Introductions

sun

Laura
Do you know any information about the Tollyboy?

Renita

sun I agreed with her about her virgin and showed her a picture of a woman wearing a chastity belt.

Welcome.
Interesting idea to offer a chastity belt to bride.

sun

Renita
😄 Yes，it's my orignal plan to give her a chastity belt before the wedding ceremony.Then I could open it at our wedding night.It must be romantic and exciting. 😅 But she refused to show her naked body to me before marriage.When I gave her the belt,it is two weeks later.

Vanessa

Rick

Maybe you should discuss it a bit with her,she may be interested.

I had several boyfriends who were masturbating even if we were sexually active together,but I never felt they were unfaitfhul to me due to this.Even if I doubt they didn't fantasize on other women too during it.

Saintprudence

I agree.

sun

Welcome!

Unusual testimony,and interesting.

It seems you were able to discuss more about it,and I'm glad to read that our forum helped you to talk about this more openly!🙂

Lea sometimes I am still frustrated

Logical.It is still my case...

I would have trouble to wear my chastity bra permanently.

Renita Interesting idea to offer a chastity belt to bride.

I agree.It is generally worn before(and sometimes continue after),rarely started at marriage.

sun I could open it at our wedding night.It must be romantic and exciting.

I think so,too.

sun Is it possible that she likes the chastity belt in her heart and doesn't tell me?

I guess she would have told you if it was the case.

Daniil

Laura Yes, I can connect directly without proxies and VPNs

Daniil

sun I know only one chastity manufacter at China - Black Emperor. Do you use it?

sun

Daniil Yes，Black Emperor.

Laura

sun But she refused to show her naked body to me before marriage

She could put a belt on without doing it

sun

Laura
Is it possible that she likes the chastity belt in her heart and doesn't tell me?

sun

Laura

She could put a belt on without doing it

I'm sorry for misunderstanding this message at the begining.
I don't think she want to or she can measure her body by herself.

sun

sun Maybe I'm wrong.I talked with my friend about this topic.He told me before marriage his wife refused sex too.

Lea

Vanessa How do you mean trouble?

Amy

Hi! I'm Amy. I hope i'm on the right forum, this is the first one I found that doesn't look like a bunch of fantasies. Technically i'm not belted yet, but my father has ordered one.

James

Amy Hi Amy, you are. How old are you and why has he?

Renita

Amy Technically i'm not belted yet, but my father has ordered one.

Welcome. If he has ordered one, you know what it is.

Amy . there are aspects I like about it, like being treated more like my sister, who gets a lot more unsupervised time, later curfews, stuff like that.

These are good perks, but thighbands.

Amy and am flat out scared of the thigh bands after reading the thread on this forum

You should try to avoid it, because they are nothing, but troubles.

Lea

Amy Hi! Are you nervous because of chastity belt? What kind of belt do you have? Do you have any sex/masturbation experience?

Vanessa

Amy

Welcome!

When should it be delivered?

Amy

So it is a traditional thing in your family?

I don't agree with him,it is pretty uncommon.

So,you accepted it willingly,and think they're right to make you wear one?Do you accepted it quickly,or do you protested at first?

Amy

Several of us here wearing one are from Germany.

James why doesn't she wear one as an example then?

It would be more fair,sure!

Amy I can't really say why she doesn't wear one other than to say that she told me that dad didn't want her to wear one after marriage unless she really wanted to, and that she doesn't see the point of wearing one after its done it's job.

So,you're expected to wear it until marriage too?Even if you move out before?

Amy the plan has to be adjusted again once the thigh bands become a hinderance to it

Why not unlocking these during sports and locking the thigh bands again after it?If he monitors you,he could be sure you wouldn't try anything sexual,and,anyway,your chastity belt would prevent you to do it.

Amy wear the thigh bands that come with the belt

Too bad you have to wear thigh bands too...Even if the use of these would increase progressively.

Amy no.

Have you/would you have a dress code?

Amy

Wow,it is a very detailed plan,yes.It seems he thought a lot about it...

You talked about dating,would it be more free or more limited?Have they to "approve" your boyfriend/girlfriend?

Logical you're nervous.

Amy 'm sorry if some of this does not translate well.

No problem,it was totally understandable.

Amy nothing good. I was told that If I didn't want to agree, that they would find a cousin on my mother's side to send me to so I could finish secondary school, then i'd be on my own.

So,even if you agreed,apparently easily,you've no other choices.Or you would be in a lot of troubles.

Amy I think my parents think it's a good idea. I think that my parents know what is good for me, even when I do not agree with it. I accept that wearing it will be something I will have to do. tbh I don't know what I think about it. there are aspects I like about it, like being treated more like my sister, who gets a lot more unsupervised time, later curfews, stuff like that. I like that I'm sort of following my sister's footsteps, like then we have even more things in common and such. I like the idea that i'm cared for enough to have restrictions placed on me. I don't like the idea of being belted, and am flat out scared of the thigh bands after reading the thread on this forum. I don't like that I can't be like the other girls at my school and do the things they do with their boyfriends. I don't like that I can't be in control of my body with the belt the same way I am now. I'm not sure if that's a good answer to your question, but I'm feeling a whole lot of things right now.

