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youdontknowme

So was it your mother's idea that you were the belt or yours? How was your mother introduced to her belt? Are there any rules about 24/7 wear that you are already planning?

dorothea

Laura
Yes, I know that topic. My things were not affected by this yet.
However, it must also be said that there would have been other good alternatives.

youdontknowme So was it your mother's idea that you were the belt or yours?

It came from my mother. But I'll go along with it.

First of all, there's training to be done, which will take some time; in that time, it's easier to talk about rules and the like.

Laura

dorothea What do you mean?

https://unwedchastity.org/d/1012-my-steel-is-taking-a-break

Laura

dorothea My things were not affected by this yet

Maybe your belt is the last one

Angelina

dorothea First of all, there's training to be done, which will take some time; in that time, it's easier to talk about rules and the like.

One question: this 3 month test phase. Does it take place after the training, i.e. should it cover 3 months 24/7, or is the training part of this test phase?

dorothea

Laura
I don't think so, it was ordered in November, but they were still accepting orders until the end of December, a few weeks after mine.

dorothea

Angelina Does it take place after the training, i.e. should it cover 3 months 24/7,

Yes it is

Angelina or is the training part of this test phase?

No, training doesn't count.

Milord

dorothea

Seems very mindful to me.

Kaja

May I ask what are your purpose?

Are you addicted on self pleasure and you want to stop? Do you want only to prevent self pleasure at all?
Do you want to stay virgin (and you can not do it without cb)?
It is for you more symbol of a "good girl" than exact reason?

Do you want wear one 24/7? Do you want breaks?

dorothea

Kaja Are you addicted on self pleasure and you want to stop?

Addicted would be too harsh to say.

Kaja Do you want only to prevent self pleasure at all?

That's what the belt is for.

Kaja Do you want to stay virgin (and you can not do it without cb)?

This can also be possible without a belt, but one careless action and something might happen.

Kaja It is for you more symbol of a "good girl" than exact reason?

Maybe you should define more precisely what you mean by reasons and symbols.

Joh Why do you think it is ok you do not self pleasure yourself?

Saved energy for others, it is also something you should have together with your partner.

Joh

dorothea About self-pleasure, my parents never said that you would go to hell because of it or anything like that. But they have always made it clear that something like that is not welcome.
And somehow I think that's okay, but sometimes you just can't resist it.

Why do you think it is ok you do not self pleasure yourself?

Joh

dorothea Saved energy for others, it is also something you should have together with your partner.

How much time will you save if you wear the CB 24/7 taking into account the additional time you need for the CB and the circumstances?

Angelina

dorothea Saved energy for others, it is also something you should have together with your partner.

i admit that i see it similarly, i haven't masturbated since i got married, but if you wear the belt you can't save "it" for your partner because sex is also prevented

Susan

dorothea This can also be possible without a belt, but one careless action and something might happen.

This is exactly what my aunt says

Susan

dorothea She says this too!

James

dorothea A lot of things are difficult for me to put into words, especially in English.

I do love how foreign gals say this and then reel off perfect English. Be confident, you are very good!

dorothea

Joh
It's not just about time. It's also about the action itself.

Angelina but if you wear the belt you can't save "it" for your partner because sex is also prevented
But these are completely different requirements if you continue to wear the belt for your partner.

curious

Angelina
Not when your partner has the key and can unlock whenever both of your desire sex together.
(and when only you desire and not your partner, of course that would mean no unlocking)

Angelina

curious Not when your partner has the key and can unlock whenever both of your desire sex together.

in @dorothea's case, however, the parents have the keys and not the partner

Joh

dorothea It's not just about time. It's also about the action itself.

Could you explain it more. I like to understand your reason why you think it is good to do so.

dorothea

Joh
If I don't do that and wear the belt, I also have more freedom at home. Like being allowed to stay away longer, visiting male friends and all that.
My parents don't want me to do that either. Therefore more freedom through the belt.

Joh

@"dorothea"#p109681Ok, I understand why you have more freedom when you wear the belt outside the house. But I still don't understand how you have more time when you're not touching yourself compared to the extra effort you would need to wear the CB when you're at home.

dorothea

Joh But I still don't understand how you have more time when you're not touching yourself

I don't know, but I didn't actually say that I had more time.

Milord

@dorothea you mentioned a belted aunt. Can you explain better her relationship and her reasons, if she’s married or not

dorothea

Milord you mentioned a belted aunt. Can you explain better her relationship and her reasons, if she’s married or not

She is married. She wears the belt because she shouldn't have any self-pleasuring.

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