions feel free to ask 🙂

Daphne Wow you do it coluntarily. How long you were thinking about it? What kind of belt do you have?

Angelina

Lea

hello lea how are you doing in the meantime, are you getting along better with the belt and the bra?

tomdom

welcome to the forum 😃

tomdom

Laura As said by @audioguy58, he started chastity belt fetishism when internet was just an American university study. Furthermore the belt weren't as cheap as the Chinese ones today.

tomdom

Hi everyone,
I'm a French father and I was born in 1977.
I have had some experience with my wife and her belt.
It disappeared from our games after our first child birth 7 years ago.

Lea

Angelina Hi! yeas it is better I start to used for it 🙂, but sometimes I am still frustrated

Rick

Hi, call me Rick. I am married, in my 70s, and a strong Christian.

I am concerned about marriages that fall into complacency because of failure to communicate about issues of intimacy. I read a bit about male chastity. While much of it was ugly and perverted, it seemed there was something to be learned from the expression of feelings that occurred. I now focus on my wife more when I have a sexual thought. Sometimes that works because I fantasize that my wife keeps very close watch on my sexuality.

I do not see a chastity belt as appropriate for male or female. In marriage, I would accept the idea of a tamper-evident seal on the genitals to build trust, but only if less physically restrictive than either a chastity belt or a male cage.

I have been lurking here for a few months. Google searches (actually DuckDuckGo which I think is better) keep reminding me your site is here. I like to test sites a little. I first signed up with an example.com email address with same userid Rick, and usually am using tor when I visit here.

I think Laura has done a good thing by building this site. If some fantasies slip through that's ok, but material that naturally attracts fetishists needs to be removed to protect the site's integrity.

Laura

Rick but material that naturally attracts fetishists needs to be removed to protect the site's integrity.

Can you give me an example? I will review and move away

Angelina

Rick but material that naturally attracts fetishists needs to be removed to protect the site's integrity.

Laura Can you give me an example? I will review and move away

@Rick welcome 🙂

@Laura I think this is rather general

Rick

Laura Can you give me an example? I will review and move away

audioguy and a-father seem to be examples. Patience with new people is appropriate, but if there's no useful discussion when they leave, I think it's best to clean up all their posts. If they show some respect, you should consider eliminating fetish-y posts anyway. Although I will admit they are funny; it's a shame it's not safe to keep 'click bait' content. You could hide it behind 'members only' tags I suppose.

I think you are managing it well. As I am an obvious 'martian troll' I am a bit suspect too, I suppose. My ideas may be useful for married couples, but probably not for single belted women.

Saintprudence

Rick My ideas may be useful for married couples, but probably not for single belted women.

There are a few married women on the forum — myself, for one — and I know at least a few here expect to remain in their belts after marriage.

Rick

Vanessa So,you try to act like if you have a chastity cage/belt without wearing one?

Was it easy to resist your urges?Or does it only concern your intimacy with your wife,but not masturbation?

Actually it was merely a fantasy, since I didn't discuss it with my wife. I have mentally experimented with several scenarios, pretending my wife was involved. I find it very stimulating, and helpful for making sure my sexual thoughts always involve my wife. At our age, sex is mostly mental anyway, which can be very rewarding as we have a lot of memories together.

Many problems in marriage would be resolved if husbands regarded pleasuring themselves secretly to be unfaithfulness, and communicated their frustration to their wives in the right way instead. When attention is being paid to women other than their wife, the problem becomes much more severe.

I would consider saying more, but not in an open forum. I also agree with @Laura that fantasy is generally bad for the site, so I am somewhat reluctant to make an exception.

Renita

Vanessa I didn't even know about this book/article.

It was written by Robert Pinkerton mentioned by @audioguy58 long long time ago.

tomdom

Vanessa She liked the idea but she's never accepted to wear it more than a few hours.
We were younger and the measurement was done all by ourselves. She'd told me that she couldn't bear the belt. It consequently went back to Neosteel for
€1500 adjust...
Furthermore I've made the mistake to lend her the key which was quickly copied.
We stopped playing with the belt because we had a child and her morphology changed after giving birth.

Angelina

Rick I would consider saying more, but not in an open forum.

because of the fetishists here?

don't worry, most of us answer based on real experiences 🙂

Saintprudence

Rick I have to say, your honesty about exactly where you’re coming from is genuinely refreshing.

Vanessa

Rick

Maybe you should discuss it a bit with her,she may be interested.

I had several boyfriends who were masturbating even if we were sexually active together,but I never felt they were unfaitfhul to me due to this.Even if I doubt they didn't fantasize on other women too during it.

Saintprudence

I agree.

sun

Welcome!

Unusual testimony,and interesting.

It seems you were able to discuss more about it,and I'm glad to read that our forum helped you to talk about this more openly!🙂

Lea sometimes I am still frustrated

Logical.It is still my case...

I would have trouble to wear my chastity bra permanently.

Renita Interesting idea to offer a chastity belt to bride.

I agree.It is generally worn before(and sometimes continue after),rarely started at marriage.

sun I could open it at our wedding night.It must be romantic and exciting.

I think so,too.

sun Is it possible that she likes the chastity belt in her heart and doesn't tell me?

I guess she would have told you if it was the case.

Rick

Angelina because of the fetishists here?

Because such discussion appears in search results and attracts fetishists to the site.

Saintprudence I have to say, your honesty about exactly where you’re coming from is genuinely refreshing.

Thank you. It began to seem more polite to come in and say hello than to continue reading only.

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