First night training

Dakshina

Susan How long was your training period?

Susan

Dakshina Maybe like a couple months, maybe a bit less. It was always 30 minutes more per day, every day. Then the over nights kicked in. AJ was understanding of the challenges, but always firm that I could do it and persistent to keep the pace. 24/7 was always the goal she kept reminding me.

Ines

Dakshina How long was your training period?

Years.

Ines

Dakshina

Without belt bending? And even later...

Dakshina

Ines I'm sorry, I didn't understand what you meant

Ines

Dakshina

The belt has your measures, not your shape.
You will need weeks to adapt it perfectly to your body, at least that is the experience for me and my circle of wearers.

Dakshina

Ines Thanks, so is this normal? And Going to the toilet is not pleasant at all

Ines

Dakshina And Going to the toilet is not pleasant at all

And it will never be. You will have to extreme the cleanness

dorothea

Hello @Dakshina 🙂

A few days ago I was at the same point as you are right now.

The first night was the hardest ever. After that things slowly got a little better. Only slowly, but at least 😉

A few extra pillows helped me a lot. I also had my first night from a Friday to Saturday. For me that means I didn't have to get up early. So at least there was no mental pressure to have to sleep there, which I think was a very good thing. I knew I would be able to sleep late the next day.
I also had a very good break before I put the belt on to sleep. In addition, I had slept a little less the last night before, so I was very tired. I think all of this helped me a lot.

For my first time, I didn't just have the belt for a few days, it was already a few weeks.

It's also good to know that you can always go to mum in the first few nights and she will open the belt if there is no other option 🙂

Dakshina

dorothea Thankful
I didn't try to fasten the belt last night, so I went to my mother and she unlocked it. It's really hard to fasten the belt at night. I talked to her today and she said that I'm currently training during the day and the night training will start next week. Are you wearing 24/7 now and what's it like not being able to masturbate? I'm worried about that.

Susan

dorothea

dorothea The first night was the hardest ever. After that things slowly got a little better.

dorothea It's also good to know that you can always go to mum in the first few nights and she will open the belt if there is no other option

for me those were the hardest, I trained during the day but I new overnights were coming. It was hard to sleep at first and AJ would unlock it for a while, maybe an hour or so, but I had to wear it before going back to bed. AJ was sympathetic, but firm that we must keep moving forward. We trained over the weekends and over the summer until I eventually could handle it.

Milord

Dakshina
How is the situation in India about belting? Can you tell us if it is something socially acceptable? Laws allow parents to belt their children? I’m very curious

dorothea

Dakshina I talked to her today and she said that I'm currently training during the day and the night training will start next week.

Maybe it's really better to wait again. Maybe for a night where you can sleep late and don't have to get up early.

Dakshina Are you wearing 24/7 now and what's it like not being able to masturbate?

It's not exactly 24/7. There are breaks for cleaning, hygiene and things like that. So it's only almost 24/7, but that's what I was told here too 😉
It's not quite a week since I have 24/7.
I was no longer able to masturbate a few days before 24/7, as before that there were only supervised breaks. It's not easy sometimes. I still have to learn how to redirect the energy I've built up into other things. Sometimes it's easier, sometimes it's harder. But it is doable.

Dakshina

Milord I don't know about the rules, but there may be some families who can afford chastity belts

Dakshina

dorothea How soon will my bathrooms be monitored and my only chance to masturbate is in bed. Does masturbating before 24/7 make it harder to wear a belt later on?

Milord

Dakshina Do you know anyone else? Are you ok if someone outside your family knows, or is it a secret? Anyway thanks for answering

Laura

Dakshina What language do you speak at home?

dorothea

Dakshina Does masturbating before 24/7 make it harder to wear a belt later on?

I think it will make a difference. You certainly won't miss something you haven't done before as much as something you've done more often before 😉

Ines

Dakshina Does masturbating before 24/7 make it harder to wear a belt later on?

I am sure about that point.

Dakshina I'm worried that after 24/7 I won't be able to masturbate at all.

Yes, it is very probable, but... is not it talked yet?

Dakshina

dorothea Have you been able to masturbate during training and have you been doing it? Any chance to masturbate while wearing the belt? I'm worried that after 24/7 I won't be able to masturbate at all.

Dakshina

Milord Some of my best friends know it, but I don't want anyone outside of my family to know it

dorothea

Dakshina Have you been able to masturbate during training and have you been doing it?

Yes, there were a few chances and I took advantage of them 😉

Dakshina Any chance to masturbate while wearing the belt?

No, absolutely no chance. The belt fits so well that this is not possible.

Dakshina

Ines No, I didn't talk to my mother about it. Of course, I know that if I say this, the answer is probably no, and she is against this. Also, I am embarrassed to raise this issue and I don't know how to say it.

Dakshina

Laura We speak Hindi, but I have been going to the English Language Institute for several years

Milord

Dakshina here everyone call it “me time”. Can be: “I would like to have the opportunity to have an unsupervised bath without the belt every week”
According to what I have read there, it seems that most keyholder are more interested in preventing masturbation than in preventing sex, and there is a lot of negotiation. Part of my job is to negotiate with customers multi million services, and often it seems to me that my meetings are easier than yours to get some me time.
What I can say here is that every well performed negotiation land on a compromise. This is very true for chastity belt because no one can force anyone else in being put in a belt unwillingly . At least in Europe or USA. I don’t know in India. So starting from the fact that you cannot be forced, it should be possible to negotiate a masturbation break without resorting to masturbation word.

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