keyholders

Max9

Maybe you should be more concrete about who you actually are. Are you male, female? Where are you from? Who are you as a person?

OctaviaSunwilds

Max9 im female, from asia/oceania, im probably a bit shy (if you cant already tell), but i like to think im fairly open when you get to know me! im interested in gaming, music, hiking, and reading/writing, and for nsfw stuff i like chastity and bondage mainly, i think im pretty vanilla and i might be asexual

Tasha

OctaviaSunwilds nice to see someone from Asia. Did you get into chastity from the internet or some other way?

mina

OctaviaSunwilds from asia/oceania

Hello, may I ask where?

youdontknowme

OctaviaSunwilds i like chastity and bondage mainly, i think im pretty vanilla and i might be asexual

I reckon asexual bondage entjusiast is pretty much the opposite of vanilla.

MissBlossom So much for all that highfalutin talk of supporting each person in pursuing their own goals! lol

Chaster is not really a site where people pursue noble goals. It is a site to give away control, and where would the fun be if everyone voted ecactly as the wearer asked?

OctaviaSunwilds

Tasha internet, i found it on porn lol

Tasha

OctaviaSunwilds Ah 🤣

I found this fourm while browsing some stories about people one day when I was feeling a bit off about my situation. I seem to have found some comfort here. I don't hate my belt, if you are interested you can read through my (kind of long and boring) posts

OctaviaSunwilds

i got a discord account, its visunwilds

OctaviaSunwilds

mina i dont want to be more specific for now

mina

OctaviaSunwilds i dont want to be more specific for now

Can you say Asia, or Australia, or New Zealand? Or somewhere else?

Susan

OctaviaSunwilds It seems very odd that you would allow someone you don't know to have control over your private parts. How would you ever be able to trust them? Shouldn't you find a boyfriend first and ask him to do it?

OctaviaSunwilds

Susan i dont have a bf, im not much for dating, and im not going to immediately give them my keys or anything, if someones interested then ill talk for a bit and organise how itll work and see how i feel about them

Susan

OctaviaSunwilds I would just be careful. There are lots of creeps out there. I would think it would be hard to find someone to do this if they didn't also want to be your BF.

Laura

@OctaviaSunwilds why can't your parent be a keyholder?

Milord

Laura for the 99% of the population involving parents in own sexuality is an awful idea.

OctaviaSunwilds

Laura i have a terrible relationship with my parents, and i dont want to involve my grandparents in anything close to that, i dont know if they would approve and i would rather not risk it

Laura

Susan Yes, that's my point too. Trust your keys to a stranger from Internet if not the best idea

Milord for the 99% of the population involving parents in own sexuality is an awful idea

But not on this forum

pestulens

Susan Good advice, though she never specified her KH would have to be male. (not that women can't also be creeps)
I am not familiar with the site she is using, but I assume there must be some kind of panic button or other emergency release mechanism.

Susan

pestulens I can't imagine any stranger doing something like this without the promise of something in return. In my opinion there are only 2 reasons to wear a belt. Like my sister and I do to prevent sex and provide safety or as part of sexual games, in neither case should a complete stranger be involved.

Not criticizing @OctaviaSunwilds, just asking that you use extreme caution.

Laura

Susan In my opinion there are only 2 reasons to wear a belt. Like my sister and I do to prevent sex and provide safety or as part of sexual games, in neither case should a complete stranger be involved.

The third is just money

Milord

Susan I agree with you, better to be very prudent, but online key holding exist, @Damien for example do it

Damien

Milord @Damien for example do it

I'm retired now.

Milord

Damien fine, but your experience can be useful nevertheless.