@pestulens gave me a good idea. I would like to know from all the newbies what the forum can do for you? What are your wishes? And how should this place be designed so that you feel comfortable and welcome?
I would also be interested in what older users would have wanted when they were new here?

    Sasha hopefully Laura gets some good ideas from this thread.

    that would of course be nice, even if i understand if users have inhibitions.

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      oceandeviantcn
      I think there should be room for any gender. Anyone can have questions, desires, or just want to tell and read about experiences.

        oceandeviantcn

        I would be delighted to receive an introduction from you 🙂

        why do you think so? i personally never had problems with men in the forum (and in the belt), but i've read this criticism a few times. what would you do differently?

            I'd like to see a return to civility. To my mind this used to be a safe place for young inquisitive women. Now i often see people doubting their sincerity and motives. The generous heartfelt help seems to have been replaced by acusations and hurtful self-justified speech. I'm all for men in chastity (i am one) but i do think the needs of the young women need to come well before the needs of the males. Let's make this a safe and loving place again. thank you.

              Angelina Thank you. My reason is very simple. Nowadays, you can find many male chastity forum, such as chastity mansion, etc. To the best of my knowledge, however, there is no more active forum for female chastity (in English) except this one. Therefore, I hope this forum to focus on female chastity. The contents of male chastity and others like emphasis on "I am not force to be in chastity" are ok, but should never be overwhelming than female chastity.

                  Moreover, discussions on force and reluctant used are stupid.
                  NO MORE boring thread about this!
                  Firstly, in many countries, such as the USA, if a girl doesn't want to use chastity belt, then simply come to police for help. The discussions on this are meaningless.
                  Secondly, if a girl is really living in a cultural that wearing chastity is necessary (it might even be just family culture), then why not show respect to their cultural? Why it is wrong to require girls to wear chastity belts? Why should everyone take your values ​​as standard?

                    oceandeviantcn please, we already had our fight on how for some of us blatant violations of basic human rights cannot be justified as cultural diversity (what about infibulation? Stoning cheating women? Incarceration of homosexuals?).

                    If you feel the need of discussing there is a thread here.
                    https://unwedchastity.org/d/1051-curious-vs-milord

                    But honestly I already went through this, so I pass

                    As for parental belting, feel free to read here
                    https://unwedchastity.org/d/1006-why-it-is-wrong-for-a-parent-to-use-chastity-on-offspring

                    And of course to add your ideas

                        Milord Your thinkings are always arrogant and it seems like that you never learn to repsect other cultures. All you know is "human rights", but never thinking what are human rights and why people should stand with you.

                            Kaja Let me give you an example. Why are you alive but the people in Gaza are dying? Don't tell me they SHOULD have the right to live, because in reality they REALLY don't. If you have some "human rights", it's not because you SHOULD have them, but because someone has paid the price, such as soldiers and police in your country.