First night training

dorothea

Dakshina I talked to her today and she said that I'm currently training during the day and the night training will start next week.

Maybe it's really better to wait again. Maybe for a night where you can sleep late and don't have to get up early.

Dakshina Are you wearing 24/7 now and what's it like not being able to masturbate?

It's not exactly 24/7. There are breaks for cleaning, hygiene and things like that. So it's only almost 24/7, but that's what I was told here too 😉
It's not quite a week since I have 24/7.
I was no longer able to masturbate a few days before 24/7, as before that there were only supervised breaks. It's not easy sometimes. I still have to learn how to redirect the energy I've built up into other things. Sometimes it's easier, sometimes it's harder. But it is doable.

Dakshina

dorothea How soon will my bathrooms be monitored and my only chance to masturbate is in bed. Does masturbating before 24/7 make it harder to wear a belt later on?

Dakshina

Milord I don't know about the rules, but there may be some families who can afford chastity belts

Milord

Dakshina Do you know anyone else? Are you ok if someone outside your family knows, or is it a secret? Anyway thanks for answering

Laura

Dakshina What language do you speak at home?

dorothea

Dakshina Does masturbating before 24/7 make it harder to wear a belt later on?

I think it will make a difference. You certainly won't miss something you haven't done before as much as something you've done more often before 😉

Ines

Dakshina Does masturbating before 24/7 make it harder to wear a belt later on?

I am sure about that point.

Dakshina I'm worried that after 24/7 I won't be able to masturbate at all.

Yes, it is very probable, but... is not it talked yet?

Dakshina

dorothea Have you been able to masturbate during training and have you been doing it? Any chance to masturbate while wearing the belt? I'm worried that after 24/7 I won't be able to masturbate at all.

Dakshina

Milord Some of my best friends know it, but I don't want anyone outside of my family to know it

dorothea

Dakshina Have you been able to masturbate during training and have you been doing it?

Yes, there were a few chances and I took advantage of them 😉

Dakshina Any chance to masturbate while wearing the belt?

No, absolutely no chance. The belt fits so well that this is not possible.

Dakshina

Ines No, I didn't talk to my mother about it. Of course, I know that if I say this, the answer is probably no, and she is against this. Also, I am embarrassed to raise this issue and I don't know how to say it.

Dakshina

Laura We speak Hindi, but I have been going to the English Language Institute for several years

Milord

Dakshina here everyone call it “me time”. Can be: “I would like to have the opportunity to have an unsupervised bath without the belt every week”
According to what I have read there, it seems that most keyholder are more interested in preventing masturbation than in preventing sex, and there is a lot of negotiation. Part of my job is to negotiate with customers multi million services, and often it seems to me that my meetings are easier than yours to get some me time.
What I can say here is that every well performed negotiation land on a compromise. This is very true for chastity belt because no one can force anyone else in being put in a belt unwillingly . At least in Europe or USA. I don’t know in India. So starting from the fact that you cannot be forced, it should be possible to negotiate a masturbation break without resorting to masturbation word.

Dakshina

dorothea I have taken off the belt for about an hour and a half and I will fasten it again tomorrow from 10:00 pm to 6:00 pm and tonight I will be without a belt. So there is a chance to masturbate😀, but I am worried that if I masturbate, it will be difficult to fasten the belt. become harder

Joh

Dakshina I will be without a belt. So there is a chance to masturbate😀, but I am worried that if I masturbate, it will be difficult to fasten the belt. become harder

That depends on how you feel about it. If you enjoy what you have achieved and take it with you, but also accept that when the CB is closed it can no longer exist, it might be easier for you.
The important point is not to chase after what is impossible to get. And if you accept that and let it go, it becomes easier.

This is generally true. Don't spend energy and time on something you can't change. Only do it where you can.

Laura

Dakshina So there is a chance to masturbate

And you can do it unintentionally

Dakshina

Milord If I don't use the word masturbation to take a break, the break will be supervised, but I want this for masturbation

Ines

Milord it seems that most keyholder are more interested in preventing masturbation than in preventing sex

If a girl accepts to wear a belt it means that she has "decent" behavior, so, probably premarital sex would be practically discarded, but to avoid "solo time" every one of us need some help.

dorothea

Dakshina the break will be supervised, but I want this for masturbation

But I think it's clear that the breaks will be monitored sooner or later. Even if it's still training, the belt actually has a specific job.
The belt also begins to be used correctly during training. That was also the case for me. Last week before 24/7 started, there were only supervised breaks so that other things could be prevented.

Milord

Dakshina starting from the fact that you cannot be pushed in it, what happens if you say “with unsupervised break, or I will not wear?” Also for you @dorothea
It’s not so clear for me this point. On a logical side, there is nothing that can happen if you relax now and then. Trying to understand, not to judge.

Dakshina

dorothea I am going to talk to my mom tonight at dinner about relaxing without strings and rules and I hope she won't get angry and she will accept.

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