Doro's theme.

Susan

curious It would seem weird to me to have a man locking and unlocking me. Maybe it's because I have not grown up around men. AJ is around full time when the belts are off to prevent cheating. Her seeing me naked is no big deal to me.

Susan

dorothea Same with me, sleep was hard but @Angelina told me to sleep with a pillow between my legs and that helped. I do that almost every night now.

WriterAlexis

Susan

I am also an obligate leg pillow sleeper.

dorothea

Milord I can’t understand what you are referring to

I seem to remember reading in one of the other posts that a girl's tampons were changed by her parents during her period.

This is just as unacceptable to me as being shaved by someone else.

Susan Same with me, sleep was hard but @Angelina told me to sleep with a pillow between my legs and that helped. I do that almost every night now.

Yes, pillows definitely help 🙂 My mom also gave me some extra.

Angelina good, it went better than with many others, I think you can build on that 🙂

I've had the belt on every night since then. It's getting a little better, but I think it still needs some time.

The training has now entered the next phase. I wear the belt overnight and can take it off in the morning. As soon as I get home the belt goes back on. If I still need time without the belt, it will only be supervised by my mum.
She also said that on Saturday I could keep the belt on all day for the first time.

Today I also had the tigh bands on for the first time. These parts take a lot of getting used to and they are common.

Angelina

youdontknowme Somehow, in the quote I accidentally read that as "the father shaving his daughter in the shower" and thought that was definitely a step too far.

Well then I would definitely agree with you 😂

curious

Angelina prerequisite, however, is that everyone thinks it's ok and feels comfortable

Exactly, and what you feel comfortable with largly depends on your upbringing. In traditional Japanese culture for example sharing a hot bath is normal. Mixed sauna is nothing out of the ordinary in Finnland. It's all about culture.

WriterAlexis

curious

traditional Japanese culture for example sharing a hot bath is normal.

Gender segregated, as I understand.

Ines

WriterAlexis

Leg pillow, specially breast feeding pillow, can be useful somewhat, but with the bands it is almost mandatory.
As far as I know you do not have to use bands, right? You only are user of your belt and chastity bra.
Sorry if I have asked this to you previously, but with so many people sometimes I forget these details.

Sasha

WriterAlexis As best I understand that culture, in public pools, bathhouses, etc it’s gender segregated.
But inside the home it’s not uncommon at all for parents to bath with their older children regardless of gender.
But there’s so many rules around literally everything that it gets hard to understand what is and isn’t inappropriate

WriterAlexis

Sasha

True.

And I do recall that Kotaro and Mizuki went to the public bath house together in Kotaro Lives Alone. But he is only 5.

Angelina

Sasha But there’s so many rules around literally everything that it gets hard to understand what is and isn’t inappropriate

from my point of view

appropriate when the daughter is showering and the father urgently needs to go to the toilet
inappropriate if the father stays in the bathroom for another 10 minutes afterwards

Ines You only are user of your belt and chastity bra.

I didn't even know @WriterAlexis has a chastity bra, is that true?

WriterAlexis

Ines

No bands. I just like sleeping with a leg pillow.

Thick thighs save lives.

Sasha

Angelina As far as what I’d call appropriate, I’d agree with you, but different cultures have different standards. Which makes learning about them that much more fun

WriterAlexis

Angelina

is that true?

No.

youdontknowme

Sasha I think we can dismiss any culture that consideres it appropriate for a father to stay in the bathroom to admire his daughter's beautiful body while she is trying to take a shower. For anything less than that, cultural differences, both on the individual and the national level, are valid.

Ines

WriterAlexis

My bad. I understood in a past conversación that you use bra. Much better this way. Sorry.

dorothea It wasn't my choice.

However it is not choice, I obviously, hope that you give your consent.

WriterAlexis

dorothea

I seem to remember reading in one of the other posts that a girl's tampons were changed by her parents during her period.
This is just as unacceptable to me

That was the group consensus.

Susan

dorothea The training has now entered the next phase. I wear the belt overnight and can take it off in the morning. As soon as I get home the belt goes back on. If I still need time without the belt, it will only be supervised by my mum.
She also said that on Saturday I could keep the belt on all day for the first time.

This is pretty much the same thing my aunt did. I wore it overnight, than off during the days and back on as soon as I got home. I only wore the thigh bands maybe 1-2 times, and I only after I agreed that temptations may be difficult that particular night. Not sure why you would do this, I hope this is your choice. I found them very uncomfortable.

Angelina

dorothea

it's good to read that so far your training has worked without any major problems. however, i would wait with bands (and a bra has also been ordered) until you are able to wear the belt 24/7. every device is a limitation, so don't take on too much at once.
to understand, the 3 month test only refers to the belt, or also to bands and bra?

dorothea

Susan I hope this is your choice. I found them very uncomfortable.

It wasn't my choice. But I only had it on for 2 hours. Then they came off again.
But yes, they were quite uncomfortable.

How long did it take you to get 24 hours in your belt for the first time?

youdontknowme

dorothea If they are unpleasant to wear, by all means I would like to encourage you to negotiate minimizing their use. If your parents prefer that you wear the belt, but respect your consent, your input on the terms of wear is important.

Susan

dorothea I did not like the thigh bands, I found them very uncomfortable. AJ said I did not have to wear them, she said I should only wear them if I thought that temptations would be too hard that night and that I might be prone to cheat. The hardest times is when I came home after seeing my BF. I think thigh bands are a punishment and she does too, she only got them because she thought they could help me. She promised I would never have to wear them unless I was OK with it. Same with a chastity bra I can't imagine wearing one for any reason.

dorothea How long did it take you to get 24 hours in your belt for the first time?

It took a while, maybe a few weeks before I got used to it when I first did the overnights. To get to 24 hours though it took longer, maybe a month or longer. AJ always wanted the next day to be longer than the day before, never backwards, even if just 15 minutes longer.

dorothea

Ines @youdontknowme
So I have already generally given my consent. Even before ordering.

It's also clear to me that sometimes the use can't be nice. I don't think anyone here is happy about the bands, but agrees with the use.

It's difficult to explain, but you can agree with it and still somehow be against it.

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