OctaviaSunwilds It seems very odd that you would allow someone you don't know to have control over your private parts. How would you ever be able to trust them? Shouldn't you find a boyfriend first and ask him to do it?

      Susan i dont have a bf, im not much for dating, and im not going to immediately give them my keys or anything, if someones interested then ill talk for a bit and organise how itll work and see how i feel about them

          Laura for the 99% of the population involving parents in own sexuality is an awful idea.

              Laura i have a terrible relationship with my parents, and i dont want to involve my grandparents in anything close to that, i dont know if they would approve and i would rather not risk it

                OctaviaSunwilds I would just be careful. There are lots of creeps out there. I would think it would be hard to find someone to do this if they didn't also want to be your BF.

                    Susan Yes, that's my point too. Trust your keys to a stranger from Internet if not the best idea

                    Milord for the 99% of the population involving parents in own sexuality is an awful idea

                    But not on this forum

                        Susan Good advice, though she never specified her KH would have to be male. (not that women can't also be creeps)
                        I am not familiar with the site she is using, but I assume there must be some kind of panic button or other emergency release mechanism.

                            pestulens I can't imagine any stranger doing something like this without the promise of something in return. In my opinion there are only 2 reasons to wear a belt. Like my sister and I do to prevent sex and provide safety or as part of sexual games, in neither case should a complete stranger be involved.

                            Not criticizing @OctaviaSunwilds, just asking that you use extreme caution.

                                Susan In my opinion there are only 2 reasons to wear a belt. Like my sister and I do to prevent sex and provide safety or as part of sexual games, in neither case should a complete stranger be involved.

                                The third is just money

                                  Susan I agree with you, better to be very prudent, but online key holding exist, @Damien for example do it

                                      Damien fine, but your experience can be useful nevertheless.

                                        OctaviaSunwilds i dont want to be more specific for now

                                        Can you say Asia, or Australia, or New Zealand? Or somewhere else?

                                          okay so i decided to go with the community controlled idea i had before!
                                          the lock is 5 days to start with and i get hygiene unlocks every 2 weeks! i can also give control to my lock to someone if needed (but im not doing that for now)
                                          everyone is able to add or remove a day, so however long my lock is depends on what you all vote for!
                                          i just thought it would be a cute idea to share

                                          (im in my belt now and locked, and here is the link)
                                          https://chaster.app/sessions/vtYByKw5Qo8JkF5G