Why it is wrong for a parent to use chastity on offspring.

youdontknowme

Angelina i think if this user is a woman, we have a girlfriend for Valadar 🤣

Not sure if Boers like Catholics.

youdontknowme

As we can see from Carlos's story:
Normalizing infringements on bodily autonomy makes the victim vulnerable to future abusive relationships. A person raised to not be in charge of their own body may find it more difficult than most to resist an abusive partner.

Milord

youdontknowme

Added. Thank you

Angelina

youdontknowme

phew, i've read carlo's story and i'm afraid i have to agree with you, even though my experience is different. i would add, however, that i think your argument only applies if the family is extremely careful to ensure that the future partner is positive about the topic of chastity belts

Milord

Angelina There is a case in this forum in which father and fiancee worked together so that she will become the perfect housewife slave.

Angelina

Milord There is a case in this forum in which father and fiancee worked together so that she will become the perfect housewife slave.

i know who you are talking about and have already explained to you by email that i see it differently

Milord

@Angelina , this is what I wrote and you are disagreeing

Milord There is a case in this forum in which father and fiancee worked together so that she will become the perfect housewife slave.

I just write the point where she said this. Her words not mine. I’m honestly amazed by the fact that you consider me the one disrespectful around for calling her slave. And what kind of person is treated like her? But sure, it’s me disrespectful to call a slave with the right name. You prefer victim? Abused?
Do you think that it is an acceptable daughter / boyfriend/ father healthy dynamic?

WriterAlexis

@kamalawillwintheelection is peak everything.

pestulens

Angelina I also think I know who he is talking about and while I imagine she would characterize things differently, I can't see anything in what he said that is wrong.

@Sara2001 I know you don't visit the site much anymore but just in case you see this, I wanted to make sure you knew you would have a chance to weigh in.

Milord

Angelina we disagree on several things ☺️
But on this specific one, there is not a lot to disagree: it's written here, I'm not inventing anything.

Angelina

Milord there is not a lot to disagree: it's written here

right, but on the one hand i draw a different conclusion than you and on the other hand not everything is described here by far because it is too ‘much’ for the forum. i like you, but please don't act as if there is only one conclusion, you are allowed to say your opinion, but it is not an absolute fact (sorry i have to be so direct now)

Milord

Angelina

Angelina, please read here and tell me what conclusion I should draw
https://unwedchastity.org/d/29-become-a-good-woman/80

Just to post one... I've read worse ones

Sin

Milord I especially like the bit where the father arranges a hook up and then proceeds to beat the crap out of his daughter because of the hook up he arranged. Such wholesome parenting. Truly an inspiration.

Angelina

Milord

i know what she wrote, i was part of the forum back then, but there is one crucial thing. she married him, she wasn't forced to and she agreed to the lifestyle, she wasn't forced to either. to compare her to a slave is disrespectful

Milord

Sin Which thoughtful father doesn't talk with her daughter's boyfriend about how to punish her and how many orgasms she's entitled to? Just the normal kind of conversation.

Angelina

Milord

she has chosen to submit to her husband after the wedding and become his sub. maybe it is a bit confusing because it is often used synonymously in the BDSM scene, but there is a clear difference to slaves. in my mind, slaves do not have the free will to make this decision. But Sara made this decision voluntarily, otherwise she wouldn't have married him

Milord

Angelina

Angelina But Sara made this decision voluntarily, otherwise she wouldn't have married him

Voluntary? And continue to stay at home with her abusive father? Hell, I would have married him to flee from the abuses! Angelina, are you serious?

Joh

Milord She live with her husband in their house after they finished it. It is common to stay at home also after your married if it needs some time to get your own home done.

Max9

Milord She was old enough to just move out. She even had a job, so there's no way he could have abused any power over her, since he hadn't any.
If she wasn't ok with it she could have just said arrividerci, pack her stuff and be gone forever.
Maybe she got used to it, maybe she found comfortable with it - who knows.
But in the end it's her decision. I can't force someone to do what I would have done, neither can you.
You can advice, try to convinve them - but in the end, it's their decision

Angelina

Milord Voluntary? And continue to stay at home with her abusive father? Hell, I would have married him to flee from the abuses! Angelina, are you serious?

she no longer lives with her father and yes I am serious if you know the full story, but it is up to @Sara2001 if she wants to describe it, I have my opinion about her based on the information I have from her, if you don't have this information or interpret it differently, then that is your business

Milord in any other place different from this forum and see what the reactions will be

but we are a forum about chastity and chastity belts and not a cooking recipes forum or something like that

Milord

Max9 She was an apprentice. Alone, without family support, few can go away

@Joh it's not the same thing

Anyway if you can't see my point I can do nothing. Publish a random Sara post it in any other place different from this forum and see what the reactions will be. I dare you.

Joh

Milord I can see your point but you do not see her point. And you don't give her the opportunity to make that decision.

You don't question your wife's decision, even if it's incomprehensible to outsiders. I think you should also approve of it for others or at least consider it and not categorically deny it.

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