Mutual chastity

Milord

welcome to the forum

Damien

Welcome.
EDITED.
Your contract sounds civilized, it's just her young age that makes it awkward.
I've never heard about belts in "L" and "M" sizes, what manufacturer have you bought from?

Snas

Damien She told me she masturbated 3-4 times a day or more(I did the same). I don't think it's very concerning but she was the one who suggested wearing the belt, I allowed it after doing research and we came up with an idea to wear them together. We wear the same model called "Female Chastity Get Locked Belt" (It's the only one that uses XS-XL sizes but on the site you can see them converted to inches) from lovegasm. I'd say it's a good quality for price I paid.

youdontknowme

The eye"balls" of an owl are cylindrical and thus cannot independently of the head.

Snas

youdontknowme I don't get how it's relevant to the post.

Damien

Snas from lovegasm

ok, that's a standard chinese cable belt, most popular chastity item in the world (just marked up to four times the original price by lovegasm)
Private Question: Do you (the adult) spend typically less time on erotic fantasy, than before you wore your belt?

Joh

Snas Welcome to our forum.
Did you both try to change your behaviour without use a belt? Set up a schedule with rules and action to get your upcoming addiction in a good way in your life. As you wrote masturbation is fine as long as it has no negative effect in your life.

Snas

Joh I tried and failed many times, aspecially when I was in my in 20's. Last time I tried before we both wore belts was in 2019. I don't know about her since she didin't tell me (I know I should've asked her, but I was too flabbergasted when I've heared about a chastity belt).

Joh

Snas Last time I tried before we both wore belts was in 2019.

What exactly caused you to fail?

Renita

Snas I tried and failed many times, aspecially when I was in my in 20's.

What belt did you try that time?

Snas

Joh I think usually it was just forgetting to stop. I remember I tried to limit masturbation to once every two days, then I forgot, then my hand rubbed on my underwear for less than 5 minutes and I remembered I'm supposed to limit it. Now my hand is stopped by a metal plate and it definitely reminds me.

Snas

Damien Oh😬 I didin't reasech the price, just safety and mental health aspects.
Edit:I checked it and take back that it's worth it's price. Could've saved some money before buying. And I forgot to say that when I typed in chastity belt for sale I saw eighter fancy steel belts and I would NEVER pay that much for a chastity belt no matter how luxury it is plus it was too big or Amazon/Etsy chastity belt. I don't trust Amazon with a product that comes near my and aspecially my daughters privates and Etay has basically the same things from the same buyers as Amazon labeled as "handmade".

Snas

Damien To the second part of the question- yes. Not counting Fridays and weekends few hours before and after I get the keys I tend to have less sexual fantasies.

Laura

Snas Let's wait until she turns 18. Chastity for minors is not allowed on this forum.
However she could still be your keyholder

Snas

Renita I didin't try with any belt, just willpower.

Renita

Snas I didin't try with any belt

It's not too later to try.

Snas I'm a 42 year old woman. I'm single since I was 22

20 years of random sex?

Sasha

Snas Welcome to the forum, seems like an interesting arrangement that’s working well for you both.
Though minors in chastity aren’t something discussed on the forum

Snas

Sasha Ah, okay.

Ines

Snas

Your "Ah, OK" has to be adressed to @Laura the chief here.
Read the rules before start to type, please.
No minors are allowed and that content is edited and erased.
Please make a introduction on adequate topic.
Thanks.

Snas

Ines I'm sorry, I wrote the "Ah, okay" as a quick response before getting ready for the day: making breakfast, cleaning home and starting work. I also thought that "Discussion about the use of belts in underage people is not welcome in this forum" means literally discussing if underage people should wear belts. Like I said english it's my first language. What do I do? Should I remove this post or edit it or what?
Edit: I have C1 English certificate yet I sometimes make mistakes if I read something quickly.

Laura

Snas I also thought that "Discussion about the use of belts in underage people is not welcome in this forum" means literally discussing if underage people should wear belts.

Agree. This phrase sounds confusing. Should be "the actual use"

Snas What do I do?

Stop talking about belting your daughter. Only about yourself