My daughters potential chastity

MissBlossom

PigtailSam How do I explained why my husband unlocks me fore sec buy her boy friend can’t unlock her?

You're both unlocked when allowed activities require it.

You're married and she's not, so different activities are allowed, but it's the same principle.

However, you're both going to have to learn how to acclimate to full time wearing during a training period of several weeks, how to care for your skin when it is almost always in contact with the belt, how to go to the bathroom without making a mess, how to plan extra time in your day for cleaning the belt as part of your personal hygiene, how to hide it under clothes, how to sit comfortably with a piece of metal between your legs, and how to cope with keeping it on when you'd really rather not be wearing it and it just feels foreign and wrong (like the cone of shame for a dog) even though there's no discomfort, but you have no good reason to take it off.

And you will both occasionally have an itch (and no, that's not a metaphor. I mean an actual itch!) that you can't scratch that will drive you crazy. Both of you will sometimes have your keyholder handy and be able to ask for a minute or two out for a scratch, and both of you will sometimes not have your keyholder available for several hours and will just have to live with it.

And you will both have something pressing against you in a place and a way that will make you constantly think about the one thing you are not free to do at will, and that you may even find stimulating in a way that makes it even more of a challenge to focus on other things.

In addition to being an excellent show of solidarity and leadership, all of this might also help you to be a more empathetic and flexible keyholder when that's what she needs.

I love my belt and the dynamic I have with my husband, but I'm not going to sugar coat it. It's extra work and sometimes it's a real challenge.

And if all of this sounds challenging to you, imagine how much more challenging it would be for a less mature and self disciplined person like her and how valuable your leadership would be in coping with all of it.

Also, I bet your husband would like it even if your daughter doesn't go for it, so please do ask him how he feels about locking you up and tell us his response! lol

PigtailSam

MissBlossom what would be the typical activities that would allow if off for both of us? (After the initial break in period)

The fancy steel belt I was looking at claims you can wash yourself with it on don’t doesn’t need to come off often. I don’t mind a bit of discomfort. How do you poop with it on. The one my husband liked has a bird that goes ups bum to prevent anal sex as well.

I did ask what he thinks of it. He says he doesn’t care if i wear one or not, but he would still why the same amount of sex.

Milord

PigtailSam my wife is in chastity. It will not prevent sex, as long as I hold the key.
Anyway you can see that in the only place on all the internet where belting a daughter is acceptable most of us are still against. This alone should suggest that it’s really a bad idea.

Now, if I have to follow my guts, I’m pretty sure that it will end with her belted, lot of suffering, and how happy you are about her accepting to be tormented by her mother.

MissBlossom

PigtailSam what would be the typical activities that would allow if off for both of us? (After the initial break in period)

Cleaning breaks, swimming, exercise, doctor's appointments, going places with metal detectors (government buildings, concerts, air travel, etc.), the occasional day or night off for good behavior or mental health, etc.

Two good questions for the keyholder to always have at the ready when the wearer asks for a break are "are you in any discomfort or distress?" and "is this a want or a need?"

In years past, there were times when I really wanted a break just because and it was kind of embarrassing to admit "want."

There were also times when the belt combined with other life stressors really was too much for me and even just a couple of hours out of it was enough to let me reset emotionally. My husband always puts my well-being first and takes it very seriously when I say "need." Of course, I only say it when it is really true, and it's been many years since I've had to say it, partly because I've gotten better at wearing a belt and partly because he understands my needs better without me needing to tell him.

The fancy steel belt I was looking at claims you can wash yourself with it on don’t doesn’t need to come off often.

See https://unwedchastity.org/d/1098-time-between-unlock for a discussion of times between cleaning breaks. The consensus seems to be that once a day is best and you really shouldn't go longer than a week at a time. Obviously you will need more cleaning breaks during your period, probably multiple times a day.

I don’t mind a bit of discomfort. How do you poop with it on.

Going is the easy part. Cleaning up afterwards is the part that will be more or less of a challenge depending on the rear configuration of your belt. If you don't have the Florentine style you may want to carry wet wipes with you.

The one my husband liked has a bird that goes ups bum to prevent anal sex as well.

Hehe. Yeah, he loves the idea if he's already fantasizing about extra accessories. lol

I did ask what he thinks of it. He says he doesn’t care if i wear one or not, but he would still why the same amount of sex.

He's just playing it cool. Bring it up again while you're in his arms and see what happens to his heart rate and breathing rate! lol

CathER

PigtailSam some belts let you pull the wire or chain - what's the term - from your butt area. Most belts have anal holes. Never tried 2 via it.

