So, there are a lot of questions, I hope I can answer them somewhat.
A lot of things are difficult for me to put into words, especially in English.
I see how it already works in my family. Of course, something like this has disadvantages, but it also has advantages.
Admittedly, it also offers me more freedom as I can go out as I want. The rules at home will be a little less strict.
Jakob Why are there so many people from Germany who wear CB’s or at least like them? Including me. I don”t understand that.
I'm sorry, but I can't answer that for you!
What do you mean? Actually, there was a good delay! According to the information, he should have been there even quicker. It wasn't a speed order.
Susan Once she learned about them she was aggressive in getting me wear one.
My mum wasn't aggressive about it at all. Maybe or certainly she has been thinking about this for the last few years. And with sentences like, if you ever have your own belt, or a belt like that would fit you well, always work towards it.
Susan My Aunt Jenna made it clear that 24/7 was the ultimate goal
OK, that's how my mom sees it too. However, she is not aggressive, but still somehow respectful.
The three-month test phase should be exactly the same. We also talked about an exit strategy, just like yours.
Susan Aunt Jenna is my keyholder and she is always supportive of me and is always encouraging. It sounds like with your mom and aunt also wearing them and that will be a big help to you.
Yes, my mum and my aunt also have a belt like that. My mum sometimes has it for a few weeks when my dad is away at work for a long time.
Of course they both support me, but my mum also makes sure that everything is safe and works.
About self-pleasure, my parents never said that you would go to hell because of it or anything like that. But they have always made it clear that something like that is not welcome.
And somehow I think that's okay, but sometimes you just can't resist it.
Kaja When you want to stop it - marriage, long relationship, never?
Many people here directly say marriage or education. Of course you have to deal with it and I would also choose these two categories first.