Angelina however, the belt has been used for that in my case, which contradicts the idea that the belt is more for obedient housewives, at least that's how part of your statement seemed to me
According to what I read here you are an exception. Also on getting unbelted after marriage. Most girls here think that it will be her future husband that will decide if they will be still belted or not, so it goes on the direction of obedient housewives (or at least obedient wives).
May I ask you why you don’t think it has a positive impact?