Sasha

Honestly, a chastity belt will do nothing for her other then make the problems worse.
She sounds like she has a similar personality to how mine used to be, and nothing is stopping that until you experience the negative outcome of your actions. Until then it's just one heck of a ride and no reason to stop.
Look, let her go off the deep end, support her when she does and help her pick up the pieces. Just like you can't force her to take meds or agree with a therapist, you most certainly can not force her into a belt either.
And just to reiterate what others have already said, making her more horny is not going to fix the problem, just make it so much worse.

Milord

PigtailSam you are very close now. But abuses change this very fast. Btw, do you have other daughters or sons? Because you said your “oldest”
In case you have what will you do?

Joh

PigtailSam I think as long as she can not see she has a problem you can not help her.

Reduce their pocket money and support to the minimum. Be there when she asks for help, otherwise let her beat her head against the wall. If she comes to the realisation that she can't do it on her own and asks for help, you can help her too.
Some people come to this realisation quickly and others very slowly. That's just the way it is.

Philip

pestulens It really is not premature. If you just do a little analysis on this persons writing style statically they are identical.

PigtailSam

Philip It really is not premature. If you just do a little analysis on this persons writing style statically they are identical.

Not sure where you learned writing analysis. I pulled up that other person profile to see what you were taking about. They were belting nieces, not daughters. They also cared about sinning and religious reasons. I could care less about religious and sin. I just want her to not end up pregnant and finish college.

Philip

PigtailSam Really?

PigtailSam

MissBlossom Hehe. Yeah, he loves the idea if he's already fantasizing about extra accessories. lol

Typo, wire up but crack, Not “bird”

MissBlossom

Philip Ah welcome back Jenna

I am looking forward to this fantasy story.

I try to give people the benefit of the doubt most of the time.

@PigtailSam if you really are @Jenna, please don't do this.

PigtailSam

MissBlossom if you really are @Jenna

I’m not. I had to search the profile to see what you’re taking about.

Kaja

PigtailSam There is one solition. The word is contraception. We are saying it all the time but your ears are stuffy and your mind is clouded.

MissBlossom

PigtailSam Typo, wire up but crack, Not “bird”

From what I read, that's the option that allows for the most activity while wearing the belt, but also the one that's the messiest to clean up after going number 2.

Also very important to clean fully every time to avoid a rash.

This seems like the option with the heaviest burden, and thus with this option all of my comments about bearing the burden with her go double.

PigtailSam

“> Sasha Let her crash and burn, and be there to help her pick up the pieces. But beyond making her aware of the consequences, she's presumably a legal adult, it's time she acts it and gets to experience the fallout of bad choices”

Some things like pregnancy can not be undone. She doesn’t care about consequences. I’d rather her not fail college, but that is not as big a deal as getting pregnant

Helena

PigtailSam Does she accompany you in the measurement?

Milord

PigtailSam
It's insane to think that someone who will not accept an anti-pregnancy system that much less invasive can accept a chastity belt, the most intrusive system ever devised. It will never works.

Kaja

PigtailSam Abortion.

Helena

PigtailSam What kind of belt do you have in mind for her and are the measurements there?

PigtailSam

Helena I was thinking this one from fancy steel. https://fancysteel.com/collections/women/products/fs2-womens-chastity-belt-high-waist

Maybe upgrade to the more ergonomic one later. Production time is 3-4 week on this one but 90 day on the ergonomic one.

Damien

https://www.mayoclinic.org/tests-procedures/depo-provera/about/pac-20392204#:~:text=Depo%2DProvera%20is%20a%20well,ovaries%20from%20releasing%20an%20egg.

Helena

PigtailSam Sounds good, but why don't you try MySteel or NeoSteel?

Helena

PigtailSam I think My Steel models look more comfortable and safer

CathER

PigtailSam try a hip style if you can. Works with more clothes.

PigtailSam

Milord It's insane to think that someone who will not accept an anti-pregnancy system that much less invasive can accept a chastity belt, the most intrusive system ever devised. It will never works.

Insane is a bit strong. But a chastity belt can be done at home. An injection or the one a doctor needs to do has to be done at a doctor. They won’t administer it unless she is completely agreeable to it. Also birth control doesn’t prevent std. chastity would

Laura

Milord Anti pregnancy system goes inside, a chastity belt stays outside. That's the difference

Damien

PigtailSam birth control doesn’t prevent std. chastity would

You cannot prevent oral and anal sex with a belt, so the risk of STD remains unchanged.

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