Avery I agree that all of the measures you’ve implemented are very productive in your endeavor.
But I think you should do a lot of self reflection on masturbation. Primarily focusing on A: why do you personally feel it’s wrong or unproductive in moderation, and B: if you were to do so, would it be a hindrance or distraction from important things? Sports, studies, friends, etc. obviously none of us can answer this for you.
You mentioned groups where this lifestyle seems easier and more supported, but unless i misread the post I didn’t see you mention having a support structure in your own life.
This I feel is a critical component to changing any behavior, especially in matters of addiction or something that is so engrained that most consider it normal. If there’s no one to support, encourage and hold us accountable, there’s not much stopping us from doing a given activity.
Hope that helps a little.
@Milord Disco? Is that still a thing?