Laura It is not about gender. I know some people like someone else to have the key so they won't be tempted too easy because they have to ask. I know that works even when they can ask for the key any time. In this case I saw it went totally out of control with the Chaster lock. Everyone commented on it but no one did something about it. Therefor stepped in to normalize the situation. There was a request for a kh. I would have done the same for anyone else if I thought they need some help. Octavia is happy now and in control again and that's what counts.