Good you would have some privileges.

However,it seems you're not sure it is a good thing to have to wear it,more something you'll have to do,no matter if you like it or not.Even if you tend too to consider it as a proof your parents care a lot for you

About being in control of your body,it makes me wonder if it would be a chastity belt(preventing anything sexual)or an abstinence belt(same belt,but allowed to masturbate)?

Sara2001 I think this is maybe one of the best places to get all these information.

I agree!🙂.

Amy

James Hi James. I'm 16 years old, and he decided the time was right to purchase a belt for me. He said he was going to next year regardless, but the reason for getting mine a year early was because I broke the rules and lost his trust.

well after that, he, my mom and I were in his study, and he explained that I'd be getting a belt, like my sister, and that it was because they (my parents) want to keep me safe, and keep me from my own natural temptations. he explained that all of the women in his family have worn chastity belts, and that it is a perfectly normal thing outside of the US in families that believe in traditional values. he said that my hormones were going to give me urges that i'd no doubt want to act on, but should not, and that this will help me stay as god intended. he brought up a few examples of things I had been doing the past couple of months that made his point, and I agreed with him that maybe I needed to try something like this earlier than my sister needed it. he then tried to comfort me by walking me through the plan to ease me into wearing such a restrictive device, and explained that he was only trying to do this because they (my family) love me very much and don't want me straying down the wrong path.

Laura

Amy he explained that all of the women in his family have worn chastity belts

Including your mother?

Amy

Laura My mother was born in america and was not raised around cb's. she did not wear one while she dated him, and does not wear one after marriage. He was referring to the girls in his family that were not his wife, i'm guessing. she did agree that she thought it was a good idea though. I did object initially because my mom does not wear one, but then she explained that she made decisions she regretted in her younger years before meeting my dad, and that she didn't want me or my sister to make the same mistakes.

Laura

Amy My mother was born in america and was not raised around cb's.

Then what country is you dad from?

James

Amy Nice town, Hamburg. Can be a bit cold but they have a great harbour and lots of friendly people.

Amy I did object initially because my mom does not wear one, but then she explained that she made decisions she regretted in her younger years before meeting my dad, and that she didn't want me or my sister to make the same mistakes.

Fair enough, but why doesn't she wear one as an example then? How often do they want you to be in it? You've mentioned a belt, but what about the rest that can come with it?

Amy

Laura Germany. he was born in Hamburg and moved to america later just before he met my mom. I love the story of how they met 🙂

Amy

James I can't really say why she doesn't wear one other than to say that she told me that dad didn't want her to wear one after marriage unless she really wanted to, and that she doesn't see the point of wearing one after its done it's job. she did say that she knows of cousins that chose to keep wearing theirs after they were married, but that those kinds of decisions are ones that husbands and wives make together.

when it first arrives, i'll be wearing the belt outside the house except at school, and will only have to wear the thigh bands that come with the belt at night which is the only other time they expect me to wear it at first. Eventually, once I turn 18, I can expect to wear the full belt (including thigh bands) 24/7 until my wedding night, except when it comes off for cleaning, or dr appt, or a few other special situations. so far as I know, that's as restrictive as it will get (and that's a lot, mind you.)

James

Amy Fair enough. My only reply to that is if her argument for you wearing it is she should have been wearing one, then like @Ines mom's @Tere, your mom should wear one as an example.

Yes it's very restrictive - do you do sports?

Ines

Amy
In first moment, we'll come to the forum, and as moderator, remind you to read rules.

I have some question and considerations.

My first one is ask you, what do you think about wear it? Even nervous, it is something that you wish to do?

Amy she doesn't see the point of wearing one after its done it's job.

I disagree fully. Accept it, in my opinion is that parents only think about belt as a tool because misstrust her daughter, and it is further of it. Since our moms are women too, the job of belt is not done at all.

Amy and will only have to wear the thigh bands that come with the belt at night

Logical, if we expect a totally safe belt.

Amy

James

James Yes it's very restrictive - do you do sports?

I don't do sports, but I do work out in the gym room we have at home. when it comes time to be wearing the belt at home not at night, there is a plan for me to be unlocked from it for working out, until we can all come up with a work out plan that I can do with the belt on. tbh, that plan might exist before I start wearing the belt more, in which case i'd imagine the plan would be revised.

the plan has to be adjusted again once the thigh bands become a hinderance to it, so I can expect things to evolve as the situation does, because nothing is set in stone and my dad says he understands how difficult these things can and likely will be on me, and that he'll adjust the plan to make sure i'm as comfortable as is practical, and that I don't feel like i'm missing out on life as much as he can while keeping to the intent of the belt. I'm not particularly happy on this front, but I do know somewhere in this ball of emotions i'm feeling that he does just want me to be taken care of and safe, and that's what i'm focusing on rn.

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