Mutual chastity

Renita

Snas I didin't try with any belt

It's not too later to try.

Snas I'm a 42 year old woman. I'm single since I was 22

20 years of random sex?

Snas

Renita
No, I personally think hookups are just masturbation with another person's body but I don't care if others do it. I just used toys.

Joh

Snas Did you think about to have a stable relationship with a satisfying sex life instead of masturbation?

Laura

Snas I just used toys.

Daughter didn't come from toys 😂

Snas

Laura Yeah, but like I wrote in the beginning of this post I had IVF. I was 27, had a stable job, bought my own apartment and I always wanted kids
Edit: I still have a stable job and apartment since "had" can be understood in a sense that I lost it.

Joh

Snas What does IVF mean?

I think you will have a closer emotional bond with your partner than with a toy. This will motivate you to be more intimate with your partner on your own.

Milord

Joh

In vitro fertilization

Having a children with a sperm donor, by having ovum fertilised artificially and then implanted in uterus

Snas

Joh I don't wanna be in a relationship for private reasons.

Angelina

Snas

welcome to the forum, a very interesting story

Snas We exchange the keys from 9pm on Friday to 7am on Saturday and 9pm on Saturday to 7am on Sunday. (we go to sleep around 10pm and wake up between 5-6am)

I don't really understand, do you only wear the belts at the weekend at night?
why do you swap keys so often? to me, mutual chastity means that one person always has the keys to the other's belt?
do you/has one of you taken a break to masturbate occasionally or are you both completely on 0?

Snas

Angelina No, it means she gives me keys to my belt at 9 and takes them at 7 and vice versa. We figured out that having set hours to do it will be much less awkward and simpler (I can't imagine a kid asking a parent for release or parent asking kid for release, it's too akward at least for me). And we're swapping keys is to unlock our belts by ourselves. In the morning we give them back and hold onto them until next time comes.

Angelina

Snas

I'm trying to understand it again. You exchange keys and free yourself from the belt on the two evenings of the weekend (Friday and Saturday), so is this the time when you have breaks?

Laura @Christine also did it. What's wrong with it?

not really. In the case of Christine, first the mother had control and now the daughter, not at the same time. I think that's a decided difference. By both having each other's keys, you can prevent one person from having too much power over the other

Ines Hello, no take offense, but in my opinion women setting rules for other women, usually does not work.

I hope you're just referring to the belt, otherwise I would have to question my entire marriage 😂

Ines

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Jenna

Ines For me and my girls, I can't imagine it any other way.

Snas

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Ines

Snas

Hello, no take offense, but in my opinion women setting rules for other women, usually does not work.

Milord

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Jenna

Milord Rare is the day we agree on something, but we do here. Seems very odd.

Milord

Jenna

I disagree on both ways, as you know. But I know that for @ines the main issue is the daughter controlling the mother, and I explained it. I'm against all parental (and relative in your case) belting.

Laura

Milord But I know that for @ines the main issue is the daughter controlling the mother, and I explained it. I'm against all parental (and relative in your case) belting.

@Christine also did it. What's wrong with it?

Milord

Laura I've already explained my position. And "another one did it" is not really a good reason
Also @Christine is not teen

Laura

Milord I've already explained my position

Where?

Snas

Milord To be honest I didin't suggest chastity and I would NEVER. At first I was very skeptical too, but it works for us. I think there are way more concerning things like parents using their economic/legal authority to enforce chastity (for example "you won't be able to go out if you don't agree to wear a chastity belt/ I won't pay for your college unless you will wear a chastity belt)

Milord

Laura
Here
https://unwedchastity.org/d/1006-why-it-is-wrong-for-a-parent-to-use-chastity-on-offspring

Milord

Snas
You are right. They are more concerning. But the fact that there are (far) worse approaches doesn't make yours healthy.
In my opinion of course

Also, to have a relationship as equal where your is not a relationship among peers is not a good idea: You are responsible for her, not the other way around.

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Renita

Snas At first I was very skeptical too, but it works for us

Do you have any other potential keyholder for you?
Because mutual keyholding wouldn't work.

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