Academic incentives for belt use

pestulens

PigtailSam I am guessing she is talking about @Lukas' sister.

Angelina

PigtailSam I was thinking of keeping her in it untill she is married and cared for by someone else. Or untill she shows she can take care of her self and act responsible

i thought it was about her getting through college, then it would actually be about the time until she graduates, right?

pestulens I am guessing she is talking about @Lukas' sister.

good that you mention her in this context.
@PigtailSam
the example of @Lukas schwester is actually the only way i see to achieve better performance through the belt. it is based on earning breaks from the belt through good grades, but there is a clear difference. @Luka's sister wanted to do the whole thing herself, she did it voluntarily to be able to regulate herself better and to have motivation to learn, that doesn't work in your case as long as your daughter doesn't do it of her own motivation.

Milord

PigtailSam in this forum there are no stories of successful belting. Calling successful a girl or boy that endure it but in the end has been happy thanks to being belted.

Joh

PigtailSam It’s more like putting up a baby gate so your child doesn’t fall down the stairs

I think you're deluding yourself so that you don't have to see reality.

Milady2

I'm a voluntary wearer and I have plenty of breaks, for me the belt makes concentration more difficult. Having a metal bar between the legs is uncomfortable when you are seated for long time, and the mental effect makes the mind wanders away. I'm very good at studying. For someone that has problems and is not voluntary, it will be impossible to study at all in my opinion.

Laura

Angelina schwester

English, please 😂

Angelina

Laura

sorry, I used a translator that apparently refuses to translate this and i forgot check it afterwards 😂

Joh

@PigtailSam Read the Story of Lukas sister from the start. Her parents forced her to wear a CB and she got mental problems and tryed Suizide. Later on her own Terms it worked fine.

Milord

Joh

Joh is right, but there are other stories around:
A girl in belt that plans to go away and close any contact with her parents
A boy exploited first by parents than by girlfriend (what you plan for your daughter) leaving her and taking distance from his family
Another boy leaving his mother to leave far away
A girl opening it with an hacksaw

and there are also the trapped ones.., the older girls still closed in it, no husband or boyfriends

What you will not find here is someone that thanks parents for being belted against their will.

Angelina

Joh Later on her own Terms it worked fine.

@PigtailSam
a little idea just occurred to me. it may be a bit vague, but have you ever asked her what she thinks of the idea of the belt if she decides the rules of the game herself (including your wishes)?

PigtailSam

Milord and there are also the trapped ones.., the older girls still closed in it, no husband or boyfriends

I can’t imagine the trapped ones are real. Any hospital could get a chastity belt off I imagine.

Milord

PigtailSam police, firefighters, any authority can open it. But if you trap the body, the mind will be trapped too, and at a certain point they will just stop trying to get out.

WriterAlexis

Milord

"One day there was a baby elephant that was born in the circus. When he was a baby, they tied a rope around his leg and attached it to a stake in the ground. This baby elephant could only move as far as the rope would allow him to. Every day he would try to break free from the stake but he wasn’t strong enough. Days went by, weeks went by, months went by. Failure after failure, he finally gave up. Then one day, he became a grown-up elephant. He was big and strong, and perfectly capable of breaking free from the stake. But he never tried, because he had learned that he could not be successful. He stayed attached to that stake because of his learned beliefs."

Milord

WriterAlexis

Can you believe that this is what I fear most? Belted girls loses the will to fight and just surrender. In the end life in the Plato's cavern is not so bad.
I hope at least you will never surrender. I put a lot of hopes in your rebellion.

Padre

WriterAlexis
There is a name for this: learned helplessness.

WriterAlexis

Topical. (And good for the soul.)

https://www.newsweek.com/rescued-elephant-first-walk-chain-free-thailand-tiktok-1973825

Lea

@PigtailSam
I appreciate that before locking up your daughter you looks for an advice. From my experience chastity can help in some case, if both side agree. If you have more specific questions feel free to write me an email: cernikovalea@gmail.com.

shinydiamond77

PigtailSam I mean when she is married her husband can control her belt and how often she continues to wear it

What kind of man will make his wife wear a chastity belt against her will? Would you want to live with such a man? Of course you wouldn't. Then why do you want your daughter to live with one?

And how would she even get married in the first place? She'd need to be in a relationship with her boyfriend for quite some time before marrying. Marriage is something that is decided on after both partners are 100% sure they're right for each other. And that includes all aspects of it. Including sex, believe it or not. And how can your daughter and her boyfriend find that out, if she can't have sex? Asexual people aside, how do you even imagine two adults dating without having sex? You have a daughter, you absolutely have been in a relationship yourself. How'd that go if you wore a belt when you started dating?

I've put more thought into your daughter's future while writing this one post than you have in all your posts combined. No wonder your daughter has issues.

Marder

shinydiamond77 Asexual people aside, how do you even imagine two adults dating without having sex?

I think there are quite a few evangelical christians in the US who think there should be no sex before marriage, just as an example. At least these seem to be able to imagine it - unless they secretly rely on loopholes like "anal sex doesn't count".

youdontknowme

Marder unless they secretly rely on loopholes like "anal sex doesn't count".

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j8ZF_R_j0OY

Sasha

Marder There’s a joke that half of them do it, the other half is lying about doing it

shinydiamond77

Marder I think there are quite a few evangelical christians in the US who think there should be no sex before marriage, just as an example.

Wow, it must be a bummer to be one of them - thank god I'm not religious.

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