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Natescage

Valadar yes it could be used as a punishment as would be uncomfortable. And I understand it's weird Ines but is it more freaky then Sara talking about getting spanked by her dad and made to stand in a corner? Just saying .Akeing someone were heals that are locked on there feet (or making a firm wear them to get used to them) is not as crazy as what happens in her family. I get that she is happy bit why is her situation not freaky when locking he's are?

Ines

Natescage but is it more freaky then Sara talking about getting spanked by her dad and made to stand in a corner?

I wrote my opinion about this a lot of times. But for me is not freaky... just terrible.
And I think that "lock" heels are far of have a firm hand in order a girl wear them.
For me is same for boys, parents must teach them to dress correctly.
I googled about Valadar consideration, and mostly (or almost all) content is fetishism.
I respect all, but is not my cup of tea.

Vanessa

Ines Heels give professional image too

I agree.I think in some jobs,or for some receptions,a woman should wear heels.Even if she not like it and not wear it often,except in such situation,she should be able to wear heels if needed.

Natescage

I get spanked and put in the corner too,but I would feel more disturbing to have shoes locked on me...

Ines And I think that "lock" heels are far of have a firm hand in order a girl wear them.
For me is same for boys, parents must teach them to dress correctly.

I agree.

Ines I think that is far easier, less with exceptions as Angelina that hates heels, in general girls like them (even if sometimes hate them at same time 😆).
All of us know the effect that produce a pair of shoes in a woman image, so, in general all have heels, at least for special occasions.

Right!

Natescage she should practice in then it will help her later.

We tried to convince her,with no success...

Natescage

Ines yes I know it was something I had thought of. But yes can just be strict and send the girt to school in heels, especially if she doesn't have sports that day. Could always send shoes for the sports to and tell her to wear the heel's. She might not like it at first but in my experience girls who were heals young get attention from boys. They walk more feminine and look more attractive because if it. Then just need a belt then to make sure no nonsense with the boy's.
😀

Ines

Natescage
I think that is far easier, less with exceptions as Angelina that hates heels, in general girls like them (even if sometimes hate them at same time 😆).
All of us know the effect that produce a pair of shoes in a woman image, so, in general all have heels, at least for special occasions.
But, if I would have "a exception" with my daughter, for sure I will do she learn to wear them, because is a thing that is necessary and with some age she would be grateful.

Natescage more feminine

And make feel us more secure of ourselves. Wear heels is as go hairdressing saloon. Balsamic 😂

Natescage

Ines couldn't agree more.i didnt know @Angelina doesn't like heals but she should practice in then it will help her later.

Natescage

Vanessa I admit the shoes thing was featuring I saw them on internet but learning to walk in heals is good I'm currently persuade my friend at school to do it so she looks good for internships. An hour a day walking in them is enough.

Ines

Natescage
If a girl refuses to learn to walk or stay elegantly with heels, that girl is closing doors in her life.
In life and work, a elegant and powerful woman usually wears heels and skirt.
Do you think in an attorney, for example, first image in your heads... For sure is not wearing a jeans and a top.

Vanessa

Natescage learning to walk in heals is good

I agree,but she should not be forced to by wearing such locked shoes.Or she would hate it a lot and would never wear it as soon as she lives on her own.

Ines If a girl refuses to learn to walk or stay elegantly with heels, that girl is closing doors in her life.
In life and work, a elegant and powerful woman usually wears heels and skirt.

I agree too.I guess,even if a woman doesn't like it,she should be able to,if it is needed.

Natescage

Ines or sneakers or uggs or flip flops or Crocs or anything else really.

Angelina

this topic has gone in a direction I don't like very much 😉

i will continue to consistently refuse to wear high heels 😉

to get back to the original issue, i asked my father a few days ago if there is a possibility to delete everything from the contracts that would be the consequence of a separation from camryn

He told me to pick out any contract that said anything about it and think of a reasonable penalty. He will then decide if these penalties will be accepted.

Natescage

Angelina the heals thing was kind of a joke. So you got to pick the parts out of the contract that would separate you and camryn, or was it the punishment's for breaking up with her? (I'm confused why you would be punished for that). What did you pick as a punishment instead?

Vanessa

Angelina this topic has gone in a direction I don't like very much 😉

i will continue to consistently refuse to wear high heels 😉

🤣

Angelina to get back to the original issue, i asked my father a few days ago if there is a possibility to delete everything from the contracts that would be the consequence of a separation from camryn

He told me to pick out any contract that said anything about it and think of a reasonable penalty. He will then decide if these penalties will be accepted.

Good he's not against it.Remember to check our ideas we posted here,it can help you to find one.

Angelina

Natescage

they are punishments that would result in the separation from camryn. if i would separate from her, i would of course not be punished

i have not decided anything yet, i am still thinking, it is not easy to find hard punishments for myself

Angelina

Vanessa

i have a few ideas but i'm not sure what i'm going to suggest yet

Natescage

Angelina what are you trying to choose between?

Angelina

Natescage

i am currently thinking about penalties such as no money, early curfew or early bedtime (which my father no longer determines).

i am not sure if this is hard enough for my father, even if i offer it for a long time

more extreme ideas are for example to wear very warm clothes in summer or even that he is allowed to use the handcuffs again

but I'm not sure I can take it.

Sara2001

Angelina more extreme ideas are for example to wear very warm clothes in summer

I am not sure that this is healthy.

I think you should think about to offer corner time.

Vanessa

Angelina

Your ideas seem mainly good.

When do you plan to talk with him about it?

Sara2001

I agree.I think it can lead to some illness...

Cornertime is a good idea too.

Angelina it's an idea, but this kind of punishment never existed in our family before because we both find it very humiliating. but i will think about it

It is not bad.The breaking up punishment was a new one,so it would be replaced by another new one.

Sara2001 Isn't this one important aspect of a punishment, especially if it is for a major infraction?

I agree.It is one of the main purposes of the cornertime.

Angelina standing in the corner was not part of this principle

While in the corner,you're supposed to think about your offense and yout punishment.And it can be part of the punishment,with other parts,like writing an essay.

Angelina

Sara2001 I am not sure that this is healthy.

neither do I, so I'm still thinking and researching a lot

Sara2001 I think you should think about to offer corner time.

it's an idea, but this kind of punishment never existed in our family before because we both find it very humiliating. but i will think about it

Sara2001

Angelina we both find it very humiliating

Isn't this one important aspect of a punishment, especially if it is for a major infraction?

Angelina

Sara2001

it is important that the misconduct is considered and a certain amount of performance (such as essays) as compensation and to show that the rules have been understood

standing in the corner was not part of this principle

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