First night training

Laura

Dakshina and my family will bring me gifts😀 What do you think?

Depends on value of the gifts 😂

Ines

Laura Depends on value of the gifts 😂

I would ask for a hippo or an helicopter.

dorothea

Hey, how are you now? Are you getting along a little better with everything in everyday life?

Dakshina I should find a way to cheat the belt

If this fits properly, you have no chance, I've already tried it 😉

Dakshina my mother told me that when I start wearing it 24/7, they will celebrate for me and my family will bring me gifts😀 What do you think?

Do many of the family know this? For me there are only very few.

Laura Depends on value of the gifts 😂

If the gifts are bands or bras 😃

Ines I would ask for a hippo or an helicopter.

How did you come up with the idea of a hippo?

Sasha

Ines Has to be something cool though like a UH-1 Huey. Those are pretty cool helicopters

Ines

Sasha

No idea. I want one to go to the mall with my hipo. If they are big enough, it is OK.

Milord

Dakshina

You should take, in my humble opinion, this time to understand what you expect for your life. If you chose the least effort path, comply and accept everything, your life will not be yours. It’s ok, lot of people are happy this way, and maybe you rank among them, but better is if you chose it, even freely, instead of just surrender to it.
My opinion

Dakshina

Milord I have to wear chastity belt.so what I should say to them?

Joh

Dakshina I have to wear chastity belt.so what I should say to them?

Think about what you have always wanted and what you would like to get as compensation for the restriction and loss. This can also be more freedom of movement in what you are allowed to do. Or a trip with your girlfriends, or a sport that you are not allowed to do. Always ask for more because you will surely come up with a compromise. If you ask for more than you expect, it will be easier for you to compromise and your parents will also feel good because they have been able to reduce it.
When it comes to wearing thigh bands, start your own negotiations and demands.

Dakshina

I will be wearing a belt tomorrow from 10:00 am to 7:30 pm and almost the next day the training for 24/7 will become more serious and I don't know how I am going to not masturbate.

Spork

Dakshina I don't know how I am going to not masturbate.

If the belt works, you don't have a choice 🤣

curious

Spork

Dakshina I don't know how I am going to not masturbate.

You simply do not. No action required on your part. It happens automatically once the belt is on 24/7.

Greatcornbow

Dakshina I will be wearing a belt tomorrow from 10:00 am to 7:30 pm and almost the next day the training for 24/7 will become more serious and I don't know how I am going to not masturbate.

It will stop you sooner or later

Angelina

Dakshina What do you think the encouragement is for?

I'm glad I finally found the time to read your thread.
Regarding your question, I think your family wants to motivate you to start wearing 24/7 as quickly as possible. You lose quite a lot, namely complete control over your sexuality. To compensate you, you will certainly get some nice things, but the question remains whether it is worth it?
I can't speak for you, but it's actually impossible to masturbate with a well-fitting belt, definitely impossible with thigh bands, so you should be prepared to go without for a very long time
Should you wear the belt until your wedding?

Dakshina

Angelina Thankful
Yes, I have to wear it until the wedding. Have you ever been able to cheat?

Angelina

Dakshina Have you ever been able to cheat?

No, I also wore bands and a bra for a very long time, so I couldn't even stimulate myself, but even with just the belt, the stimulation never led to an orgasm

Greatcornbow

Dakshina

Dakshina Yes, I have to wear it until the wedding.

My guess is it'll be 24/7 after the wedding too, except when husband wants you himself.

And when's the wedding? Presumably yjen mom gives husband the keys?

Dakshina

Angelina Is this hard what it will be like when the belt is 24/7? I am worried about it

Sasha

Dakshina Have to agree with @Angelina there is no cheating the belt if it fits right, and impossible to even stimulate in thigh bands and bra.
It’s going to be tough adjusting to this but it’s not terrible once you do. Just always aware of its presence and restrictions is all

Angelina

Dakshina Is this hard what it will be like when the belt is 24/7? I am worried about it

without wanting to scare you, but yes it is hard, it is very hard. If the belt is worn 24/7 you will no longer have orgasms, so no sex and no masturbation. That's the short but hard truth, which is why such a big step always needs to be carefully considered

Bryan Would it feel weird if your parents handed you the keys and then you immediately turned and handed them to your partner?

It actually sounds a bit romantic because it is a gift from the wife to the husband and not the somewhat strange gift from the parents

Susan

Dakshina Once you start to wear it at night, for the whole night, you should expect to wear it the whole night every night. My aunt did not ever want to go in reverse, I am guessing it is the same for you?

Dakshina

Susan Yes, my mother told me that in a few days I have to wear it at night and I can't take off the belt at night unless I have a good reason.

Susan

Dakshina Maybe like a couple months, maybe a bit less. It was always 30 minutes more per day, every day. Then the over nights kicked in. AJ was understanding of the challenges, but always firm that I could do it and persistent to keep the pace. 24/7 was always the goal she kept reminding me.

Dakshina

Susan When I couldn't wear the belt last week, my mother opened it, but she said that I should start from this week

Susan

dorothea

dorothea The first night was the hardest ever. After that things slowly got a little better.

dorothea It's also good to know that you can always go to mum in the first few nights and she will open the belt if there is no other option

for me those were the hardest, I trained during the day but I new overnights were coming. It was hard to sleep at first and AJ would unlock it for a while, maybe an hour or so, but I had to wear it before going back to bed. AJ was sympathetic, but firm that we must keep moving forward. We trained over the weekends and over the summer until I eventually could handle it.

Dakshina

Susan How can I do this to make it easier?

Ines

Dakshina How long was your training period?

Years.

Ines

Greatcornbow

Why?

@Dakshina

Do you have boyfriend? Does he know something about this?

Dakshina

Greatcornbow I know that I will wear it until the wedding, but I don't know after that, but my sister, who got married, is still wearing one, and her husband keeps the key.

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