Amy
Welcome!
When should it be delivered?
Amy
So it is a traditional thing in your family?
I don't agree with him,it is pretty uncommon.
So,you accepted it willingly,and think they're right to make you wear one?Do you accepted it quickly,or do you protested at first?
Amy
Several of us here wearing one are from Germany.
James why doesn't she wear one as an example then?
It would be more fair,sure!
Amy I can't really say why she doesn't wear one other than to say that she told me that dad didn't want her to wear one after marriage unless she really wanted to, and that she doesn't see the point of wearing one after its done it's job.
So,you're expected to wear it until marriage too?Even if you move out before?
Amy the plan has to be adjusted again once the thigh bands become a hinderance to it
Why not unlocking these during sports and locking the thigh bands again after it?If he monitors you,he could be sure you wouldn't try anything sexual,and,anyway,your chastity belt would prevent you to do it.
Amy wear the thigh bands that come with the belt
Too bad you have to wear thigh bands too...Even if the use of these would increase progressively.
Have you/would you have a dress code?
Amy
Wow,it is a very detailed plan,yes.It seems he thought a lot about it...
You talked about dating,would it be more free or more limited?Have they to "approve" your boyfriend/girlfriend?
Logical you're nervous.
Amy 'm sorry if some of this does not translate well.
No problem,it was totally understandable.
Amy nothing good. I was told that If I didn't want to agree, that they would find a cousin on my mother's side to send me to so I could finish secondary school, then i'd be on my own.
So,even if you agreed,apparently easily,you've no other choices.Or you would be in a lot of troubles.
Amy I think my parents think it's a good idea. I think that my parents know what is good for me, even when I do not agree with it. I accept that wearing it will be something I will have to do. tbh I don't know what I think about it. there are aspects I like about it, like being treated more like my sister, who gets a lot more unsupervised time, later curfews, stuff like that. I like that I'm sort of following my sister's footsteps, like then we have even more things in common and such. I like the idea that i'm cared for enough to have restrictions placed on me. I don't like the idea of being belted, and am flat out scared of the thigh bands after reading the thread on this forum. I don't like that I can't be like the other girls at my school and do the things they do with their boyfriends. I don't like that I can't be in control of my body with the belt the same way I am now. I'm not sure if that's a good answer to your question, but I'm feeling a whole lot of things right now.
Good you would have some privileges.
However,it seems you're not sure it is a good thing to have to wear it,more something you'll have to do,no matter if you like it or not.Even if you tend too to consider it as a proof your parents care a lot for you
About being in control of your body,it makes me wonder if it would be a chastity belt(preventing anything sexual)or an abstinence belt(same belt,but allowed to masturbate)?
Sara2001 I think this is maybe one of the best places to get all these information.
I agree!๐.
