Newbies! What do you wish for from the forum?

Kaja

oceandeviantcn You did not amswer my question. Do you agree with honor killing in muslim society or not?

youdontknowme

Kaja Laura said no more politics in the general talk...

Angelina

toad I'd like to see a return to civility. To my mind this used to be a safe place for young inquisitive women. Now i often see people doubting their sincerity and motives. The generous heartfelt help seems to have been replaced by acusations and hurtful self-justified speech. I'm all for men in chastity (i am one) but i do think the needs of the young women need to come well before the needs of the males. Let's make this a safe and loving place again. thank you.

it's a pity that i can only give one like, this post speaks from my heart, thank you 🙂

oceandeviantcn

yes, i agree, even in fetish/kink forums it's mostly about male chastity, i think a bit more focus on female chastity again would help. do you have any ideas on what we can do to achieve this?

oceandeviantcn

Angelina In fact, I have been following this forum for several years and learnt a lot from treads like
https://unwedchastity.org/d/6-thighbands/3067.
With all due respect, I think many of our discussion should at least focus on sharing experiences and questions about chastity belts and accessories. For example, some girls will buy a Chinese belt as their first belt. "How to adjust this belt to make them feel better?" is a good question, since only by lowering the price can more people fall in love with female chastity.

Angelina

oceandeviantcn

even though i have never had any experience with cheap belts and actually advise against them (but am currently in the process of changing my mind), i agree with you on this point, at least that should be the main focus of the forum

Sasha

Angelina What is making your mind change on cheap belts?

oceandeviantcn

Angelina In my view, the mass-produced female chastity belts in China have the following advantages:

1 They are inexpensive.
2 The waist, front, and back are adjustable, which is important for preventing cheating and ensuring comfort.
3 The metal plates are thin, allowing for manual adjustments to fit the body better; for instance, using pliers to shape the area around the anal opening for a better fit.

Actually, I think buying a mass-produced chastity belt before custom options is a good idea. It helps first-time wearers understand the positioning and potential cheating methods more directly.

If knowing how to adjust the cheap chastity belt, it may encourage more girls to try it, as the cost of this trial is low.

Angelina

Sasha

reports in this forum, apparently some users seem very satisfied

Joh

Angelina I think you find different quality Out there and some are good to start with with a reasonable budget.

Padre

Angelina
An advantage of those cheap Chinese belts, bra's, and thighbands is that the size is adjustable over a wide range. It is assembled with small nuts and screws. But the metal is more flimsy and it is not as durable as the real stuff. Some belts may fall apart when locked on because the parts may not fit well but then you can complain. Maybe good enough for a first experience to find out what you do like or don't like. Could be input when deciding to have made to measure. Based on your experience you may know what questions to ask.

Sasha

Padre That’s honestly the real value in them. For not a lot of money a person could get the 3 main styles, figure out what they like and begin to adjust to wearing, without spending much.

Joh

Sasha I see it the same. First you can find out is this whole chastity something for you, which influence it has in your life and which belt style suite you. If it the right way to go you can san consider to get a bespoke belt from a good supplier.
I think @Milord will consider this in the future for @Milady2 .

Milord

Joh since she wears it as a 24/7, I can give my contribution. Our belt is of very good quality to call it "cheap". Finishing, life the plastic part, can be improved (I do), lock is really very cheap, some parts require additional layers between skin and metal part.
The structure is very good,

The worst is that I needed a huge amount of time to have the best fitting. Cable belt must be very snug and the shield perfectly positioned, as the rear hole. Final result is a perfectly wearable belt. I cannot convince me to spend all the money for a high end belt. Can't see the benefits since I'm very satisfied right now. Maybe I will try more cheap Chinese belt. I'm curious about the transparent one

Joh

oceandeviantcn The metal plates are thin, allowing for manual adjustments to fit the body better; for instance, using pliers to shape the area around the anal opening for a better fit.

This IS also a drawback because the shape can bend by wearing it, e.g. when you sit down.

Milord

Joh This IS also a drawback because the shape can bend by wearing it, e.g. when you sit down.

It is not happening to me. Then some slight adjustment is pretty normal

oceandeviantcn

Joh Have you tied that? In fact, it is very difficult to change the shape of the belt when the belt is locked on someone.

Joh

Milord Do you wear one? 🤣

toad

toad everyone could be mindful of the indended purpose of the group and act accordingly. I said the could......will they? Doubtful

Angelina

toad everyone could be mindful of the indended purpose of the group and act accordingly. I said the could......will they? Doubtful

maybe we need to redefine the rules of the forum, especially the way we treat each other, i think everyone should have the right to be treated politely and with respect here (no matter what his/her story is)

toad

i Totally agree. I think we all have better in us than i've seen lately

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