Milord To be honest I didin't suggest chastity and I would NEVER. At first I was very skeptical too, but it works for us. I think there are way more concerning things like parents using their economic/legal authority to enforce chastity (for example "you won't be able to go out if you don't agree to wear a chastity belt/ I won't pay for your college unless you will wear a chastity belt)

      Snas
      You are right. They are more concerning. But the fact that there are (far) worse approaches doesn't make yours healthy.
      In my opinion of course

      Also, to have a relationship as equal where your is not a relationship among peers is not a good idea: You are responsible for her, not the other way around.

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        Snas

        Hello, no take offense, but in my opinion women setting rules for other women, usually does not work.

            Laura On the specific I answered up. Anyway I don't think that it help having a positive sexual development controlling mother sex.

              Maybe, it was my failure, but we will try to avoid allusion to her daughter. Thanks.

              Snas You have a very interesting situation to say the least. I thought mine was different, yours really is! I joined here a little bit more than 2 years ago. At the time I was heavily criticized (and rightfully so) for my approach in having my two nieces wear chastity belts. I stayed engaged here, despite all of the considerable flak I took. There are a lot of really good people here (I have my favorites) that know many things about this subject and frankly there aren't many other places to go to get good quality advice. Even the people that don't agree with me, and can be very critical, are sincere.

              Both of my nieces, one who wears her belt full time @Susan , and the other one who will be soon @Kate2 , are members here. I hope you stay engaged.

                Snas At first I was very skeptical too, but it works for us

                Do you have any other potential keyholder for you?
                Because mutual keyholding wouldn't work.

                    Snas It looks like your situation can not dicussed here in the right way. We could do it via Email If you like.

                        Snas

                        I'm trying to understand it again. You exchange keys and free yourself from the belt on the two evenings of the weekend (Friday and Saturday), so is this the time when you have breaks?

                        Laura @Christine also did it. What's wrong with it?

                        not really. In the case of Christine, first the mother had control and now the daughter, not at the same time. I think that's a decided difference. By both having each other's keys, you can prevent one person from having too much power over the other

                        Ines Hello, no take offense, but in my opinion women setting rules for other women, usually does not work.

                        I hope you're just referring to the belt, otherwise I would have to question my entire marriage 😂

                                Angelina By both having each other's keys, you can prevent one person from having too much power over the other

                                @Milord 's concern was not this